One warning and she goes no second chances dirty b!tch

Just tell her straight. If you can't tell her to do that or get her to buy toilet roll then maybe a new flatmate is in order. What happens when bigger issues come up? 17 or not. If she's old enough to have a flat she's old enough to take responsibility for it

Call a house meeting and lay down some ground rules.

I don't know how you can stand it. I would have to wash them lol

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Originally posted by Poolshark:
She's only been living with us a few weeks now, but already starting to bug me, she made some pasta and a sauce on Friday and the pots are still in the sink and I need to use them this week, but why should I have to wash them up? Also she is leaving the heating on when it does not need to be on, and I have mentioned to her we are down to our last toilet roll and could she get some seeing as I got the last lot.

Is this a wind up?

Bolds good ...

I posted on something else ..

Just STAB THE BITCH FIRST......


an sing like a opera singer you let offeverything an your doing Euro..loL



as posed now
women eh an hard done by yeah ...

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
I posted on something else ..

Just STAB THE BITCH FIRST......


an sing like a opera singer you let offeverything an your doing Euro..loL



as posed now
women eh an hard done by yeah ...

Stay off the crack

Can't you just say ............i want to use those pots tonight ....can you make sure they're clean for me.

Then say .........if we use pots - we usually leave them clean for others to use afterwards. Smile very nicely - but let her know.

Must say ........that's mighty inconsiderate TBH.

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
I posted on something else ..

Just STAB THE BITCH FIRST......


an sing like a opera singer you let offeverything an your doing Euro..loL



as posed now
women eh an hard done by yeah ...

Hey, No Need to be so offensive. Remember we're talking about a 17yr old child. And yes she is still a child.

She's 17, probably never lived away from mum and dad before. Probably has no idea how to act. Teach her.



Then dump the dirty dishes in her bed

She needs to be told.
She could leave the stove on next!

I've thought this through a little more..

In addition to my previous advice of dumping dirty pots and pans in the bed, buying that really scratchy loo roll and keeping the luxury stuff for yourself, dumping the contents of the unemptied bin in her bed, disabling the heating and leaving her post and only collecting your own.. I have come up with a cunning alternative plan..

Up the rent by a reasonable proportion to cover any extra heating and getting a lady 'that does' in to clean up after her.. the loo roll and post advice however remains the same.

If none of this works.. then the old shape up or ship out convo.

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Originally posted by Blizzie:
She needs to be told.
She could leave the stove on next!

:innocent:

This still seems like a whole lotta bother for some washing up that would take, what... 20 mins tops?

And like ironing, it's theraputic.

Some people could seriously use some therapy, IMO

quote:

Originally posted by paace:
Hey, No Need to be so offensive. Remember we're talking about a 17yr old child. And yes she is still a child.

17yos are hardly 'children'.

I'd take to weeing in the sink

Update on the situation:

So I came home last night and the dirty pots were still in the sink, I asked her nicely if she would mind washing them, she said yes but still when I came down this morning they were still in the sink. Also the toilet roll is runninig low and I'm going to get my own and keep it in my room.

Tell her she isn't at home now and you are not her Mother/parents
To brighten her ideas smartish if she want to be treated like an adult or she's out and back to Mum and being a child again

quote:

Originally posted by Poolshark:
Update on the situation:

So I came home last night and the dirty pots were still in the sink, I asked her nicely if she would mind washing them, she said yes but still when I came down this morning they were still in the sink. Also the toilet roll is runninig low and I'm going to get my own and keep it in my room.

Uh-oh, you didn't give her a timeframe! She said she'd wash them, but not when. I'd ask her again if I were you.

quote:

Originally posted by paace:

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
I posted on something else ..

Just STAB THE BITCH FIRST......


an sing like a opera singer you let offeverything an your doing Euro..loL



as posed now
women eh an hard done by yeah ...

Hey, No Need to be so offensive. Remember we're talking about a 17yr old child. And yes she is still a child.

Rubbish
I knew better than that when I was half her age
No excuses at all

quote:

Originally posted by The Secretary:
This still seems like a whole lotta bother for some washing up that would take, what... 20 mins tops?

And like ironing, it's theraputic.

Some people could seriously use some therapy, IMO

I had the same problem when I lived in a shared house, some people never washed up etc and a couple of us would always give in and wash it cos we needed the pots... but you just think, why should I do it, its not my mess - I washed my own things already Its why I live on my own now

You made the fatal mistake of asking her would she mind washing them up.

If they are still there when you get home then change the request to an instruction.

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Originally posted by tupps:
You made the fatal mistake of asking her would she mind washing them up.

If they are still there when you get home then change the request to an instruction.

Yes
"get your filthy squalor clean up this minute or else"

quote:

Originally posted by SazBomb:

quote:

Originally posted by The Secretary:
This still seems like a whole lotta bother for some washing up that would take, what... 20 mins tops?

And like ironing, it's theraputic.

Some people could seriously use some therapy, IMO

I had the same problem when I lived in a shared house, some people never washed up etc and a couple of us would always give in and wash it cos we needed the pots... but you just think, why should I do it, its not my mess - I washed my own things already Its why I live on my own now

I lived with a dirty slut as well
she would eat a meal and stub her cigarette out in the bits that were left
her friends slept in my bed when I was away
I left her

Much more of this and I'll come round and do em meself

I have dirty pots for you Secsy!

I can keep you busy as well

Actually you should go and teach the dirty trollop how it should be done

quote:

Originally posted by Blizzie:
I have dirty pots for you Secsy!

It sounds so sinister when you say it

quote:

Originally posted by Puddychops:
I can keep you busy as well

Actually you should go and teach the dirty trollop how it should be done

Please don't turn me into the forum Kim & Aggie

quote:

Originally posted by The Secretary:

quote:

Originally posted by Blizzie:
I have dirty pots for you Secsy!

It sounds so sinister when you say it

Good sinister?

quote:

Originally posted by The Secretary:

quote:

Originally posted by Puddychops:
I can keep you busy as well

Actually you should go and teach the dirty trollop how it should be done

Please don't turn me into the forum Kim & Aggie

You could just warn her of the perils of live bacteria

I used to resnt a room in a local hairdresser when I first started my busines and rth Saturday girl was washing cups for the hairdressers clients under the cold tap
I said to her
"I want you to imagine that someone with a weeping cold sore has been drinking from this mug and you are going to drink from it next"

she went through a bottle of fairy liquid and all the hot water that afternoon
The hairdresser who had failed to address the problem and tell her was furious because she didn't have hot water for her clients

I know I'll be in a bad mood when I get home and the thought of dirty dishes in the sink and me being made redundant is not going to help!. My flatmate will get a warning that I'm not in the mood today to upset before I remind her of the state of the kitchen again!

Quick query - has no one eaten in your house since Friday Poolie - if the pans have been there since then what have you been using to cook?

God, house shares.

My last house share scared the life out of me as I reckon if the person I shared with had pushed it just a little bit more then I would probably have committed murder. I could barely sleep at night with stress and rage and when I did I had very violent dreams. It took me about three or four years to get over that.

quote:

Originally posted by Lady P:
Quick query - has no one eaten in your house since Friday Poolie - if the pans have been there since then what have you been using to cook?

Sunday morning I had cereal and coffee, and ate some shepherds pie that I had made on Thursday that was in a tub in the fridge, just needed warming up in the microwave along with some steam veg, but I washed all my plates and cutlery after, yesterday I was not that hungry, I ate come some samosas and onion barjees that I had bought from Lidle on Sunday, just warmed them up on a plate in the micro and had them on a plate with ketchup, again just had to wash my plate. I left her stuff in the sink.

Just tell her, calmly and politely:

"OI! Slovenly knickers! Wash your sodding POTS!"

quote:

Originally posted by Poolshark:

quote:

Originally posted by Lady P:
Quick query - has no one eaten in your house since Friday Poolie - if the pans have been there since then what have you been using to cook?

Sunday morning I had cereal and coffee, and ate some shepherds pie that I had made on Thursday that was in a tub in the fridge, just needed warming up in the microwave along with some steam veg, but I washed all my plates and cutlery after, yesterday I was not that hungry, I ate come some samosas and onion barjees that I had bought from Lidle on Sunday, just warmed them up on a plate in the micro and had them on a plate with ketchup, again just had to wash my plate. I left her stuff in the sink.

Ah I see - I had visions of you wasting away until she cleaned the pans

We had a rat in the kitchen, the other night.
If it comes back, I will send it round to you and you can put that in her bed!

quote:

Originally posted by Blizzie:
We had a rat in the kitchen, the other night.
If it comes back, I will send it round to you and you can put that in her bed!

Wow, we only get slugs and the odd woodlouse
Can I ask for a council tax rebate?