Organise a large family meal - all the relatives and that - and tell 'em you're going to do a turn after dinner.  Just when they think they're about to get a wee song perhaps or a short comedy routine, wheel out the boy friend, drop your trousers and start rutting on the dining room table.  That ought to clear things up.

Perhaps I  shall ask elsewhere! It seems very anti gay on here tonight for some reason.

Perhaps I  shall ask elsewhere! It seems very anti gay on here tonight for some reason


Not taken with me advice then? 

You've been here before then? What's your normal handle? This forum is anything but anti-gay. Brisket and PC for example are much-loved and very popular. You've come out of nowhere and people are slightly suspicious. If you're a regular poster (as your last comment suggests) why not just say who you are and people will be more sympathetic.


I have not had the courage to join before, but I like to read things. I'm jut so down right now what with all the problems at home and the health issues with my cat. I feel nobody is listening or caring. I feel like I'm being used by friends and family so I decided to join up yesterday. I was part of the c4 team atb one point but never really posted thee either.

I'm sure she does, and do you have to tell your dad?

Tell me the day you move out.



You're his Dad?  Christ, this gets more complex by the minute.


On the plus side, I wouldn't worry about it now, Mickey.  He already knows.

Easy?   Easy????  'kin easy is it?????????????????????????!1!!!!  





S'alright for you to say.  Insensitive swine  \/

Easy?   Easy????  'kin easy is it?????????????????????????!1!!!!  





S'alright for you to say.  Insensitive swine  \/

Hmmn..just sit them down and tell them..simple.Can't be arsed with all ...ohh dear,,agnts  etc..

could you afford to move out of the family home? (if you are that frightened of your dad) go stay with friends, if you could do that and then tell your parents, you have somewhere to stay if it all goes tits up so to speak.

Mickey as you don't feel you can tell your parents at the moment but need to speak to someone isn't there an advice centre for gays that you could talk to, they may be able to help, at least they'll listen.

Maybe I shouldn't be but I'm amazed at the insensitivity and sarcasm towards Mickey and his problem. Whether he's new or not, whether he's seriously seeking advice or not is another issue. Why can't new members posts be taken at face value...if some of them are a wind up then so be it but at least give new members a chance and listen to them for a while before making a judgement.


Mickey as you don't feel you can tell your parents at the moment but need to speak to someone isn't there an advice centre for gays that you could talk to, they may be able to help, at least they'll listen.

Maybe I shouldn't be but I'm amazed at the insensitivity and sarcasm towards Mickey and his problem.