Noooo, that was Maxi - his thread is still in the Lounge

OMG - Ladies .... it was AKACrawley - or something like that

That's who I'm tryna think of

Crawley is a little bit posher than Croydon. I should know ...............I was born and bred in Croydon.

Yes Yes Yes 

OH!! I vaguely remember now

Crawleys is in west Sussex !!

I can sleep tonight now

Oh alright, so my geography isn't good - but I got there in the end

He was a complete nutter, but he was our nutter and we liked him

   Yeah, got him now

yep

I sometimes worry that I'll die suddenly and maybe ........................after a yeaR or two someone will say ..............'I wonder whatever happened to Soozy Woo'. I think I'll leave a note in my will with contact details so my kids can come on here and explain. How morbid is that 

I don't remember him

Am not sure what to think of that statement ....but have a hug

He hid in a very murky corner of C4 forums ... it was only me, Pamula, Bagel and Fluffers who went there ... and we all had to hold hands

TB H ............................................i wish I'd not thought out loud there

I think it's a valid point sooz ... but don't think about it yet

Not morbid at all I am sure my daughter would let someone know from here if anything happened to me, it is awful when you wonder what has happened to a FM and you start imagining the worse it is the not knowing..

Blimey Soozy!

And me

OMG, and of course you Marg - you were the one who went first and bought the lashings and lashings of ginger ale

No reason why you should TBH Ferny, I don't think you visited OT on C4 

I've not really got anything positive to say about this subject, sorry Soozy no offence.  But if I did say how I happened upon this forum or why I am here, someone will only mock me anyway, so I'll keep schtum.

All I will say is what you touched on Soozy, that there are a few FMs here who all come in a clump to jump on anyone who isn't in their little gang if they say something remotely controversial, OR if they suspect they are a returning member or someone using more than one i.d..  There are also several people who only ever post to have a dig!  And there's about 9 or 10 usernames, (but I suspect no more than about 3 or 4 different people,) who regularly launch attacks on someone, and they always come on at the same time, and I do wonder if they are on F-book too or if they PM each other on MSN to say 'go on gaga.' 

This forum is not as obscure as people think because it has been mentioned on digital spy and also if anyone googled gaga, looking for lady gaga, it comes up.. well it did for me.  So i think it's a tad arrogant and presumptious and narrow minded for someone to say it's IMPOSSIBLE for anyone else to find this place.

There is (sadly) a clump of FMs on here who try and make it very unpleasant for anyone who is new (or a new username,) and they will attack anything they say and accuse them of being old members returning.  I mean, why not just leave them alone?  Some people just launch attacks and accusations for NO REASON WHATSOEVER....   What's more, most newbies - whether they are new people OR old members returning - are just here to chat and have a good time with people - and yet the SAME 8 to 10 usernames go in for the kill, and absolutely love the conflict, and I am also sure that they flag each other up to come join the 'fun' and back each other up.

I think that it's a shame it isn't more vastly advertised so that dozens of new people can come along and join to create a bit of a new community, because there are a clump of people here who are very hostile who do put people off coming.  That said, I won't stop posting here, and shall just ignore them.  That will annoy them more than anything


All this said, the majority of folk (about 90%) on here are nice...

OH! this has just hit home...........I don't think anyone would know what happened to me

awwww cupcake - don't get involved in any subterfuge ... just post a whole load of rubbish like the rest of us and you will soon feel at home

Thank you Rexi    You're really sweet. 

So are you sproot.    It's hard going sometimes on here, but I know I just need to ignore the baiters. 

You have made a fine start - that really is rubbish

Absolutely ....................and if I may ad an aside - stop posting in green - it sort of draws attention. I have no problem at all with yo but I see the green and it sort of sets alarm bells. Just post along - it doesn't always have to be contreversial.

Thanks Soozy but I think no matter what colour I post in, some people will go in for the kill anyway, and attack me. 

I agree Marg & Soozy.....

Yes she is

Anyway, I just wanted to post my thoughts and add to what you had already said Soozy.  Nice chatting with you all.  Sorry I must go because I am really tired.  Take care. xxx

You ole softie ... cheers Marg

Night cupcake ...sleep well

I am off to bed too - night all

You just can't help yourself can you? A genuine tip: if you weren't so openly argumentative and constantly aggressive you would never have any problem with anyone here. Never. Ever.

I have only one ID on here (ask Lori). I adopted two other user names which I used for the Murder Mystery thing Hoochie arranged for us and I have never used them since. And I'm not on Facebook.

You seem overtly paranoid and you only ever seem to post on controversial threads being incredibly outspoken and launching attacks on people who pull you up on your aggressive posts and mentality.

Just play nice with people on here and they will show you the same respect. It works, it really does. You did the same thing on your last handle, stirring all kinds of stuff then playing the victim. This forum is a much nicer not to mention friendlier place if you just chat to people instead. I am no saint but please, lose the victim deal and just chat and I can guarantee you will have absolutely no problems on here at all.