Firstly I should say I didn't see the programme in question just heard about it and saw a few trailers but...
I kinda hate reading threads like this about people on benefits and those that are working saying why have they got TV's, computers etc..
I am on benefits and have been for quite some yrs now. I suffer severely from anxiety based panic attacks and as a result am now agoraphobic. I don't go out, I don't socialise, I have no family left living, I am on my own. I rent a Telly, I have a laptop and an old desktop PC, I have the internet and a Virgin media STB.. I have a mobile phone cos it's cheaper to use than the landline.. I am addicted to smoking and was for 20 or so yrs before I was no longer able to work so I now smoke Asda cheap brand rolling tobacco. I had a glass of wine with my Xmas dinner and one with my new years day dinner. but threads like this make me feel feel guilty for using my benefit money for those things when I read what people say about people having 'luxuries' on benefits.
I don't have things like the latest Ipads or Kindles or games consoles.. we'll apart from a cheap Wii Fit to try and help me and my joint problems.. didn't work tho.. or designer anything.. I don't posses a dishwater or tumble dryer. . my washing machine was a wedding present and is 32 yrs old. .My fridge and cooker are newer tho
The TV is my only company... as is the internet. .it also enables me to do my grocery shopping, thankfully. I have a 39 yr old car which I use once or twice a month if I need to get something urgent from the shops or prescriptions from the chemist.. I can manage the odd short trip to do these things now and then as I can't use public transport due to not having control about dashing back home asap if an attack starts coming on. .with my car I have full control over where and when I nip out and for how long and how far..
The whole of last year I went out twice.. .once to a pub and once to a cheapo all you can eat restaurant.. they were a treat from a friend.. and were on one of my very rare good days when I could handle being away from my safe place for more than half an hour.. yet I read a thread like this and feel guilty for my 'luxuries' ..
I used to work, I used to own my own house, I used to have a family and husband. .circumstances changed I no longer do or have any of those. . am I not allowed to at least not go even more stark raving mad by having some company in the house even if it is via the airwaves.. Silence is the deadly enemy especially if your anxiety has your brain going 19 to the dozen most of the time and the TV or puter helps to distract it.. it's not as if I chose for it to be like this..
Gawd who'd have known all those years ago when I was young and fit and had my life in front of me that I'd turn into such a saddo
ps I have a cat too
pps I am not saying all this for sympathy or cuddles just saying how being lumped as ' being on benefits' doesn't mean we are all the same even if some of us do have some 'luxuries'.
ppps And after all that, I have always voted Conservative