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(addressed to him but at this address) - it was from John Lewis saying he owed over £1500

Bloody hell, she has been busy...I'd contact john Lewis Customer Services direct, you should find the info on the net...and tell them he doesn't live there...if she keeps it up, I would honestly try and get her down for harassment...

3/10/102:34 PM

AimeeMember

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just in case he laid a finger on me

but then you let him move in

in the case of the letters you just need to send them back *unopened* saying not at this address, all they need to do is check that he is not listed as living at that address

3/10/102:37 PM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

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What DID said under no circumstances let any debt collectors in!!! Once they have entered a property peacfully they are then legally allowed to hire lock smiths to get in again if they think the property in there is by rights theres.

They walked into my friends kitchen a few months ago, she was late with her COuncil Tax, and had been down to the Town Hall to pay cash but they wouldn't let her as it had been 'passed over'....they wouldn't leave, wouldn't let her speak to anyone of their superiors on the phone etc...she managed to get hold of the Lady at the Town Hall who she had tried to sort the payment out with, but they still wouldn't listen and she paid them to get them out of her house...

....they even told her they'd say she LET them in, she didn't...their word against hers....she told them that if they didn't leave after she had gave them what she had in her purse, she could say much worse (if you get my drift), two blokes and one Woman...they went after they had taken payment,but she was shaken up!

3/10/102:39 PM

Former Member

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can't you pass his Parents address on to the bailiffs?

Why would she do that DID? He's back 'at home,' with his wife

3/10/102:39 PM

kattymieowwMember 10 years

It's a pretty poor show that these companies believe via word of mouth that someone is living at an address etc.I suspect that they bluster and threaten before actually checking it out properly.They can't send bailiffs etc in otherwise,I'd still threaten her with legal letters though.

3/10/102:41 PM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

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Why would she do that DID? He's back 'at home,' with his wife

Ahh, sorry, must've missed that part

Barmy, he sound like a proper creep, you never know what he is saying to his Wife, I once went out with a bloke for 4 years, he lived a double life for the last 2 of them and told his other GF that I was stalking him

He is probably not helping her paranoia at all...

3/10/102:42 PM

kattymieowwMember 10 years

We don't have bailiffs in Scotland,debt has to go through the courts,not collection agencies etc.

3/10/102:43 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

DiD - thats exactly what she has said to me in emails - he apparently has told her that I am stalking him and that I am mad and all sorts of stuff - HE is the one who wont leave me alone!!!

3/10/103:03 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

Aimee - I didnt let him move in - not in the slightest - he was just here most of the FEW days that he had left and on the nights he was working - any other time he wasnt here he was at his parents, and I know that because he foned me from there and I called him there and his parents even foned him when he was here lol

3/10/103:05 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

totally totally agree with you up there ^^^^ katty - my good name (financially) is/could be ruined by all of this. I honestly HONESTLY dont owe ANYONE anything

3/10/103:07 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

want to thank you ALL so far for your words of advice/encouragement - we're a good bunch all in all

thank you

3/10/103:13 PM

Yellow RoseMember

Haven't read every reply so maybe this has been covered. If the debts are in his name you can't be made to pay them. If Bailiff's come round they can't take goods that belong to you. Keep phoning CAB till you speak to them, also check your credit rating for free at http://www.experian.co.uk/. Good Luck, and by the sounds of it good riddance to him.

3/10/103:21 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

thanx hun ^^^^^ will do!

3/10/103:25 PM

BARMYBRUMMIE - Slickman to WIN!Member

again thanx Yellow Rose

have just had a check and its fascinating reading lol - wonder if i could check out HIS lol

3/10/103:43 PM

Yellow RoseMember

glad it helped and it's worth giving it a go lol

3/10/103:48 PM

Mount Olympus *Olly*Member 10 years

first thing that crossed my mind was how do you know it was her that gave the debt collectors your address.. from what you've said about him I'd think it was him that did that to get them off his back at home..

Also as far as your address being blacklisted I thought the law had changed so a person was blacklisted not an address, due to problems people with good credit had when moving to a new property that had previous debts listed against it..

lesson to be learnt here I think.. don't mess with married/attached men

3/11/102:50 AM

Blizz'ardMember 10 years

This is the woman who you were going to contact and ask why she wanted her husband to delete you from his Facebook account? Just before Christmas?

The one you were annoyed with, because she was suspicious of your relationship with her husband, even though he had just propositioned you?

3/11/103:01 AM

El LoroMember VIP10 yearsModerator

BarmieBrummy, this is a police matter as harassment is a crime. You might want to read this article about a Birmingham man who was the first man to be tried for harassment over Facebook. Birmingam Mail

3/11/103:19 AM

JennyMember

Don't open anymore envelopes addressed to him, mark them as not known at this address and put them back in the postbox.

I see you've been opening them and then telling him what they said. Forget it! It's his problem, don't help him out on this. He sounds a right scumbag.

3/11/103:26 AM

DemantoidMember

And this, folks, is why I don't join Facebook.
Although if I did, I think I'd know better than to get suckered in by a married man who wanted to be 'friends' without his missus knowing, then blame her for getting angry when she found out.

Flippinell, Brummie, please be more sensible in future - and stop acting like you wouldn't be just as annoyed as this loser's wife, if you were in her shoes.

Yellow Rose is quite right - ignore all post addressed to him except to return it. And keep an eye on your credit rating.

3/11/105:01 AM

Sexy_KellyMember

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The Devil In Diamante 5460 Forum Posts Yesterday at 2:39 PM (Last Edited: Reference: What DID said under no circumstances let any debt collectors in!!! Once they have entered a property peacfully they are then legally allowed to hire lock smiths to get in again if they think the property in there is by rights theres. They walked into my friends kitchen a few months ago, she was late with her COuncil Tax, and had been down to the Town Hall to pay cash but they wouldn't let her as it had been 'passed over'....they wouldn't leave, wouldn't let her speak to anyone of their superiors on the phone etc...she managed to get hold of the Lady at the Town Hall who she had tried to sort the payment out with, but they still wouldn't listen and she paid them to get them out of her house... ....they even told her they'd say she LET them in, she didn't...their word against hers....she told them that if they didn't leave after she had gave them what she had in her purse, she could say much worse (if you get my drift), two blokes and one Woman...they went after they had taken payment,but she was shaken up!

DID you should tell your friend to report this to the police as it is illegal then report it to the council. They should care what kind of companies represent them!

3/11/109:38 AM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

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DID you should tell your friend to report this to the police as it is illegal then report it to the council. They should care what kind of companies represent them!

She phoned the Woman at the Council (who she'd tried to pay the cash to) while they were there...her word against theirs Kelly, she was just glad to get rid of them, and glad her Son wasn't home. She lives in a Bungalow and could've just come out of the Bathroom half naked 10 minutes earlier....they didn't care that they were intimidating her one iota!

They said that they had sent letters etc, which they hadn't, they also said that they had spoken to her on the phone, and had called round and seen her hiding, she asked what date this was, they pulled out a notebook and gave her a date....this was impossible as she was in Koala Lumpur at the time and had the plane tickets to prove it.....

3/11/109:47 AM

Yellow RoseMember

If you get any more letters and don't open them write on the envelope Not at this address forward to....and then put their address. That way whoever of the pair have done this the other one will get to know about it.

3/11/109:51 AM

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