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"Peak experience" was a theory expounded by Abraham Maslow (who, along with Carl Rogers, was at the forefront of the Humanistic school of psychology during the 20th century.)
One of the things Maslow described was the "peak experience."
Peak experiences are described by Maslow as:
"especially joyous and exciting moments in life, involving sudden feelings of intense happiness and well-being, wonder and awe".


"Feelings of limitless horizons opening up to the vision, 
the feeling of being simultaneously more powerful and also more helpless than one ever was before

the feeling of ecstasy and wonder and awe,
the loss of placement in time and space with, finally, 
the conviction that something extremely important and valuable had happened, so that the subject was to some extent transformed and strengthened even in his daily life by such experiences

Abraham Maslow.


Sorry about the long intro.
Do you think you have had one?
Not just seeing a pretty sunset and thinking "ah that's nice".  Not just hearing a piece of music ands thinking it is lovely.
But a greater  and more intense experience than that.  Something very close to ecstasy.
Have you had a "peak experience?"

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Like Yogi, I had the same feeling when I held my sons, it was euphoria. I suppose nothing can compare to that but I`ve had different experiences of a "peak experience."  
I was in Greece with my sister and we walked to the back trails and saw the real life of the Greek farming people, growing lemons, oranges, goats grazing in their back yards. An old Greek lady came out of her house and picked herbs from the side of the path and waved hello to us. 
It was so quiet and peaceful. We both felt a sense of peace. I`ll never forget it.
Scotty
I think it is rather good that Maslow described these feelings in the way he did.
Not everyone is good with words (this forum is an exception of course  , so when asked to describe suich a wonderful and intense feeling many may simply resort to seeing something such as "it was great" or "I was speechless."
But to hear a psychologists fuller and more detailed description emables us to become more aware that we have indeed experienced a very special moment in our lives.
The posts on here convey it wonderfully.
brisket
I can think of another one. Up on one of the Uists (Outer Hebrides) on a wide, empty beach, late afternoon in winter, no-one else around but me and the OH. Because the island's so flat, I could see from horizon to horizon and the sensation was one of being surrounded by the sky on all sides - rainbows, dark clouds and sunlit blues all at once. And no sound except sea birds and our boots on the sand..
Demantoid
Me too Isa I've had a few But the one I remember the most was 2 days after my son was born, I was sitting outside the hospital having a ciggy and just taking stock of what the hell was going on and rather amazed at what had happened. Then it just hit me like a truck and although I can't describe the feeling in words, I'll never forget it.
Karma_
you can work on experiencing that feeling more and more. I used to get it diving but have found lots of joy in little moments. I believe life is made up of lots of little moments and the trick is to enjoy them. The big and bad shit happens to us all but we can try and focus less on it and enjoy all the little stuff. I genuinely like to stop and admire all that's around me, literally, my hubby thinks I'm odd sometimes as I'll go and touch leaves and just stand still in a forest for a bit (we live near a country park) having said that I get mental and scream and stress at times too !
J
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Me too Isa I've had a few But the one I remember the most was 2 days after my son was born, I was sitting outside the hospital having a ciggy and just taking stock of what the hell was going on and rather amazed at what had happened. Then it just hit me like a truck and although I can't describe the feeling in words, I'll never forget it.
Hi Karma
It is great isn't it. So many things have happened to me this year that it is almost like a swing in a different direction- a huge scary swing but one that has made me so much happier and at peace with myself.
And even now, I have had more news today that has made me think " oh okay, perhaps the universe has been trying to tell me something".
I finally feel that I am on the path I was supposed to be on.. 
FM
My partner and I were laying in bed one lazy Sunday morning.

 6 months earlier he had spent nearly 2 weeks on conorary care with a particularly bad case of a viral infection. At that time I thought he was either gonna die or at least be severely disabled or even only have a few months to live.

Laying in bed entwined in only the warmth of our bodies 6 months later, him recovering physically.....me recovering mentally.......a pure peak experience.......personified.
lainy m
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yes, in the australian outback, dead of night...I got out of the car. looking up at the stars.. my god the stars were amazing.. milky way directly above, not a sound to be heard or a light anywhere.
Oh my God that sounds like my idea of heaven! We very rarely get clear stars in London, just polluted crap and being near to the airport doesn't help either. The stars in the west country are beautiful, though. But your experience sounds amazing.
Karma_
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yes, in the australian outback, dead of night...I got out of the car.  looking up at the stars.. my god the stars were amazing.. milky way directly above, not a sound to be heard or a light anywhere. Then i spotted asteroids flying across the sky.. twas magical
I had a very similar experience to that Clumsycat. Except I was a young teenager on holiday with my parents in the Caribbean. We went on a guided night into the canefields to see the stars. The guide brought telescopes and told us what we were going to see.

But because it was so unpolluted everything was visible and I saw deep into the Milky Way through the telescope. I was too young to experience it as I should have, but remember to this day how much differently I would have done now.  

However. brisket, I think I've had exactly the sort of thing you've described!

I'd been on a trip in France with a mate. We'd been traveling around at a fairly hectic pace in northern France having spent a few fab days in Paris (Pompidou Centre being my highlight there. My mate hates modern art, so you can imagine how that went down with me!)  I'd put up with the very dull Bayeaux Tapestry for him btw.  

Anyhoo.. having discovered the Monet gardens were shut on the afternoon we intended to visit them, we headed further south to Chartres (can't do accents, sorry.)

As we approached Chartres over the flatlands the cathedral suddenly sprung up out of an apparently hidden hollow. I was impressed then, but it disappeared as we tried to navigate into the town to park.

So when we'd parked, we wandered up to the front of the cathedral. Very underwhelming, I thought.

However. When I entered I had that peak experience. I'm not in the slightest religious, have visited many amazing churches and cathedrals, Venice etc. But when I entered Chartres cathedral I gasped... don't know why. But it became like walking into the Tardis!

I had that transcendent sense of amazement and unimportance in the universe. I can still call on that memory. I spent hours there that day just absorbing that feeling.  

Bloody hell!   Sorry about that!!! I should have blogged it!... Actually, I will now! 
Xochi
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However. When I entered I had that peak experience. I'm not in the slightest religious, have visited many amazing churches and cathedrals, Venice etc. But when I entered Chartres cathedral I gasped... don't know why. But it became like walking into the Tardis!

I had that transcendent sense of amazement and unimportance in the universe. I can still call on that memory. I spent hours there that day just absorbing that feeling
oh I felt like that when I walked into St Peter's - dunno if it was strong enough to be a peak experience though (for me I mean)
SazBomb

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