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Suzi, I do hope you decide to come back   I suspect that you've had something said to you by someone which has put you off posting maybe?  Or you have had an argument with someone?  If so, just let it go...if you can...  Let's face it, there are more lovely, agreeable people on here that we get on with, than there are people that we don't get on with...   and we are never going to agree with everyone or have everyone agree with us and like us...

I think most people on here on here who post regularly, or who have a voice or an opinion, have to take the odd bit of flak, as someone is bound to disagree with you, and you may even have a bit of sarcasm about what you have said.   Plus there's always going to be someone who dislikes you (not necessarily you LOL, but I mean people in general,) and will perhaps have a go at what you say, just for the sake of it.   Like I said on a post yesterday: I have noticed that peoples' reactions and responses to a particular comment, depends on who has posted the comment.

I joined here last summer after searching for a tv forum online, and posted a bit on the IT crowd and desperate housewives and Corrie boards, but noticed that this board got more posts and more chat, so I posted a bit more on here.  Because I am usually at work, I am not usually a regular poster, but I have been off work for a month and a half, and have been posting a lot on here.  I admit that I am guilty of making a couple of rude and sarcy remarks, but only when I have been really wound up and I have usually explained on the thread why I 'had a moment.'  However, there have been a couple of rather snide comments aimed at me by several posters, but no explanation why, or any particular reason for it.  (That I can see...)

A couple of times, I actually PM'd the posters in question, and asked them what I had done to upset them, but they didn't answer me, so I am still clueless LOL.   I am not going to lose sleep over it though:  I have asked once, and shan't ask again.  I can see clearly now, the people who are hostile towards me and I shan't speak to them or acknowledge them again.  I don't get ignored more than once, if people are funny for no reason and can't even say why.  It happened last over this past weekend, and I shan't be asking anyone else who is a bit funny what the problem is.  Life is too short to care about what people think of you, especially people who really don't matter.  So maybe you could do the same Suzi... just ignore the ones who have made you want to leave.
   
Maybe it's a case (as a few people have pointed out,) that some people are very suspicious of new (or new-ish) posters, and have a tendency to jump on them and not trust them from the onset, which is a shame, because new posters are not being given a chance.    Thankfully, most people here are nice and friendly, but I have experienced a little bit of hostility, but the good outweighs the bad..  thankfully.


So please reconsider Suzi.  Whatever (or whoever) has upset you; just let it go and have a day or two off and then come back. 

That said, I am back at work this week after six weeks off, and won't be posting very much now - not for a while anyway.  But I will post now and again when I have time.  Have a nice week everyone, and hopefully you come back Suzi. 

FM
Hiya back Marguerita   Aww, that is a shame when someone deregisters.  I guess they have to ask the mods to do it for them.  I hope Suzi is OK.  I can only think something must be wrong, otherwise, if someone was just busy, and wasn't planning on posting for a while, why not just put a 'not posting for a while' type thread.. Oh well, I am sure she has her reasons.  She does imply that she did it before though   ..  so maybe she will return.  If you're reading this Suzi, don't leave it too long. 
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