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Originally Posted by Aquarius:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:

Cup take a break then come back.....As for the rest I could say a lot but later will do,the big I  am's need a mirror,yes while accusations were flying and fingers were pointing 5 pointed back at them.

 

 

 

I'm intrigued by your post Lee.  I haven't seen you around for ages (welcome back btw) and am wondering if you have a different take on this situation, see it more objectively than us regular posters.  I look forward to hearing any comments you might have which could be helpful to the community as a whole.

 

 Hi Aquarius,hope you're well....I haven't been around for ages,tbh initially my intentions were never to come back ,like Cupcakes I had had my fill of it all.Smoking mirror threads,posts being dissected twisted and turned and an overall bad vibe.The potential of the place becoming sooo parochial for fear that anything or everything posted could affect a FM,just crazy imo and realistically no-one needs it,we've enough pooh to deal with in RL .

 

 

~Lee~

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Scotty
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 when you feel people are attacking you just because they don't have the same views that is when you don't need to be foruming..

but that's the whole point of a forum....or so I thought. To discuss certain topics and air your own personal views. Even in the real word, not everyone is going to have the same opinion. When Big Brother is on, something will happen in the house and when you come on here to discuss you'll more often than not find people see it from all different angles......I always find that aspect  really interesting.

Angel
Originally Posted by Angel:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 when you feel people are attacking you just because they don't have the same views that is when you don't need to be foruming..

but that's the whole point of a forum....or so I thought. To discuss certain topics and air your own personal views. Even in the real word, not everyone is going to have the same opinion. When Big Brother is on, something will happen in the house and when you come on here to discuss you'll more often than not find people see it from all different angles......I always find that aspect  really interesting.

 

Yes but as long as everyone understands that my angle on things is ALWAYS RIGHT!!! GOT IT!!! 

Rawky-Roo
Originally Posted by Rawky-Roo:
Originally Posted by Angel:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 when you feel people are attacking you just because they don't have the same views that is when you don't need to be foruming..

but that's the whole point of a forum....or so I thought. To discuss certain topics and air your own personal views. Even in the real word, not everyone is going to have the same opinion. When Big Brother is on, something will happen in the house and when you come on here to discuss you'll more often than not find people see it from all different angles......I always find that aspect  really interesting.

 

Yes but as long as everyone understands that my angle on things is ALWAYS RIGHT!!! GOT IT!!! 

Damn - I wish I knew who I was supposed to report you to!   

Kaffs
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

~Lee~
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Aquarius:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:

Cup take a break then come back.....As for the rest I could say a lot but later will do,the big I  am's need a mirror,yes while accusations were flying and fingers were pointing 5 pointed back at them.

 

 

 

I'm intrigued by your post Lee.  I haven't seen you around for ages (welcome back btw) and am wondering if you have a different take on this situation, see it more objectively than us regular posters.  I look forward to hearing any comments you might have which could be helpful to the community as a whole.

 

 Hi Aquarius,hope you're well....I haven't been around for ages,tbh initially my intentions were never to come back ,like Cupcakes I had had my fill of it all.Smoking mirror threads,posts being dissected twisted and turned and an overall bad vibe.The potential of the place becoming sooo parochial for fear that anything or everything posted could affect a FM,just crazy imo and realistically no-one needs it,we've enough pooh to deal with in RL .

 

 

Thanks for that Lee.  I can take on board some of the things you say.

Personally, I find myself thinking twice about posting on some things for fear of upsetting anyone.  I wouldn't intentionally do that for the world, and because I can have some pretty 'way out' views sometimes

 





she ruffled a few of our sedate feather....I dunno, but it was good to get your take on it.

 

Aquarius
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

Yes it was, and I`m sorry you`ve been ill Lee, I hope things are better for you.

 

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to post your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

Scotty
Originally Posted by KaffyBaffy:
Originally Posted by Rawky-Roo:
Originally Posted by Angel:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 when you feel people are attacking you just because they don't have the same views that is when you don't need to be foruming..

but that's the whole point of a forum....or so I thought. To discuss certain topics and air your own personal views. Even in the real word, not everyone is going to have the same opinion. When Big Brother is on, something will happen in the house and when you come on here to discuss you'll more often than not find people see it from all different angles......I always find that aspect  really interesting.

 

Yes but as long as everyone understands that my angle on things is ALWAYS RIGHT!!! GOT IT!!! 

Damn - I wish I knew who I was supposed to report you to!   

 

I'm sure there's a Bulleh List somewhere...that might have some contacts on 

Rawky-Roo

My take on it is: if you need a break from the interweb coz it is getting to you....erm....stepping away is a great idea But do people have to announce it every time?! I mean I am sure if cupcake hadnt been around for a while, maybe sooner or later someone would have started a "where is cupcake" thread and sure enough within the first page they would have been there....tis how it works...........I dont think taking a break includes not reading

 

Chill out cupcake!!

zazz
Originally Posted by Scotty:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

Yes it was, and I`m sorry you`ve been ill Lee, I hope things are better for you.

 

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

I notice,I notice a lot .You're 100% wrong about there being more to this,hand on heart that is fact.As for the hexies your guess would be as good as mine in that dept,there haven't been hexies since last year,again fact,perhaps admin would be able to confirm that for you.

~Lee~
Originally Posted by Scotty:

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

This is what I meant with 'the Local forum for Local people' statement I made earlier Scotty.

It's not up to any of us, including myself btw, to question who chooses when and where to post. We can all disagree with eachother over the actual posts we make but this forum is for everyone.

I can't believe that Lee has any sort of an agenda and to insinuate that there is something else going on isn't very fair

FM
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

 

Sorry to be quotetastic here. Nice to see you back, Lee 

 

Scotty, of course you wouldn't agree Cupcake gets picked on.  Cupcake has said, and other FMs agree with her that comments she posts are pulled apart when similar posts made by others do not have the same reaction. This has not been a one-off situation for Cupcake.  No  FM should be made to feel uncomfortable about posting. 

San
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to post your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

This is what I meant with 'the Local forum for Local people' statement I made earlier Scotty.

It's not up to any of us, including myself btw, to question who chooses when and where to post. We can all disagree with eachother over the actual posts we make but this forum is for everyone.

I can't believe that Lee has any sort of an agenda and to insinuate that there is something else going on isn't very fair

Of course it`s not Veggie but when it seems to me that there is an undercurrent, I may be wrong but I do feel it, I think I`m entitled to say so. 

Scotty
Originally Posted by Scotty:
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to post your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

This is what I meant with 'the Local forum for Local people' statement I made earlier Scotty.

It's not up to any of us, including myself btw, to question who chooses when and where to post. We can all disagree with eachother over the actual posts we make but this forum is for everyone.

I can't believe that Lee has any sort of an agenda and to insinuate that there is something else going on isn't very fair

Of course it`s not Veggie but when it seems to me that there is an undercurrent, I may be wrong but I do feel it, I think I`m entitled to say so. 

You're wrong,so wrong it's off the scale tbh.

~Lee~
Originally Posted by Scotty:

Of course it`s not Veggie but when it seems to me that there is an undercurrent, I may be wrong but I do feel it, I think I`m entitled to say so. 


But what you did was to insinuate that Lee had only come here to look for a fight or cause trouble because she hasn't been here much - at least that's how your post read to me, My point was that it is not up to any of us to decide how frequently someone should post so as to not be viewed with suspicion.

No one has to bring a note to explain their absence from here, It is exactly this sort of thing that might put people off of coming back.

 

I do agree that in the past there were a few people that only seemed to come here when things were very nasty but, unless those people were banned, they had the right - no matter how much the regular fms might resent it

FM
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

Yes it was, and I`m sorry you`ve been ill Lee, I hope things are better for you.

 

I suppose what I`m saying is, if you come back why is it just mainly in the  negative. Why not join in on the more positive, fun stuff. It happen on here, if you haven`t noticed. 

 

Yes, you`re entitled to your opinion, as we all are, but I get a feeling there`s more to this than meets the eye. How are the hexies doing? 

I notice,I notice a lot .You're 100% wrong about there being more to this,hand on heart that is fact.As for the hexies your guess would be as good as mine in that dept,there haven't been hexies since last year,again fact,perhaps admin would be able to confirm that for you.

I don`t need admin to confirm it for me, I`m not that interested. 

 

Well, I`m glad that you`re back Lee and hopefully supporting this forum. It has it`s faults but when it comes right down to it, it`s quite unique in it`s own way. I sometimes take a break when it gets too much. I have to shut my gob at times or else I`d get banned but in the main I love this place. 

Scotty
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:

I only turned up for the trouble

I hadn't been here since early February,since it appears I only surfaced because there was controversy would mean there hadn't been a cross word since then,you must have been trouble starved poor thing,

I seem to always miss any crossed words on here these days, I don't read every thread and have no idea what cupcake is on about...which,tbh is kinda nice So when are you going to start the trouble thread...I expect at least one lisssssssssssssssssssst!!

zazz
Originally Posted by San:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

Is that directed at me Scotty?,if it is I'll say as far as I'm aware I am quite entitled to post when and if I like.I haven't been around for reasons I've explained and also due to the fact I've been ill and had a lot of other things to contend with.I don't owe anyone an explanation really but there it is.

 

Sorry to be quotetastic here. Nice to see you back, Lee 

 

Scotty, of course you wouldn't agree Cupcake gets picked on.  Cupcake has said, and other FMs agree with her that comments she posts are pulled apart when similar posts made by others do not have the same reaction. This has not been a one-off situation for Cupcake.  No  FM should be made to feel uncomfortable about posting. 

I don`t understand that Sans. Why wouldn`t I agree? 

 

My opinion is that she doesn`t. 

Scotty
Originally Posted by zazz:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:

I only turned up for the trouble

I hadn't been here since early February,since it appears I only surfaced because there was controversy would mean there hadn't been a cross word since then,you must have been trouble starved poor thing,

I seem to always miss any crossed words on here these days, I don't read every thread and have no idea what cupcake is on about...which,tbh is kinda nice So when are you going to start the trouble thread...I expect at least one lisssssssssssssssssssst!!

Stop the SSSSSSSSSSSSSSS,we need !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *Goes to prepare list*

~Lee~
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:
Originally Posted by Scotty:

Of course it`s not Veggie but when it seems to me that there is an undercurrent, I may be wrong but I do feel it, I think I`m entitled to say so. 


But what you did was to insinuate that Lee had only come here to look for a fight or cause trouble because she hasn't been here much - at least that's how your post read to me, My point was that it is not up to any of us to decide how frequently someone should post so as to not be viewed with suspicion.

No one has to bring a note to explain their absence from here, It is exactly this sort of thing that might put people off of coming back.

 

I do agree that in the past there were a few people that only seemed to come here when things were very nasty but, unless those people were banned, they had the right - no matter how much the regular fms might resent it

That`s your take on it and you`re wrong. I questioned it and Lee answered. I`m happy with that. I`m entitled, like anybody else to air my views/concerns. If I`m wrong, I always hold my hand up..always.  

Scotty
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:

I only turned up for the trouble

I hadn't been here since early February,since it appears I only surfaced because there was controversy would mean there hadn't been a cross word since then,you must have been trouble starved poor thing,

I seem to always miss any crossed words on here these days, I don't read every thread and have no idea what cupcake is on about...which,tbh is kinda nice So when are you going to start the trouble thread...I expect at least one lisssssssssssssssssssst!!

Stop the SSSSSSSSSSSSSSS,we need !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *Goes to prepare list*

**wonders where abouts on it I will be**

zazz
Originally Posted by zazz:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:
Originally Posted by zazz:

I only turned up for the trouble

I hadn't been here since early February,since it appears I only surfaced because there was controversy would mean there hadn't been a cross word since then,you must have been trouble starved poor thing,

I seem to always miss any crossed words on here these days, I don't read every thread and have no idea what cupcake is on about...which,tbh is kinda nice So when are you going to start the trouble thread...I expect at least one lisssssssssssssssssssst!!

Stop the SSSSSSSSSSSSSSS,we need !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *Goes to prepare list*

**wonders where abouts on it I will be**

Same place you are on Santa's list.*Continues listing*

~Lee~
Originally Posted by Scotty:
Originally Posted by San:
 
Originally Posted by Scotty:

It`s strange how some peeps appear only when controversy starts. 

 

As for the debacle going on, I did want to stay out of this thread but enough`s enough.

 

Supes disagreed with Cupcake, so did others, as was their right. She didn`t like it and flounced..not for the first time. Take a look at the troll tank. Recognise the same flounce.

 

Attention and sympathy seeking imo. She got it. Job done. 

 

I don`t agree that she gets picked on. If you post something controversial, expect differing views. Isn`t that how a forum works? 

 

 

Sorry to be quotetastic here. Nice to see you back, Lee 

 

Scotty, of course you wouldn't agree Cupcake gets picked on.  Cupcake has said, and other FMs agree with her that comments she posts are pulled apart when similar posts made by others do not have the same reaction. This has not been a one-off situation for Cupcake.  No  FM should be made to feel uncomfortable about posting. 

I don`t understand that Sans. Why wouldn`t I agree? 

 

My opinion is that she doesn`t. 

Tbh, I think I'd better not answer you, Scotty, as I don't have Veggie or Lee's tact when putting over a response. I just think 'how sad' that you think that.

 

An FM modding the forum 

San
Originally Posted by ~Lee~:

TBF Scotty I interpreted your post as Veggie did,I didn't have to explain but I did yet you continued,it's things like that which can and do upset/drive FM's away.

Oh bog off Lee, stop being so dramatic. 

 

Read back, if you care to. 

 

I`m out of here but I`ll leave you with this...

 

Cupcake`s loving this. Divided but not conquered.. yet. 

 

History repeating itself...go for it!     

 

 

Scotty
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