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Next year i'm digging out half of our garden (that's after I planted the thing) cos it's way out of control - I over planted 

Awww Ours needs rejigging too cos tbh the beds are a mess .....i have a guy that comes in to mow the lawns and do a bit of weeding and bedding ....but I haven’t the heart to do much myself ....cos it still upsets me to be out there ...how silly is that 

Baz
Baz posted:
Saint posted:

Next year i'm digging out half of our garden (that's after I planted the thing) cos it's way out of control - I over planted 

Awww Ours needs rejigging too cos tbh the beds are a mess .....i have a guy that comes in to mow the lawns and do a bit of weeding and bedding ....but I haven’t the heart to do much myself ....cos it still upsets me to be out there ...how silly is that 

I've been growing tomato plants (as is our family tradition) but it's lost it's joy now my Dad isn't here

Saint
Saint posted:
Baz posted:
Saint posted:

Next year i'm digging out half of our garden (that's after I planted the thing) cos it's way out of control - I over planted 

Awww Ours needs rejigging too cos tbh the beds are a mess .....i have a guy that comes in to mow the lawns and do a bit of weeding and bedding ....but I haven’t the heart to do much myself ....cos it still upsets me to be out there ...how silly is that 

I've been growing tomato plants (as is our family tradition) but it's lost it's joy now my Dad isn't here

I know what you mean ....I went out the other day and sat on the bench with a cup of tea....but ended up in floods ...

Baz
Saint posted:

It's not silly at all - changing someone else's work - I feel a little awkward touching my Dad's things

Yes, my daughter is going to have to take down another part of the pergola.....and I know she’s right , but even though my head says it’s just lumps of wood , but in my heart it feels like yet another loss !

Baz
Baz posted:
Saint posted:

It's not silly at all - changing someone else's work - I feel a little awkward touching my Dad's things

Yes, my daughter is going to have to take down another part of the pergola.....and I know she’s right , but even though my head says it’s just lumps of wood , but in my heart it feels like yet another loss !

I'm not parting with any of my Dad's clothes - ever

I can't

Saint
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Saint posted:
Baz posted:

We don’t know how lucky we are that we’ve never had to go to war!

I've been watching Band of Brothers

 

I know without doubt I would 'not' be a hero - it looks terrifying

No wonder few wanted to talk about it when they returned

Yes ....I’d be a total coward My dad was a Japanese prisoner of war , but hardly ever talked about it ...just an odd few words every now and then 

Baz
Saint posted:
Baz posted:
Saint posted:

It's not silly at all - changing someone else's work - I feel a little awkward touching my Dad's things

Yes, my daughter is going to have to take down another part of the pergola.....and I know she’s right , but even though my head says it’s just lumps of wood , but in my heart it feels like yet another loss !

I not parting with any of my Dad's clothes - ever

I can't

I’ve got rid of those he never wore much , but have kept all the ones that remind me of him 

Baz
Baz posted:
Saint posted:
Baz posted:

We don’t know how lucky we are that we’ve never had to go to war!

I've been watching Band of Brothers

 

I know without doubt I would 'not' be a hero - it looks terrifying

No wonder few wanted to talk about it when they returned

Yes ....I’d be a total coward My dad was a Japanese prisoner of war , but hardly ever talked about it ...just an odd few words every now and then 

Goodness me - terrible

I'd be so scared

Saint

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