quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:
Hi JJ, Kelly
*gives PCJ a big sloppy kiss*
*wipes PCJ's slime from face*
Snail trail
*wipes PCJ's slime from face*
Snail trail
KELLY all i want is a good frendship where she is straight with me - i don't feel she has been
She has a reputation of leading men on and i feel she has unintentionally done it again
She has a reputation of leading men on and i feel she has unintentionally done it again
quote:Originally posted by Poolshark:
Afternoon all!
Hello Poolshark. We dont normally have the honour of seeing you in here
Well hello Poolie 
Hello Poolie
Hello Moonie (bloke by the way)
Hello Moonie (bloke by the way)
moonie
poolie
poolie
quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:
Hi JJ, Kelly
*gives PCJ a big sloppy kiss*
*wipes PCJ's slime from face*
Snail trail
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
KELLY all i want is a good frendship where she is straight with me - i don't feel she has been
She has a reputation of leading men on and i feel she has unintentionally done it again
Sorry i hate the term leading on. We are all entitled to change out minds renton. Often its the case that some women are just a little scared of opening up and allowing themselves to get close to someone coz in most cases it leads to getting hurt.
Baby steps hun. Let the relations progress naturally and see where you get. If she is leading you on cut your losses. Easier said than done i know.
quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:
Hi JJ, Kelly
*gives PCJ a big sloppy kiss*
*wipes PCJ's slime from face*
Snail trail
KELLy - no offence with the term - its the term several people have used with her and she has has a few problems with men misreading her
I have told her that there is nothing wrong with being a flirt but i can receieve unwanted attention
I feel in a way i have been treat similar - lead to believe we are better frends than we are
I have told her that there is nothing wrong with being a flirt but i can receieve unwanted attention
I feel in a way i have been treat similar - lead to believe we are better frends than we are
quote:Originally posted by moonie:quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
Hello Poolie
Hello Moonie (bloke by the way)
*Checks credentials*..Yep, still a bloke..
I have checked his credentials and they certainly do what they say on the tin
quote:Originally posted by pussycatj:quote:Originally posted by moonie:quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
Hello Poolie
Hello Moonie (bloke by the way)
*Checks credentials*..Yep, still a bloke..
I have checked his credentials and they certainly do what they say on the tin
Shhh..
.. 
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
KELLy - no offence with the term - its the term several people have used with her and she has has a few problems with men misreading her
I have told her that there is nothing wrong with being a flirt but i can receieve unwanted attention
I feel in a way i have been treat similar - lead to believe we are better frends than we are
If that is the case then the balls in her court. Its her that needs to apologise and or make up for it. Theres not a lot more you can do. You obviously have made your feeling clear so now its down to her. Heard anything from her yet?
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KELLY - she will be in bed cos was on nightshift last night - so not yet
She unfortunately does have a reputation for misleading guys but is a wonderful girl
I thought i knew where we were coming from but wen she sed i never crossed her mind after working with me 30/40hrs per week for 6months ... well i wonder if i was just 'another guy' to flirt with at the time
She unfortunately does have a reputation for misleading guys but is a wonderful girl
I thought i knew where we were coming from but wen she sed i never crossed her mind after working with me 30/40hrs per week for 6months ... well i wonder if i was just 'another guy' to flirt with at the time
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
KELLY - she will be in bed cos was on nightshift last night - so not yet
She unfortunately does have a reputation for misleading guys but is a wonderful girl
I thought i knew where we were coming from but wen she sed i never crossed her mind after working with me 30/40hrs per week for 6months ... well i wonder if i was just 'another guy' to flirt with at the time
That could be the case renton but i honestly dont know. What did she say last night?
She sed so much i can't put it in a nutshell - but the mesage i came away with was - we are frends but not the way i thought
She doesn't hold it in as high regard as me but still wants to be frends, basically
But see - this is wot has happened to other blokes
Led to believe ... then it isn't
She doesn't hold it in as high regard as me but still wants to be frends, basically
But see - this is wot has happened to other blokes
Led to believe ... then it isn't
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
She sed so much i can't put it in a nutshell - but the mesage i came away with was - we are frends but not the way i thought
She doesn't hold it in as high regard as me but still wants to be frends, basically
But see - this is wot has happened to other blokes
Led to believe ... then it isn't
Guess its just a waiting game then. See what she says when she gets in touch. In the mean time try taking your mind off it. You can drive yourself crazy going over and over stuff like this.
KELLY your so right - i am just stunned that i may be yet another one of her 'flirt' guys
Cheers for helping me - your a star , seriously
Cheers for helping me - your a star , seriously
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
KELLY your so right - i am just stunned that i may be yet another one of her 'flirt' guys
Cheers for helping me - your a star , seriously
I find that im really good at giving advice. Anyone tries giving it to me normally results in them getting a good hearty slap round the chops
So how can i help take your mind off it? Come on im willing and eager to be your emotional punch bag
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Kelly you speak sense
Yes im very senseable
I recently went through something similar with a guy i work with. Only i was straight with him from the off, he just didn't seem to take it in.
Awwww KELLY i don't think you can
I do tend to stew and i know it is a bad thing for me
i just can't get beyond being stunned that i may just be another guy to flirt with - she never regarded me highly
But then she says she wants to work with me again on nights
I do tend to stew and i know it is a bad thing for me
i just can't get beyond being stunned that i may just be another guy to flirt with - she never regarded me highly
But then she says she wants to work with me again on nights
Renton, is the the woman that is married?
quote:Originally posted by RENTON:
Awwww KELLY i don't think you can
I do tend to stew and i know it is a bad thing for me
i just can't get beyond being stunned that i may just be another guy to flirt with - she never regarded me highly
But then she says she wants to work with me again on nights
I used to be the same. Id spend endless nights going over and over it in my mind. I swear it droke me crazy!!! Keep busy renton. Meet up with other mates, go out have a laugh, distract your mind.
Briefly - yes she is married - no, i don't want a relationship with her - her marriage is breaking up but don't let that cloud the water
She is a ferocious flirt - but i thought we had proper frendship y'see
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Well i better go get sorted, making a day trip to birmingham to visit my mom in hospital, should make a move soon eh?catch you all laterxx
Cya later Jen. Sorry to hear you mums in hospital. Hoe she gets better soon x
Not a soon thing kels, she been there for like 5/6 weeks now. She will get better just taking a little time is all.quote:Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Well i better go get sorted, making a day trip to birmingham to visit my mom in hospital, should make a move soon eh?
Cya later Jen. Sorry to hear you mums in hospital. Hoe she gets better soon x
be back later... maybe..... if i'm not knackered xx