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Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:
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Originally posted by RENTON:
I feel i'm being lied to "I don't feel sociable, i don't wanna meet up with anyone"
A week later she's going out
I told her she's sayin one thing and doing another

I think you probably got it right Renton seems as though she doesn't value the friendship as much as you. If i was you id back off, let her know what shes missing. She will soon miss you im sure.


good advice Kelly. Hope you sort it out Renton
LGS
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Originally posted by RENTON:
Bye Trixy + LG
Hello KIMI
Thak you Kelly - any advice from a female perspective is greatly appreciated
i did say i need to know how you see our frendship so i don't demand more than you wanna giv - i don't wanna pester

Its difficult as i dont know her motivations. But reading between the lines maybe these gossip queens have been giving her a hard time about your relationship and so maybe she wanted to distance herself from you to show them. Or could it be since the company was split maybe your natrually drifting apart. Could be one of a million of things i guess.
Sexy_Kelly
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Originally posted by RENTON:
Hello Pussycatj + JEN

KELLy - i just dunno - but i told her i feel i rate very low on her scale of importance if we aint met for 2 months

But she sed - we do chat on phone a lot

So i sed - do u wanna be mates? Do you wanna find work together ... she sed yes
But i fear i am just one of a crowd of frends to her


Hi Renton Valentine

thinks I need to read back a few pages Ninja hope you are ok Renton Hug
Puss
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Originally posted by RENTON:
Hello Pussycatj + JEN
KELLy - i just dunno - but i told her i feel i rate very low on her scale of importance if we aint met for 2 months
But she sed - we do chat on phone a lot
So i sed - do u wanna be mates? Do you wanna find work together ... she sed yes
But i fear i am just one of a crowd of frends to her

Id defo take a step back Renton. I think putting pressure on now can only damage the relationship. From the sounds of it, she was probably shocked that you feel so hurt. You dont want her to panic now and get cold feet. Just be breezy let her do the running.
Sexy_Kelly
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Originally posted by RENTON:
KELLY - i truly appreciate your replies, cheers
i fear that if i 'back off' (which i will a bit) she will see it as me being moody annd therefore a burden

Sometimes you just cant win with us women. Were complicated you know. Maybe send her a txt letting her know that you have slept on it and your not angry or in a mood with her. End with something really cool and chilled out like. Give me a ring when your free maybe we can catch up face to face. Id like that. Something like that anyway
Sexy_Kelly
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Originally posted by RENTON:
I feel the message i am getting is that i am a frend .. of many frends that she sees as all the same
She did say as we had worked together A LOT that our frendship was different, more solid than the others and we didn't need to meet as often, hmmmmm

Maybe i putting 2 & 2 together here and getting 15000. Do you want something more than friendship?
Sexy_Kelly

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