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I don't do photographs. Ever. This is for the best. Trust me.  A mate's son posted some pics of me - and tagged me the little shite - at his 18th. To be fair, even the beautiful people looked bleddy terrible, which is usually the sign of a good night. 

It was the trigger though ... I'd been toying with the idea for a while. I had a mix of RL and online friends there but most worrying was that my kids had their stepmum's family and myself as "friends". Which is fine, but I've had grief in the past from them (not that kids know) and was wary about any image of me getting into their grubby little hands. 

I've since learned that you can opt not to be tagged. I think...?
Cariad
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dunno...i know my huisband has tagged some right rough onesof me....but you can decide who can see them via your home page
The trouble was he posted them late one night and I didn't spot til the next morning when I checked my emails. Our office IT bods have barred access to FB so I spent all day in a tizz not even being able to see the damn things. I still haven't as it happens. I didn't mind him posting them per se ... just tagging me!

Saz - is that retrospective or can you elect not to be tagged in advance? There really should be a "no tagged pics until I have vetted them" option.
Cariad
Don't post stuff on the net,even if you think it's private.Hackers etc can bypass any  security etc.My cousins partner spend literally 12 hours cleaning our comp(dust and muck,physically,round the fan)Then moved onto the hard drive etc,we thought we were  protected by firewalls etc.He found loads of adware ,malaware and crap etc.
kattymieoww

Robin Dunbar, a professor of evolutionary anthropology at Oxford University, developed a theory in the 1990s dubbed Dunbar's Number. The theory contends that the human brain is only capable of managing relationships--staying in contact at least once per year and knowing how friends relate to others--with about 150 people.

Until recently, it was believed that that only pertained to "offline" relationships.

Dunbar has now decided to shift focus to see whether Facebook has changed the number.

It hasn't.

"The interesting thing is that you can have 1,500 friends, but when you actually look at traffic on sites, you see people maintain the same inner circle of around 150 people that we observe in the real world," Dunbar told the London-based Sunday Times. "People obviously like the kudos of having hundreds of friends but the reality is that they're unlikely to be bigger than anyone else's."

For now, Dunbar's study is in its preliminary stages, meaning more testing needs to be done. Regardless, Dunbar doesn't believe that anything will change: no matter how many thousands of friends we might have on Facebook, we can't manage relationships with more than 150 of them.

Dunbar's study will be released later this year

subatomic partygirl
Cariad

Oh I hear you!    I only have my forum facebook for those reasons.   Its not forum peeps knowing who I am in rl that bothers me.... its real life peeps knowing who I am in forum identity.

I have the kids on my friends list...  and even that prompted my MIL to ask my son who Ditty Bird was... but I sorted that by blocking her!

I do want to keep the kids on my friends list... its kinda handy as an early warning when they are up to no good! (their friends are so stupid.... they know I am on their friends lists and they still post stuff that they know the kids wouldn't want me to know about)
Dirtyprettygirlthing
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i left fb a few weeks ago,just found the whole thing muddly and  irritating.
Well of course I only left because I felt bereft without you there.  


Ditty -  I may venture back at some point but with a dual profile. May do - at the moment I'm not missing it though it was nice to catch up on everyone's doings. I'm generally quite open about my online ditherings and tbh it's paid dividends as my two have a mature attitude towards anything online and accept those friends I've met online as openly as any others. In fact my son has probably spent more quality time with one of them at various test matches that he has with his father!
Cariad
I have about 100 'friends' on FB.  About 40 are 'farmville' friends, 10 are penpals, and 10 are relatives, and the other 30 or 40 are work colleagues and friends.  I know people who have 500 'friends' and I think no WAY can you know them all LOL.  I bet if I made up a fake profile and tried to 'add' these people who claim they are all 'friends;' they would accept me. 
cockney-chick

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