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Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

Are the jury back in for this crap!

I'm sure they are there Soozy but I'm not sure.

 

WESH seem to think that  Casey Anthony party photos after her daughter died may be confounding for jury. This expert may help sort it out for them.   

 

Dunno if she will - could lead us down the garden path 

FM
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

I feel there is going to be an odd ending , or a different twist we will be a bit shocked about near the end of this trial. Something to do with a mistrial, or how the jury find Casey, on what charge (if they ever get to this point)

 

Just a hunch, watch this space. 

I'm keeping them peeled  

FM
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):
Originally Posted by Pengy:

I'm struggling to stay awake with this testimony 

Took the words out of my mouth. 

 

and if Dot Simms decided that defence attorney isn't her cup of tea, then she should venture into Hypnotic relaxation tapes/  CDs, I'd buy one, does wonders for my insomnia. 

Dotty does have a very soporific voice.

Yogi19

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

Ev (Peachy)
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

I agree that some people go into denial when they lose a loved one, but I'm not convinced that's what happened in this case.

Yogi19
Originally Posted by Yogi19:
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

I agree that some people go into denial when they lose a loved one, but I'm not convinced that's what happened in this case.

Well in this case, it is certainly a lot more complicated. 

Ev (Peachy)
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):
Originally Posted by Yogi19:
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

I agree that some people go into denial when they lose a loved one, but I'm not convinced that's what happened in this case.

Well in this case, it is certainly a lot more complicated. 

It sure is, Ev.

Yogi19
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

I do agree with her that different people grieve in different ways and that young people grieve differently than older people 

 

I also acknowledge there are people that as you say Ev can pretend something didn't happen but in my experience as an Occupational OT (Job I had before teaching) these people would pretend that the child doesn't even exist (I use to give therapy to people that had lost young children mainly though accident or disease).  Almost every time, these people were like ghosts and emotionless as in they are not there and drift in and out of reality - as if they are sitting in a chair staring into space and unable to focus on anything or anyone including themselves. Casey doesn't fit into this category.

 

The hysteria people will do this only for a short while before breaking down totally moving from hysterical laughter to uncontrollable tears which over time leads them to come to terms with what has happened.  Again I don't feel Casey fitted into this category - she was able to lie, manipulate truths, make up stories, party and remember to check in with the folks.

 

Mebbe I'm just closed to any possibility of her grieving 'properly' for her child.  

FM
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

There surely is a difference between denial and out and out fantasy - creating characters, situations and events - that actually started before Caylee died even - EXPLAIN THAT?

I think the grief process, and the fantasy life are two different situations. I could try to explain, but its far to complicated even for me.  All outward actions of Casey co-insides with a person with a sociopathic nature. 

Ev (Peachy)
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

There surely is a difference between denial and out and out fantasy - creating characters, situations and events - that actually started before Caylee died even - EXPLAIN THAT?

I think the grief process, and the fantasy life are two different situations. I could try to explain, but its far to complicated even for me.  All outward actions of Casey co-insides with a person with a sociopathic nature. 

I can agree with all of that, Ev.

Yogi19
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

There surely is a difference between denial and out and out fantasy - creating characters, situations and events - that actually started before Caylee died even - EXPLAIN THAT?

I think the grief process, and the fantasy life are two different situations. I could try to explain, but its far to complicated even for me.  All outward actions of Casey co-insides with a person with a sociopathic nature. 

She lived a fantasy life, she has no grief because she is a sociopath!

Soozy Woo
Originally Posted by Pengy:
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):

What i understand sometimes in  certain grief, you can try to pretend it didnt happen to the point of actually believing it didnt happen, or it happened in a different lifetime (if anyone can understand this) , not sure if this has happened somewhat in Casey's case. 

Also in grief, i know fact you can laugh like hysteria, in place of tears. 

I do agree with her that different people grieve in different ways and that young people grieve differently than older people 

 

I also acknowledge there are people that as you say Ev can pretend something didn't happen but in my experience as an Occupational OT (Job I had before teaching) these people would pretend that the child doesn't even exist (I use to give therapy to people that had lost young children mainly though accident or disease).  Almost every time, these people were like ghosts and emotionless as in they are not there and drift in and out of reality - as if they are sitting in a chair staring into space and unable to focus on anything or anyone including themselves. Casey doesn't fit into this category.

 

The hysteria people will do this only for a short while before breaking down totally moving from hysterical laughter to uncontrollable tears which over time leads them to come to terms which what has happened.  Again I don't feel Casey fitted into this category - she was able to lie, manipulate truths, make up stories, party and remember to check in with the folks.

 

Mebbe I'm just closed to any possibility of her grieving 'properly' for her child.  

Interesting, and true,  i have counselled people with similar grief processes, and also have gone through similar ones myself in past.

I can say definitely, you can feel like your not of this world, as if your in a bubble, and no one can touch you in any emotional form. 

 

I also have come across people in some circumstances like Casey,(when working in mental health hospitals/units etc)  (accused of murder, or lost a child in murder, or blamed when it is or isnt their fault ) You see  the blankness, the coolness, the putting on a front for what they feel people should see, what they want us to see... they are clever, they have done it all their life.  and i know we see her in court, but we dont see her out of court. 

 

I don't see her emotions being normal in any way, this is based on what i see from the court only, i have no idea what she is like away from the camera.

Ev (Peachy)
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:
Originally Posted by Ev (Peachy):
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

There surely is a difference between denial and out and out fantasy - creating characters, situations and events - that actually started before Caylee died even - EXPLAIN THAT?

I think the grief process, and the fantasy life are two different situations. I could try to explain, but its far to complicated even for me.  All outward actions of Casey co-insides with a person with a sociopathic nature. 

She lived a fantasy life, she has no grief because she is a sociopath!

Well she does, but it is complicated, and mainly she will be grieving for herself, like a 4 year old if you can imagine, she will put herself first before anyone, its her world, her life, people are there for her!  In just the way of a mental level a 3 or 4 year old does. 

Ev (Peachy)

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