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Originally Posted by Tina:
Originally Posted by Aimee:

I wish i had gone back too my job after maternity leave but i let my daughter's dad talk me out of it

 

Also i wish i 'd have had more children

 

Anyone else want too add?

ay jue you still have time for more children x

Nah, too old now  my mate's got a 2 yr old and it make's me really broody, think it's the empty nest sthat's doing it really

Aimee
Originally Posted by Aimee:
Originally Posted by Tina:
Originally Posted by Aimee:

I wish i had gone back too my job after maternity leave but i let my daughter's dad talk me out of it

 

Also i wish i 'd have had more children

 

Anyone else want too add?

ay jue you still have time for more children x

Nah, too old now  my mate's got a 2 yr old and it make's me really broody, think it's the empty nest sthat's doing it really

awwwwwwww bless ya  xxx

it was the best thing for me having 2 more tho

T
Originally Posted by Gypsie~:
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:
Originally Posted by Gypsie~:

Yes, that i started watching that casey anthony trial

Now you know you really don't mean that!

No i dont really, im loving it, but prob suffering vitamin D deficiency or something

You can get lamps that do it for ya, ya know 

FM
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:

Definitely not having children, when I probably could have, but didn't know at that time that I'd later find out that I couldn't.....Everything else, well hey ho, you live and learn

 

 

That's sad ...............I'm sure you've been fulfilled in other ways though. I have a friend in the same situation - I know she really would have loved kids of her own - it took her a long time to accept it but - she's a great auntie/friend to all kids of her friends and family. Her life has been different to mine but - she's made it all good!

Soozy Woo
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:

Definitely not having children, when I probably could have, but didn't know at that time that I'd later find out that I couldn't.....Everything else, well hey ho, you live and learn

 

 

That's sad ...............I'm sure you've been fulfilled in other ways though. I have a friend in the same situation - I know she really would have loved kids of her own - it took her a long time to accept it but - she's a great auntie/friend to all kids of her friends and family. Her life has been different to mine but - she's made it all good!

Oh, I'm the same Suzi, world's best auntie....even more so than most i guess, 'cos I have an identical twin sis' and her children just think they have two mum's!

FM
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:
Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:

Definitely not having children, when I probably could have, but didn't know at that time that I'd later find out that I couldn't.....Everything else, well hey ho, you live and learn

 

 

That's sad ...............I'm sure you've been fulfilled in other ways though. I have a friend in the same situation - I know she really would have loved kids of her own - it took her a long time to accept it but - she's a great auntie/friend to all kids of her friends and family. Her life has been different to mine but - she's made it all good!

Oh, I'm the same Suzi, world's best auntie....even more so than most i guess, 'cos I have an identical twin sis' and her children just think they have two mum's!

I fully believe that! I'm not a twin but I have a sister who like me has three kids - they were all born before mine and I loved them like my own. I know it sounds daft (Iwas young) but when I was pregnant with my first - I was honestly worried that I wouldn't love him as much as my nephew and nieces (daft I know) but that's how much I loved them - and still do - obviously my three kids are special but ............I still love my sisters kids with the same intensity (as she does mine) - it's lovely that you have that and ..........lovely that they have you!

Soozy Woo

we had similar thread to this, C4 i think

mine is when my ma phoned and said my dad was trying to phone her (he was ill in a nursing home but had a mobile) but cos he was a 'stroke victim' she couldnt understand him-but i could, we had my then girlfriend little sisters round at the time-chaos-so i phoned, couldnt get through-i thought, i'll phone him first thing

but i had a call in the morning from the home saying my dad had died

and

i regret not trying again-cos i wanted to know what he was wanting to say to us

always felt guilty

but my mates said i wasnt to know, so.....

on a lighter note-my other regret was not hanging around the hotel in 1979/80 to get a tour jacket offa debbie harry

everyone else got one lol

pirate1111
Originally Posted by Baz:

One of my regrets (and I have a few) is that I didn't ask my parents more about their lives before they were married and  when they were young..... 

I have this regret too Baz.   I think they must have spoken about it at times but I was to wrapped up in myself to have listened properly, I wonder if my two daughters will have the same regrets?....

 

I think times are different now, my Mum & Dad were "Just" Mum & Dad"...

 

My children see us as "Mum & Dad" but, see us (we allow them) as people with a past......(and not just an Historical one)   

Syd
Originally Posted by Smarting Buttocks:

Super.   I wear the best auntie crown in my family.  When my now adult niece was little she believed everyone had a Mummy, Daddy and an Auntie Helen.

 

Awwwwwwwwwwwww - that's lovely.

 

Believe it or not - my nieces and nephew never called me auntie - it was always Soozy (or Soozy woo) my sister called her youngest after me .............I am Big Soozy Woo and I have a niece (now aged 30) who is known as little Soozy Woo. It's wonderful to bear your own children but ...............it is really wonderful to be a loving (and loved) auntie too IMO.

Soozy Woo

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