weesmurf posted:sick of talking about her too
who 
barney posted:Sprout posted:I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean
me and smurfy have got it inside and out
Them beans weren't a good choice then
Baz posted:weesmurf posted:it is good advice baz but i'm done doing any battles
Even better ....sometimes , believe or not , it's the battles they are after ....act like you don't care and often they just give up
otherwise known as the "meh approach"
problem is when i do act like i don't care she will stay in her room 24 hours a day...no bother to her she's perfectly happy to do that
Baz posted:barney posted:Sprout posted:I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean
me and smurfy have got it inside and out
Is Jade still at it?
no, it was just the one, but that was bad enough
Baz posted:What's everyone up to tomorrow ?
Don't know at this stage.....I know I walked off my dinner today so not doing a lot tomorrow really
weesmurf posted:problem is when i do act like i don't care she will stay in her room 24 hours a day...no bother to her she's perfectly happy to do that
if you just let her get on with it, she will start to think you don't care and may come round, you may think she is happy to do that but after a while being ignored may prove to be worse, worth a try (if you havent already)?
barney posted:Baz posted:weesmurf posted:it is good advice baz but i'm done doing any battles
otherwise known as the "meh approach"
Yep It sounds counterintuitive, but often it works
Baz posted:weesmurf posted:problem is when i do act like i don't care she will stay in her room 24 hours a day...no bother to her she's perfectly happy to do that
Well let her , carry on your own life ....trust me , sooner or later she will get bored
right am off...this week has drained me...what a waste of a week off work having to deal with that...nite nite y'all 
barney posted:weesmurf posted:problem is when i do act like i don't care she will stay in her room 24 hours a day...no bother to her she's perfectly happy to do that
if you just let her get on with it, she will start to think you don't care and may come round, you may think she is happy to do that but after a while being ignored may prove to be worse, worth a try (if you havent already)?
i have tried that barney but believe me she can spend days, weeks, months, years in her room if she's ignored...suits her lovely
weesmurf posted:right am off...this week has drained me...what a waste of a week off work having to deal with that...nite nite y'all
awww night night smurfy, don't let her bring you down, focus on the good things, you are still a newlywed with a lovely supportive hubby, you have a little smurflet who is winning awards and doing well at school AND its nearly christmas
stay strong lovely lady
Baz posted:weesmurf posted:right am off...this week has drained me...what a waste of a week off work having to deal with that...nite nite y'all
Awes nite nite Smurfy .....hang in there
Baz posted:Wonder how the Duck is ? Hope she's not turned her tracker off
Is she away?
night smurfy things will get better
Baz posted:Wonder how the Duck is ? Hope she's not turned her tracker off
are you stalking her baz 
Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
no
Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
not yet, dad's birthday today and OH's on Sunday, then let the festivities begin 
i'm in baking mode, had to make a bara brith for my dad's birthday, then gotta make a manchester tart for the OH on sunday
don't like christmas cake or mince pies, so may start on some christmas cupcakes
Baz posted:Oooooooo looks like she is there
hope the weather wasn't as windy for her crossing as it is here now
barney posted:Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
not yet, dad's birthday today and OH's on Sunday, then let the festivities begin
i'm in baking mode, had to make a bara brith for my dad's birthday, then gotta make a manchester tart for the OH on sunday
don't like christmas cake or mince pies, so may start on some christmas cupcakes
we used to have Manchester tart at school
Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
Correct! I ain't putting one up this year 
barney posted:Baz posted:Wonder how the Duck is ? Hope she's not turned her tracker off
are you stalking her baz
I wouldn't put it past her Barns
Baz posted:Sprout posted:Baz posted:Wonder how the Duck is ? Hope she's not turned her tracker off
Is she away?
Yes ....Xmas market across the channel
Ah right
sorry lovely peeps, this fizz is making me a bit sleepy, gonna have to head off, hope to catch up with you all soon
have a great weekend, night night
barney posted:Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
not yet, dad's birthday today and OH's on Sunday, then let the festivities begin
i'm in baking mode, had to make a bara brith for my dad's birthday, then gotta make a manchester tart for the OH on sunday
don't like christmas cake or mince pies, so may start on some christmas cupcakes
Ooooo my aunty used to make a mean bara brith 
Rosgirl posted:barney posted:Baz posted:Is your tree up Barney ? No good asking Ros or sprout!
not yet, dad's birthday today and OH's on Sunday, then let the festivities begin
i'm in baking mode, had to make a bara brith for my dad's birthday, then gotta make a manchester tart for the OH on sunday
don't like christmas cake or mince pies, so may start on some christmas cupcakes
we used to have Manchester tart at school
Me too! i didn't like it at school but after I left I tasted a good few years after and found I did like it!