Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

yes -I leave my phone in the car-and honestly dammeee don't expect you to tell me -you have enough on your mind

 

I know that Ros, but I would never leave you out of anything...just by the time I got home and phone calls from family, crying and headache I had enough of talking about it and of course the guilt of wishing he would just go to sleep  

All very natural Dame 

Baz posted:

All very natural Dame 

I know Baz and I remember your words this morning, but you still beat yourself up 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Sprout posted:

 

but I knew Ros was at work and couldn't use her phone so couldn't let her know Pam 

 

I happened to be talking to Baz when I got the call and you had sent a text and that's why I told Baz to tell you...if it had happened on a weekend I would have sent a text to you all 

awww dammeee it's fine  - just glad you are ok

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Sprout posted:

Ang just sent another photie. Obviously her sleeping patterns are all over the place 

 

it's not that late and babies decide what time you sleep 

That's why I don't have one 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

All very natural Dame 

I know Baz and I remember your words this morning, but you still beat yourself up 

Yes...but anyone whose been through Dame has the same sort of mixed feelings

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

yes -I leave my phone in the car-and honestly dammeee don't expect you to tell me -you have enough on your mind

 

I know that Ros, but I would never leave you out of anything...just by the time I got home and phone calls from family, crying and headache I had enough of talking about it and of course the guilt of wishing he would just go to sleep  

aw dammeeee please just look after yourself-I know that

Rocking Ros posted:

awww dammeee it's fine  - just glad you are ok

I do feel bad I couldn't let you know Rossssssssss 

Baz posted:

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

All very natural Dame 

I know Baz and I remember your words this morning, but you still beat yourself up 

Yes...but anyone whose been through Dame has the same sort of mixed feelings

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

yes -I leave my phone in the car-and honestly dammeee don't expect you to tell me -you have enough on your mind

 

I know that Ros, but I would never leave you out of anything...just by the time I got home and phone calls from family, crying and headache I had enough of talking about it and of course the guilt of wishing he would just go to sleep  

It's not guilt, it's compassion 

Rocking Ros posted:

aw dammeeee please just look after yourself-I know that

I will Ros, just tough as hell at the moment   grieving has been ongoing for 13 years and for him it must feel like a lifetime 

Baz posted:

Yes...but anyone whose been through Dame has the same sort of mixed feelings

I knew and understood Baz  

Sprout posted:

It's not guilt, it's compassion 

you still feel guilt even though you know release is the kindest thing Pam 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

awww dammeee it's fine  - just glad you are ok

 

 

I do feel bad I couldn't let you know Rossssssssss 

nooo please please don't be-just as long as you are OK -feel awful for upsetting things

Rocking Ros posted:

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

awww dammeee it's fine  - just glad you are ok

 

 

I do feel bad I couldn't let you know Rossssssssss 

nooo please please don't be-just as long as you are OK -feel awful for upsetting things

Don’t fret Ros ....

Rocking Ros posted:

nooo please please don't be-just as long as you are OK -feel awful for upsetting things

you absolutley did not so stop that, I will ring at the weekend 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Rocking Ros posted:

nooo please please don't be-just as long as you are OK -feel awful for upsetting things

 

you absolutley did not so stop that, I will ring at the weekend 

And if she doesn't, I will!!  

I might catch you in this time eh?

My battery is just about to go , so will bid you all goodnight ...sleep well and sweet dreams Dame, Ros, Sprout 

night night Baz, sleep well 

Right peeps, I'm too ensconced in QT and the crap that some peeps are talking. will see you tomorrow  

night dammeebestie sprooty bazzy

Evening Dame Have you had a better day ?

evening Baz  

Much better thank you, how was yours? 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

evening Baz  

 

Much better thank you, how was yours? 

Good Mine was mixed !  But washing machine guy finally rang this evening and he’s popping in tomorrow , so ....

Baz posted:

Good Mine was mixed !  But washing machine guy finally rang this evening and he’s popping in tomorrow , so ....

yayyyyyy, hopefully he can sort it  you're a jinx with washing machines 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

Good Mine was mixed !  But washing machine guy finally rang this evening and he’s popping in tomorrow , so ....

 

yayyyyyy, hopefully he can sort it  you're a jinx with washing machines 

Tell me about it ....but it’s exactky the same fault as the first one had ...so defo a design fault ....and at least I knew what to do to be able to still use it 

Baz posted:

Tell me about it ....but it’s exactky the same fault as the first one had ...so defo a design fault ....and at least I knew what to do to be able to still use it 

yes, that's one good thing you learned how to still use it until it gets repaired 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

Tell me about it ....but it’s exactky the same fault as the first one had ...so defo a design fault ....and at least I knew what to do to be able to still use it 

 

yes, that's one good thing you learned how to still use it until it gets repaired 

Yep...even if it does mean hanging the hose out the back doorDid you get your lampshades done ?

Baz posted:

Yep...even if it does mean hanging the hose out the back doorDid you get your lampshades done ?

yes I did Baz and posted thanks  and as usual my house is one again upside down 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

Yep...even if it does mean hanging the hose out the back doorDid you get your lampshades done ?

 

yes I did Baz and posted thanks  and as usual my house is one again upside down 

Well done How is Lynds ?

Baz posted:

Well done How is Lynds ?

don't mention Lynds, she's like a dying duck...she reckons she's terminal flu  They phoned from work to ask how she was and she asked them for a end of life bed  she's an idiot, I am pretty sure I picked the wrong child up in hospital  She sent me a selfie today, with her dressing gown hood up and a sorry face saying poorly girl, she looked like ET on speed 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

Well done How is Lynds ?

 

don't mention Lynds, she's like a dying duck...she reckons she's terminal flu  They phoned from work to ask how she was and she asked them for a end of life bed  she's an idiot, I am pretty sure I picked the wrong child up in hospital  She sent me a selfie today, with her dressing gown hood up and a sorry face saying poorly girl, she looked like ET on speed 

Dame_Ann_Average posted:

Baz posted:

Well done How is Lynds ?

 

don't mention Lynds, she's like a dying duck...she reckons she's terminal flu  They phoned from work to ask how she was and she asked them for a end of life bed  she's an idiot, I am pretty sure I picked the wrong child up in hospital  She sent me a selfie today, with her dressing gown hood up and a sorry face saying poorly girl, she looked like ET on speed 

Awwww bless her .....But  rofl 

Hi Sprout How was your day ?

Sprout posted:

Baz posted:

Hi Sprout How was your day ?

Shit, but that's all I'm saying on the matter  I've never put in a day like it.

Baz posted:

Awwww bless her .....But  rofl 

bless her my foot, even her mother in law was ignoring her  although she got lumbered with the kids for a sleepover ...so, Lynds in her dying state was clicking her heels 

Waders! 

Sprout posted:

Waders! 

you've just got here