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Bossa Nova Baz posted:

Hi Sprout Good day ?

A bit busier today. We had a new starter, who was the same as me, not on the system yet  so not much for her to do.  I've been showing her the ropes of my job while Lindsay shows me the next part of a job I've completed so our new starter can man the phones while I do this 

FM
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

It's ok...I'm spread a bit thin in three threads  

 

Oh dear ....but it might be because of the * level* of the patients Dame ....it's obviously going to be more nursing than home  

 

well, three were sitting in the kitchen/lounge area chatting when I went down at 11.30 and told them to get him up  I wouldn't like to think they are drugging them to keep them in bed now he's been moved up to nursing care (which he doesn't need yet) I'm fuming, phoned sis in law and  she's worried about it too...she's going to ask if he's being drugged tomorrow, he wasn't before 

Awww I doubt they are drugging him .... ....but it's worth asking  

Baz
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

It's ok...I'm spread a bit thin in three threads  

 

Oh dear ....but it might be because of the * level* of the patients Dame ....it's obviously going to be more nursing than home  

 

well, three were sitting in the kitchen/lounge area chatting when I went down at 11.30 and told them to get him up  I wouldn't like to think they are drugging them to keep them in bed now he's been moved up to nursing care (which he doesn't need yet) I'm fuming, phoned sis in law and  she's worried about it too...she's going to ask if he's being drugged tomorrow, he wasn't before 

Yeah,   you both should create havoc there  

FM
Sprout posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

Hi Sprout Good day ?

A bit busier today. We had a new starter, who was the same as me, not on the system yet  so not much for her to do.  I've been showing her the ropes of my job while Lindsay shows me the next part of a job I've completed so our new starter can man the phones while I do this 

 

Baz
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Sprout posted:

Oh crikey! 

 

I know....I can't explain what it's like..you know those 80's American movies where something strange is happening, it gives me that kinda feeling. It's very nice, rooms are lovely and spacious, menu is cracking...but, it's all superficial, nothing else below the show 

Right.....

FM
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

Awww I doubt they are drugging him .... ....but it's worth asking  

 

he's never slept this late Baz and I woke him four times this morning and he kept falling back to sleep and his eyes were glassy, I have never seen him like this before 

It might just be the disease progression Dame ....my mum slept a lot in the later stages ....plus the move will have taken it out of him  

Baz
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

They can only give him drugs if a  doc sanctions it Dame ....I know that cos of Mr B uncle 

 

it's the last week there's a drastic change in his sleeping pattern and I sat 45 minutes while staff were walking passed and never asked if he needed anything, or was he even awake 

 

Baz
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

It might just be the disease progression Dame ....my mum slept a lot in the later stages ....plus the move will have taken it out of him  

 

yes, we did think of that...Margaret is going to ask and if not then it's another dip 

Obviously you're worried, but try and have a good weekend   Remember it's not the other side of the world if you're needed 

FM
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

It might just be the disease progression Dame ....my mum slept a lot in the later stages ....plus the move will have taken it out of him  

 

yes, we did think of that...Margaret is going to ask and if not then it's another dip 

It will take a while your him...and you ...to get used to a new place ....especially as you really liked the other one ...

Baz
Sprout posted:

Obviously you're worried, but try and have a good weekend   Remember it's not the other side of the world if you're needed 

there's just a nagging doubt and his wife is the same and it's very unsettling. we both realise it could be just us, because we knew he was in the hands of very good friends when he was there... but, all the show and fanciness of the new place can not and will not replace the love and care he had down the road. Julie was on duty when he left and she was sobbing in the lounge because she had had to pack his clothes,..I can't see the same closeness ever happening at this place 

Dame_Ann_Average
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Sprout posted:

Obviously you're worried, but try and have a good weekend   Remember it's not the other side of the world if you're needed 

there's just a nagging doubt and his wife is the same and it's very unsettling. we both realise it could be just us, because we knew he was in the hands of very good friends when he was there... but, all the show and fanciness of the new place can not and will not replace the love and care he had down the road. Julie was on duty when he left and she was sobbing in the lounge because she had had to pack his clothes,..I can't see the same closeness ever happening at this place 

 

Baz
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Sprout posted:

Obviously you're worried, but try and have a good weekend   Remember it's not the other side of the world if you're needed 

there's just a nagging doubt and his wife is the same and it's very unsettling. we both realise it could be just us, because we knew he was in the hands of very good friends when he was there... but, all the show and fanciness of the new place can not and will not replace the love and care he had down the road. Julie was on duty when he left and she was sobbing in the lounge because she had had to pack his clothes,..I can't see the same closeness ever happening at this place 

I know, it must be hard.  You both need to make your mouth go though if ever the situation warrants it 

FM
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

It will take a while your him...and you ...to get used to a new place ....especially as you really liked the other one ...

 

doubt we'll ever like it Baz, but will have to accept it...Margaret is going to try and see if the other local one will take him...she and I are so unsettled about this one 

Have you checked the grading on it ...the QCC reports ?? 

Baz
Sprout posted:

I know, it must be hard.  You both need to make your mouth go though if ever the situation warrants it 

 

I did today...I find it unacceptable he was put in bed at 8pm and still in bed at 11.30 am...he can walk, he's not disabled...his mind's been robbed but his body still works...my head will explode if I go in next week and he's still in bed 

Dame_Ann_Average
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Sprout posted:

I know, it must be hard.  You both need to make your mouth go though if ever the situation warrants it 

 

I did today...I find it unacceptable he was put in bed at 8pm and still in bed at 11.30 am...he can walk, he's not disabled...his mind's been robbed but his body still works...my head will explode if I go in next week and he's still in bed 

Remember.......controlled aggression.    Shouting and screaming will not get anyone anywhere  

FM
Dame_Ann_Average posted:
Bossa Nova Baz posted:

Have you checked the grading on it ...the QCC reports ?? 

 

didn't know you could do that Baz.... oh and the manager MH is the one I met and she stalked my son-in law for years even when he was married. She also married my ex next door neighbor's son now...it's all pretty weird in fact, 

 

this is the place 

https://www.barchester.com/home/newlands-care-centre

The report is on the right hand side of that site....click on it  

Baz

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