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Originally posted by JacksonB:

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Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
it's hard being a dewsbury dave fan....

you wanna try being a bea one, and before that a noirin one...

few years back i was an aisleyne one, guess i'm just a touble maker...

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Originally posted by JacksonB:

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Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
it's hard being a dewsbury dave fan....

you wanna try being a bea one, and before that a noirin one...

few years back i was an aisleyne one, guess i'm just a touble maker...

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Originally posted by Scotty:
I agree Senora.

Over the last few days I`ve had use the ignore facility because of it. Saves the old blood pressure.

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pepsi:
In all seriousness though I have never fallen out with an FM over my choice of H/M support. I've given up even trying to argue the rights and wrongs because some people can be really viscious and personal...so I keep out of it

Best to, after all it's not what we signed up for. If I want to argue I can sit with the winos in the park up the road, they argue with anybody, even inanimate objects, the other day one of them was shouting loudly at one of the park bins.

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Originally posted by Tiddly~Wink:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pepsi:
In all seriousness though I have never fallen out with an FM over my choice of H/M support. I've given up even trying to argue the rights and wrongs because some people can be really viscious and personal...so I keep out of it

Best to, after all it's not what we signed up for. If I want to argue I can sit with the winos in the park up the road, they argue with anybody, even inanimate objects, the other day one of them was shouting loudly at one of the park bins.

Some of those park bins can be right cheeky fekkers after a drink or two of cheap plonk!

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Originally posted by brisket:
Thanks for creating this thread Senora.
I`m on your side.
When a poster slips over into personal attacks on another poster it annoys and saddens me.
It should not happen. I wonder if the people who do it are TOO wrapped up in the programme and take their support of a housemate far too seriously. I also wonder if those who do it are sadly lacking in constructive debate.
It is a great shame that they cannot separate a poster from a housemate.
On a positive note I am often very impressed when it is demonstrated that people can disagree and remain friendly posters.
Fortunately I do see it over and over again that people can admire a poster while not agreeing with them.
It is lovely when after a clash of points-of-view does not result in a clash of forumers.
Some people are brilliant at stating an opposite view point while maintaining common courtesy.
We have many shining examples who outshine those who fall back on abuse.
Thanks for the thread Senora.

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Originally posted by Cagney:
I don't want to state the obvious....but

The mods (here, ch4, other forums) constantly tell posters not to retaliate. Just report it and move on. Hardly anyone does that. If someone makes nasty comments report it then go to another thread or post round it. Don't even acknowledge it.

How many times do we see threads with personal attacks, nasty comments and then everyone piles in posting smileys, making jokes etc? Yeah it lightens the mood but it also keeps the thread at the top of the forum and draws attention to it. That's not just in HM dispute threads btw.

People read the whole thread then post to say how bad some comments/people are. Again drawing attention to it and keeping it going

Nothing will ever change if people keep acknowledging the troublemakers

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Originally posted by Cagney:
I don't want to state the obvious....but

The mods (here, ch4, other forums) constantly tell posters not to retaliate. Just report it and move on. Hardly anyone does that. If someone makes nasty comments report it then go to another thread or post round it. Don't even acknowledge it.

How many times do we see threads with personal attacks, nasty comments and then everyone piles in posting smileys, making jokes etc? Yeah it lightens the mood but it also keeps the thread at the top of the forum and draws attention to it. That's not just in HM dispute threads btw.

People read the whole thread then post to say how bad some comments/people are. Again drawing attention to it and keeping it going

Nothing will ever change if people keep acknowledging the troublemakers

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Originally posted by charmer:

i just wanna say cagney that the other day you and lacey were posting on the same thread-and well..i was wondering..are you pair the famous female crime fighters from the 80's

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by charmer:

i just wanna say cagney that the other day you and lacey were posting on the same thread-and well..i was wondering..are you pair the famous female crime fighters from the 80's

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Originally posted by charmer:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by charmer:

i just wanna say cagney that the other day you and lacey were posting on the same thread-and well..i was wondering..are you pair the famous female crime fighters from the 80's

they could be!
stranger things have happened..probably

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Originally posted by Cagney:
I don't want to state the obvious....but

The mods (here, ch4, other forums) constantly tell posters not to retaliate. Just report it and move on. Hardly anyone does that. If someone makes nasty comments report it then go to another thread or post round it. Don't even acknowledge it.

How many times do we see threads with personal attacks, nasty comments and then everyone piles in posting smileys, making jokes etc? Yeah it lightens the mood but it also keeps the thread at the top of the forum and draws attention to it. That's not just in HM dispute threads btw.

People read the whole thread then post to say how bad some comments/people are. Again drawing attention to it and keeping it going

Nothing will ever change if people keep acknowledging the troublemakers

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Originally posted by Cagney:
We chose our names because of them Charmer

I'm not old enough to have been fighting crime in the 80's

We met online, became friends and both wanted to change our names so one drunken night on MSN we came up with Cagney and Lacey

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Originally posted by charmer:

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Originally posted by Cagney:
We chose our names because of them Charmer

I'm not old enough to have been fighting crime in the 80's

We met online, became friends and both wanted to change our names so one drunken night on MSN we came up with Cagney and Lacey

is it ok to choose to believe that you really are mary beth and christine?
I'll tell all my friends that i know you

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Originally posted by TiGi:

That's cos EVERYONE loves a good ruck

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

Yes things did get petty but it was no fault of mine... The person got personal and followed me around eventhough they said they had me on ignore multiple times

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,
just saying good luck to those supporting siavash ive done my bit to help.

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,
just saying good luck to those supporting siavash ive done my bit to help.

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

Yes things did get petty but it was no fault of mine... The person got personal and followed me around eventhough they said they had me on ignore multiple times

PCE no one's blaming you hun,

and believe me, your ruck was pretty tame compared to some I observed last night and in fact over the past couple of days.

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

Yes things did get petty but it was no fault of mine... The person got personal and followed me around eventhough they said they had me on ignore multiple times

PCE no one's blaming you hun,

and believe me, your ruck was pretty tame compared to some I observed last night and in fact over the past couple of days.

I guess eventhough this is a forum, we have to keep our thoughts on certain housemates to ourselves?

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

Yes things did get petty but it was no fault of mine... The person got personal and followed me around eventhough they said they had me on ignore multiple times

PCE no one's blaming you hun,

and believe me, your ruck was pretty tame compared to some I observed last night and in fact over the past couple of days.

I guess eventhough this is a forum, we have to keep our thoughts on certain housemates to ourselves?

No hun, the point I made on the first page is HM's are fair game always have been, but I noticed people are having a dig at the fans who support whichever HM, which IMO is not on, it starts getting a bit too personal. We clearer now?

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:

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Originally posted by Senora Reyes:

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Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Im sure you noticed it was the certain housemate's fans attacking the non-fans not the way you are saying it

Sorry PCE, but I was on until late last night, as were you, and things were pretty heated and petty, I'm only saying what I observed.

Yes things did get petty but it was no fault of mine... The person got personal and followed me around eventhough they said they had me on ignore multiple times

PCE no one's blaming you hun,

and believe me, your ruck was pretty tame compared to some I observed last night and in fact over the past couple of days.

I guess eventhough this is a forum, we have to keep our thoughts on certain housemates to ourselves?

No hun, the point I made on the first page is HM's are fair game always have been, but I noticed people are having a dig at the fans who support whichever HM, which IMO is not on, it starts getting a bit too personal. We clearer now?

Crystal

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,
just saying good luck to those supporting siavash ive done my bit to help.

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,
just saying good luck to those supporting siavash ive done my bit to help.

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Originally posted by TiGi:

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Originally posted by Justafriend:
im half afraid to post anywhere,
just saying good luck to those supporting siavash ive done my bit to help.

Nobody should feel like that on a forum

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Originally posted by frenchbread:
SR brill post