Originally Posted by ~Sweet Summer~:
Could you say that you have other plans and had forgotten the dates..? Something that you couldn't bend.. A former colleagues birthday party etc?
I was actually a bit miffed Summer, when we were, or shall i say she was, talking about birthdays, and i said about my son being 18 in January. She said oh that was was her niece,s 18th too. Which i know because we had our babies at the same time, but mine was in the neo natal unit as he was premature. She went on about her having a limo etc, which is lovely of course, but never asked if mine was having a party. I know that may sound a bit childish on my part, but i did feel a bit put out, that if we did do a party for my son...he isnt sure what he wants yet...that they werent even considering coming. Plus i am not entirely sure , that if you know your sister is coming up 60, you dont just arrange a party at such short notice. We may be invited to just keep the numbers up ! Not being horrible, hope you get where i am coming from xx