Awww, I'm so sorry. All I can think of is that neither were right for you and that happier times are ahead of you. That probably really doesn't help right now though does it. Hang on, you're a survivor and will eventually get over this time

AWWW FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!!
Can you cleanse ya soul by leaving an explaination hun cos i been losing touch wif ya
Listen outta the worst times can come good - i got made redundant and was panicking - it ended up being a blessing - seriously!!!

Kelly you dont need a man to make you happy. Have some time out from men and the right one will come along when you least expect it. Hoping you have jacked in your job at the pub and ready to take on the new responsibilities with job number 1 .

Aww Kells, have a hug. I agree with everything Sheepy said ^^^^^^.

Kelly  but please.please let this be a lesson to sloooooow down if ya know what I mean  What about the two you have in reserve?

I agree with Sheepy Why have you given up your job?

Kelly

its times like this you need... 

    
& the duvet on the sofa!

Be kind to yourself bird xx

Kells

Chin up babe ...

I thought you only got with the lad about a week ago? shouldnt be too difficult to stomach if that's the case....

Hay guys so to explain. I havn't been dumped as such. I was supposed to meet him Thursday night but he cancled last min saying he couldn't make it and iv not heard from him since then. Iv txt and rang and still nothing. Would be nice to know what i did wrong. As for the job, its the bar job i quit. I just dont feel like i can do it anymore. Im sick of being spat on, puked on, started on, wistled at like a dog to get my attention and genrelly treated like crap but iv been there 2 years and iv had some really really good times and met so many new people and i just know with the friends i have my weekends will now consist of me sitting in the flat on my own doing nothing.
Im feeling so crap at the mo. Its like why is it for some people life is like one long walk in the park while for others its such a struggle? Im 24 years old, you would of thought something good would of happened to me by now? Is it always going to be this hard??

Don't worry, I'm 23 and I've had no luck with girls what so ever! I'm not really bothered though. Prefer being single and having fun with 17yr old dutch school girls like last weekend  

I wish it was just bad luck with men crunchy

you need Easter breakfast in bed in ya life! and nom nom Easter eggs!

You are a single girl with no kiddies, get out there and live your life and have lots of fun, with girlie friends, treat yourself to a holiday and who knows whats around the corner.

Hiya Kelly, chin up missis! And as for the " what did I do wrong" bit..probably nowt! Why does it have to be your fault ?
All the best!

ditto this

this guy sounds lie a twat and your better than him anyway least you found out now and not further down the line

love normally comes when you least expect it ..i spent years searching for mr right when younger, i was hardly ever single as i felt the need to be happy with a bloke....then i decided enough was enough and started being single and independant etc...6 months later Mr Hoob came along..so didn't have to wait long and he just happened lol

THIS ^^^^

I kissed a lot of frogs (so to speak)...  then when, for the first time in my adult life, I was happy being single... did not want to be with a bloke, I met Mr Ditty!   Sods law.. and a bit of a bummer... cos I really didn't want to be in relationship... but a year later we were married (to the shock & disbelief of all that know me).

Kelly.... I know what you mean about life seeming to be easy for some.. and then for others its just hard going...  & I don't know why that is.  Some of it can come down to decisions made & stuff... but not all of it.    I am surrounded by my husbands friends and they all pretty much have charmed lives, I have had to make a conscious effort not to let myself fall into the trap of envying what they have & focus on what I have.

Harder for you at the mo...   but you do have stuff that others envy.   Youth, looks, savvy....

wallow today & tomorrow... bank holidays are crap if you are single & your mates are loved up...  but come next week, get up, get your game face on, & get back out there.

One things for sure... you are not going to be single for the rest of your life... you will settle down at some point if it is what you want... nothing stays the same for ever...

xx

I'm 37, hmmmm, it doesn't get any easier, ever, I don't think
But be sure to dance and eat lots of chocolate on the way

that's EXACTLY what it was like for me too. i was quite enjoying being single and having fun, the Mr Hoob came and spoilt that idea

jut proves us women are never happy

Kelly, you've had some bad luck, but it's not the end of the world.
To put it in perspective, by the time she was your age, my mother had been married, divorced, and lost a child at the age of 15 months.

Then she spent the next few decades moaning to me about it all, wondering why life had been so hard to her, demanding that I shoulder the burden of her lifelong dissatisfaction and being jealous of any happiness that I had. Which is why I no longer speak to her.

You sound like a generous, happy and optimistic person, Kelly. Don't let a few hard knocks turn you into a bitter, self-pitying one like my mother. It'll only make you more unhappy and eventually drive others away. Chin up, pet!

Aww chin up Kels, still got plenty of time yet to look for that special person just concentrate on having fun for now and use your experiences to help you.

I've always admired the people who seem like teflon - brush it off and move on.
You have to look at this like, "It was not meant to be  - in fact - it cud possibly be the best thing to ever have happened"

Hay guys i spent the day with my sister. Thank god for her, andy and the kids they always make me realise how much i love being me and having the best sister in the world. Its my last night at the pub tonight and its fancy dress. Im going as a naughty school girl and i intend to enjoy myself!!!! More fool sean hes the one missing out not me!

That's the way Kells

Have a good evening - and if Sean is there be a bit cool with him

awww Kells

Sorry to hear your news Kelly

I knew you'd bounce back, Kelly!  
Glad you had a lovely day, and enjoy your last shift at the pub! Just think, it'll be a lot more fun to go there as a customer in future, than have to work there!

Slightly misguided at times, but if I was young again I'd love to be your friend.  You shoot from the hip Kelly, and that's quite refreshing.

Don't ever be afraid to say who, or what you are.........You're you.......no apologies necessary.

Well thats last shift done. I hated that job at times but god im gunna miss being right in the thick of it every weekend. Iv been there so long iv seen 2 owners come and go and about 20 bar staff. Gunna miss the girls. We work such a hard job you have bond to those you work with as it helps you get through the night and we have had some really really good laughs. Theres been times when they have had me crying from laughing so much. But theres also been times when iv cried from the pain and the drama that goes on. Cant wait till next weekend to rediscover my freedom and social life

Good for you Kelly. At least you have gone home on a high, and not all sad. Good luck for your new found freedom, now you may meet someone worthy of you. When I was young, I used to think that I didn't want to meet men in pubs, because 8/10 would be more interested in the booze than me, and they would be looking through beer goggles anyway.