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Originally posted by JacksonB:
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and yes i am blaming the blokes, they don't have to play any game they don't want to and because a game is being played by an attractive woman is no excuse.

But it's a crap game plan. Most voters are female and IMO those most likely to vote will see her as a cock tease. It's not fair by any stretch but historically speaking strong females are not liked.

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Originally posted by JacksonB:
what a day she's had eh?
all a twitter over tom,feeling bad about siavash and facing up to marcus.
i thought she handled it all very well.

Yep, she has handled the burdens of being attractive and have to deal with enthusiastic admirers desperate to whisk her away remarkably well and with as much sensitivity and dignity as is possible to have.

She is expected to make snap decisions about so much while being smothered by Marcus. She has done remarkably well.

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Originally posted by Cariad:

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Originally posted by JacksonB:
my fonts gone all big.

and yes i am blaming the blokes, they don't have to play any game they don't want to and because a game is being played by an attractive woman is no excuse.

But it's a crap game plan. Most voters are female and IMO those most likely to vote will see her as a cock tease. It's not fair by any stretch but historically speaking strong females are not liked.

i don't think she has a game plan as such, i think she likes men, or rather she likes their attention and they give it to her, they aren't obliged to.

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Originally posted by JacksonB:
my fonts gone all big.

and yes i am blaming the blokes, they don't have to play any game they don't want to and because a game is being played by an attractive woman is no excuse.

Exactly.

They make an impassioned play for her, and she not unnaturally succumbs to their flattering advances and their sincere appreciation of her and she naturally wishes to show her genuine appreciation of the attention and desire for her.

If she were to callously reject all of this advances dismissively and without considering the feelings of the men she would be labelled a an unfeeling bitch.

Attractive intelligent women who do not wish to be callous have a very demanding time.

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Originally posted by slimfern:

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Originally posted by JacksonB:
what a day she's had eh?
all a twitter over tom,feeling bad about siavash and facing up to marcus.
i thought she handled it all very well.

She did didn't she.. (I think she fancies the pants off siavash and Tom is her cover story)

yeah i think so too.

They are all to blame over this whole mess, still like her and doesn't deserve some of the names she has been called but does deserve criticism .

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Originally posted by Flossie:

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Originally posted by JacksonB:
what a day she's had eh?
all a twitter over tom,feeling bad about siavash and facing up to marcus.
i thought she handled it all very well.

Yep, she has handled the burdens of being attractive and have to deal with enthusiastic admirers desperate to whisk her away remarkably well and with as much sensitivity and dignity as is possible to have.

She is expected to make snap decisions about so much while being smothered by Marcus. She has done remarkably well.

Very well said Flossie!
and jackson I think you are brave putting up this thread, glad you did, just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Loving Saivash, what a great character!!
Hope he wins!

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Originally posted by Mollie:
Loving Saivash, what a great character!!
Hope he wins!

interesting point mollie.do you think , or are you deterred from putting up threads because of the flack that happens , if the thread isn't a popular view?

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

Hmmm I used to start threads(last yr), but this year there seems to be so many about Noirin that I jump in and post on them...

Not at all concerned about flack, but really get bored with the same people posting the same rubbish about her, they rarely substantiate anything they say..

I have gone up and down about her, but always in the wisdom of my years know she is young, and is not nasty etc..she is naive and seems attracted to bad boys, controlling types, she has very little confidence (all that bravado is a front) if she did, the likes of Marcus would never have got a hold of her, its like for a long time she looked at the BB house through Marcus's eyes, because he told her to! that is not confident nor cocky..

omg I am rambling on..

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

I'm sure you're not, and I love different opinions, especially when people have something to say.. name calling doesn't make it interesting, just says a lot about the people who post that kinda thing... sorry but that's how I feel.

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

Mmm as far as I knew it was called debate. Why should people keep their views to themselves just because they might not be what other posters want to hear?

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

I'm sure you're not, and I love different opinions, especially when people have something to say.. name calling doesn't make it interesting, just says a lot about the people who post that kinda thing... sorry but that's how I feel.

Surely if everyone stuck to their own threads it would make this place even more boring, no?

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

I'm sure you're not, and I love different opinions, especially when people have something to say.. name calling doesn't make it interesting, just says a lot about the people who post that kinda thing... sorry but that's how I feel.

Surely if everyone stuck to their own threads it would make this place even more boring, no?

Of course it would, I think you misunderstand me... I am too tired to explain again lol

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

I'm sure you're not, and I love different opinions, especially when people have something to say.. name calling doesn't make it interesting, just says a lot about the people who post that kinda thing... sorry but that's how I feel.

Surely if everyone stuck to their own threads it would make this place even more boring, no?

Of course it would, I think you misunderstand me... I am too tired to explain again lol

Awww I'm sorry.

I was rather hoping she would suffocate under that duvet last night

Even the wonderful Tom was gutted he didn't pull her.
Her fault/his fault?

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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Originally posted by Mollie:

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Originally posted by Mosher:

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just wish fm's who dislike her stick to their thousands of threads they start about her! and leave us who know she is not perfect but does not deserve the constant negative remarks!

Am I missing the point of this forum

I'm sure you're not, and I love different opinions, especially when people have something to say.. name calling doesn't make it interesting, just says a lot about the people who post that kinda thing... sorry but that's how I feel.

Surely if everyone stuck to their own threads it would make this place even more boring, no?

Of course it would, I think you misunderstand me... I am too tired to explain again lol

it does get exhausting being in a minority doesn't it?

Keep it up though .....good work

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Even the wonderful Tom was gutted he didn't pull her.
Her fault/his fault?

It was like he thought he'd missed the bus, decided to walk, then the bloody bus sails passed you!!!!