Hey Mike,
Sorry you're having troubles like that! You can actually disable that yourself, by clicking the "Go" button, then "Personal Zone" then "Preferences". Scroll down to bottom, and you can choose options for private messaging (including turning it off completely).
Rosemary

Rosemary

Thanks for that ...cheers

I hope you dont mind me posting this for friends to know I wont be PMing now ...

I have had a bad time with this effecting my lovely friend here recently...

the way I am
I tuck things on an was used badly ...

cheers

No prob posting it publicly...this same instruction might help other people too

For Private Messages you can select the option Only Allow My Buddies to Send Me PMs under preferences. Then add people you are happy to receive PMs from to your Buddies list. That way you can continue to send and receive PMs but restrict to people you want.

Mike

Tatty did tell you to turn of your PMs lol. Didn't you read the advise I sent in an e-mail What am I going to do with you

quote:

Originally posted by El Loro:
For Private Messages you can select the option Only Allow My Buddies to Send Me PMs under preferences. Then add people you are happy to receive PMs from to your Buddies list. That way you can continue to send and receive PMs but restrict to people you want.

its best if he does not get any PM's at all considering the circumstances ElLoro, the people he is talking about know no boundries.
HIS REAL friends can be in touch with him in other places no problem

good on you mike ... and please do the other thing, if you need help, you only have to ask me

cooeee Rosemary how goes it?

quote:

Originally posted by Suzie Fairy:
Mike

Tatty did tell you to turn of your PMs lol. Didn't you read the advise I sent in an e-mail What am I going to do with you

its ok Suzie, i did not realize he did not know how to do it sweetie

Rosemary
Thanks ...

El Loro
I saw that ...

Suzie
Have I just been told off...??????? lol
I didnt know I could do it myself,
thats why I posted this ...
its off now ...

tsk i go away for 6 days and the trolls have a party...guess you need smelly lil me to scare them all away lol

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:
tsk i go away for 6 days and the trolls have a party...guess you need smelly lil me to scare them all away lol

the more the better Yogi

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Rosemary
Thanks ...

El Loro
I saw that ...

Suzie
Have I just been told off...??????? lol
I didnt know I could do it myself,
thats why I posted this ...
its off now ...

do you want me to test it mike and send you a PM to make sure???

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Rosemary
Thanks ...

El Loro
I saw that ...

Suzie
Have I just been told off...??????? lol
I didnt know I could do it myself,
thats why I posted this ...
its off now ...

It was a gentle telling off you should have said you didn't know how to do it and I would have talked you through it

Anyway this thread of yours is a brilliant idea as at least others will learn how to tackle trolls, funny enough Tatty and I were just chatting about a thread just like this because we were worried we were going to lose you from the forum

I'm so pleased you were brave enough to do this and I think it will take more than trolls to stop us being friends now

woohoo nope, cant send PM's to you Mike

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:
tsk i go away for 6 days and the trolls have a party...guess you need smelly lil me to scare them all away lol

Your help would be very welcome as I left because of this hence the name change, Tatty Mike and Mozzie convinced me to come back

*rolls up sleeves and stops showering*

quote:

Originally posted by Suzie Fairy:

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:
tsk i go away for 6 days and the trolls have a party...guess you need smelly lil me to scare them all away lol

Your help would be very welcome as I left because of this hence the name change, Tatty Mike and Mozzie convinced me to come back

i popped on while i was at the hotel and couldn't believe it, if i had had more change i would have searched for you but 10 minutes isn't long

I'm glad you came back cause it wouldn't be the same without you i'm still open for PM and FB so if you need me you know where i am That goes for all of you.

Yogi
I know ...
I could of had a crisp feast with you ...

Tatty
No worries mate ...
Its off now ..

I only had the pm there for the lovely sensation seeing that PM icon blinking my amazing friend was replying ...
Its sullied/filthy/dirty now ..
at least I know our relationship is more stronger and as one together...

aww I wondered why you did not reply to my last PM Mike asking for your details...wanted to send you some hol pics from sunny spain..xxx

Oh my reply tuck a bit and is down here ..lol

Suzie
I hope you know what I mean at losing the pm icon


Yogi ..
please dont stop showering was a nice view ..lol *Sid James Laff*

Tatty
cheers your love and support ...

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:

quote:

Originally posted by Suzie Fairy:

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:
tsk i go away for 6 days and the trolls have a party...guess you need smelly lil me to scare them all away lol

Your help would be very welcome as I left because of this hence the name change, Tatty Mike and Mozzie convinced me to come back

i popped on while i was at the hotel and couldn't believe it, if i had had more change i would have searched for you but 10 minutes isn't long

I'm glad you came back cause it wouldn't be the same without you i'm still open for PM and FB so if you need me you know where i am That goes for all of you.

thanks yogi, perhaps suzie can get you first on FB and then i can go from there, as my profile is not for public vision

i am in hiding dont you know

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:

i popped on while i was at the hotel and couldn't believe it, if i had had more change i would have searched for you but 10 minutes isn't long

I'm glad you came back cause it wouldn't be the same without you i'm still open for PM and FB so if you need me you know where i am That goes for all of you.

I know you were away and you still take us lot with you

Thanks Yogi, will keep that in mind I've already been told off by Tatty for not saying anything. But I didn't want to pile my problems onto anyone and thought it was best for me to bow out
gracefully. Well that didn't happen, which I'm glad about

The issue here though is the victimisation is still going on to my friend here Mr Strutter and it's got to stop, I can't imagine what that is like to be constantly bullied in a place where all your friends meet up for a chat and a laugh
I hope we find the peeps who have done this because they've gone too far

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
aww I wondered why you did not reply to my last PM Mike asking for your details...wanted to send you some hol pics from sunny spain..xxx

cooee bagel hows ya hol's going??

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Oh my reply tuck a bit and is down here ..lol

Suzie
I hope you know what I mean at losing the pm icon


Yogi ..
please dont stop showering was a nice view ..lol *Sid James Laff*

Tatty
cheers your love and support ...

you are very welcome Mike

actually i do have some advice on this subect, having had about 18 months, of it myself and the yet again yesterday, but i need to word it right so it will help others.

so will mke a draft on my lovely new pooter lappy thingymajigwhatsit . and then post it when it is done

Bagel Queen

Oh my ....
thats the story of my life that ...
Im always the bridesmaid ......lol

You can get my email off Suzie

I await those *white bits* an you dancing drunk on tables pics ...hahahaha

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Oh my reply tuck a bit and is down here ..lol

Suzie
I hope you know what I mean at losing the pm icon


Yogi ..
please dont stop showering was a nice view ..lol *Sid James Laff*

Tatty
cheers your love and support ...

That's okay Mike we are friends on FB so use the inbox there if you need to talk to me privately or better still maybe I'll teach you how to use the chat bit lol

tatty i have nowt to hide so you can search for me susan Liebnitz let me know who you are when you add

that goes for anyone else.

quote:

Originally posted by Tatty:

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
aww I wondered why you did not reply to my last PM Mike asking for your details...wanted to send you some hol pics from sunny spain..xxx

cooee bagel hows ya hol's going??

fabaroola thanks!! am in hotel whiling tiime away until I go out soon...

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Bagel Queen

Oh my ....
thats the story of my life that ...
Im always the bridesmaid ......lol

You can get my email off Suzie

I await those *white bits* an you dancing drunk on tables pics ...hahahaha

well you can be my groom now ...about time I settled down

gorra go guys...catch ya soon...xxx

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:
tatty i have nowt to hide so you can search for me susan Liebnitz let me know who you are when you add

that goes for anyone else.

lol you will know its me cos its Tatty and my last name that is the same as a very famous actor

i will go do it now brb

ok have found you yogi and sent request

thank you

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
aww I wondered why you did not reply to my last PM Mike asking for your details...wanted to send you some hol pics from sunny spain..xxx

Hiya Bagel

Am I glad this is all out in the open It's not easy being vague with this sort of problem. Thanks for your offer of help and hopefully now we can help Mike too

quote:

Originally posted by Tatty:
ok have found you yogi and sent request

thank you

got you tatty

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:

quote:

Originally posted by Tatty:

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
aww I wondered why you did not reply to my last PM Mike asking for your details...wanted to send you some hol pics from sunny spain..xxx

cooee bagel hows ya hol's going??

fabaroola thanks!! am in hotel whiling tiime away until I go out soon...

ooo sounds laavelly, wish i was there ... heyho will have to make doo with sunny ole England

Bagel
Big and

have a good night babes...

Yogi =Susan
I must of sensed you as a lovely lady...lol
cos I added you ...

Suzie
I will need a lot of help at facebook as Im very confused /bewildered there ...

quote:

Originally posted by *Yogi Bear*:

quote:

Originally posted by Tatty:
ok have found you yogi and sent request

thank you

got you tatty

yes you certainly have

quote:

Originally posted by Mike Strutter:
Bagel
Big and

have a good night babes...

Yogi =Susan
I must of sensed you as a lovely lady...lol
cos I added you ...

Suzie
I will need a lot of help at facebook as Im very confused /bewildered there ...

I'm sure amongst the ladies here and me we will have you racing through FB in no time
Then it MSN lessons

quote:

Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
gorra go guys...catch ya soon...xxx

laters bagel .. .enjoy

suzie....have added your request..already have yogi and for anyone else suzie or yogi will give you my real name...xxx