Originally Posted by Aimee:
i must admit i am struggling with the growing up and letting go thing , i just want my baby too be safe
Originally Posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
oh I hear ya Aimee...
I am in exactly the same position.. admittedly Ickle is 18.. but I know for a fact she is not half as clued up as I was at her age...
I worry like hell about her..
I was like you two not too long ago - in my case it was my Lad - grew up in a very rural area and not very streetwise at all - until he passed his driving test he relied on us as public transport was virtually non existant
passed his test - first worry - hit 18 and able to go clubbing and drinking was second worry
he didnt take to clubbing very well so that worry didnt last long - in his first year of driving had a nasty car crash and six months later got beaten up [ mistaken identity] at a supervised house party
took a good six months to sort him round from this but it made him MAN up - during this time I also MANNED up and can say the worry has now gone everytime his car wheels move or he is out drinking for an evening
He is a good lad and didnt need this but is very respectful and if he is going to be later than usual or is away long distance always rings to say he is ok and what time to expect him
I am so manned up I now go to bed and sleep even if he isnt in something a couple of years ago I couldnt do
you have to let them go - it isnt easy - but it gets easier with time
and the mobile phone - never leaves his hand or pocket - I ban it from the meal table but am sure it is used at every given hour he can