My experience tonight...
Out tonight with friends at an 80s alternative night...
So I'm dancing and approached by a girl who tbh is quite overtly amorous... I should explain that at this moment in life having been badly hurt I'm not looking for.. well... anything at all. But.. she is being friendly and I see no harm in anything, she's being very affectionate and has her friend take photos on phone of us together. Both she and friend seem like nice people.
Afterwards I return to my friends and notice at one point she seems to have moved toward someone else. I'm not really troubled by this, as I say... I'm not looking for anything inclined toward romance.
Some time later I see her and I begin to chat (just to be friendly) at which point she and friend act aloof and make excuses not to interact.
So... as I read it, I was actually second choice to the other guy... fine !!! but why be so rude ? she could have made a friend.
Mostly I'm annoyed at myself...
I am genuinely more annoyed at myself for giving them the opportunity to be so rude. to reject me as a person.
I'm not interested in a relationship but I'm not made of stone either.
Am I just too thin skinned ?