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http://www.guardian.co.uk/envi...iolated-relationship

On one hand i think this statement from the woman in question is right "In a general sense, there is the feeling that if somebody was being paid to have sex with me, that gives me a sense of having been violated."

But the guy was under cover for 7years! I really doubt he was told to have sexual relationships, he's a human being and going 7years without any 'lovin' is way beyond the call of duty imo lol But still i feel for the women too as they were lied to... but then what woman hasnt been lied to.... i'm going round in circles

Also do you think these relationships are the reason he switched sides and came out in defence of the activists?? It's gotta be.

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I don't see how she can say, it was like he was being paid to have sex with her that in those circumstances she would also feel violated.  Whatever the blokes intentions are, surely if the woman consents, there's no violation?

To me it seems the same as if you were in a niteclub and a blokes bullsh*ts you to get his leg over.  It's crap the next morning when you realise you've been played, but meh that's life chick!   I don't see how there's a violation?

Fair enough you'd have a grievance that maybe this guy's using his undercover work to get a shag and maybe that should be looked into and clear lines drawn up as to what the rules are while you're undercover?
Temps
Lol Zazz!

Temps i see your point and kinda agree but surely a one night stand is slightly different to 20 times?

I'd like to know if its true he had a wife and child before going under cover, if he did thats a long time away from your child for work, even prisoners get to see thier families

I dont know, im with joe i think theres alot more to all this still to come out.

Moonbeams i wouldnt think so as it was a new identity kind of think rather than fraudulent.
Jen-Star
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So she didn't care that he was possibly in relationships with other people? Only that it was 'possibly' part of his job.

This does blow her arguement out of the water a little for me, as either they were a couple which would give her cause to feel a bit violated, or they were in an open relationship which doesnt leave a leg to stand on really does it?
Jen-Star
He has been mentioned in the German parliament. He has apparently been on German demos and they are rather upset about it.
I don't understand all the fuss. We knew that various political groups were infiltrated back in the early seventies, in fact we thought that the local IMG organiser was one who had ended up there due to a lack of commitment by others.
That very amusing police comedy with Rowan Atkinson even had an episode specifically about the subject.
Garage Joe

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