I am so stressed - my mum has had to go back to hospital so I am worrying about her and all I can hear are the annoying next door neighbours baging ad f'ing and blinding at their little kids - driving me insane - really could do woth going somewhere but my hair is stuck to my head it is so greasey and i can't be bothered getting dressed!!
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quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:
I am so stressed - my mum has had to go back to hospital so I am worrying about her and all I can hear are the annoying next door neighbours baging ad f'ing and blinding at their little kids - driving me insane - really could do woth going somewhere but my hair is stuck to my head it is so greasey and i can't be bothered getting dressed!!
O kay. Right! get to the bathroom run the water in the bath. Put some smellie things in then emerge yourself.....Drop every thing and just chill out to get your thoughts straight.You will feel better for it and it will enable you to deal with the situation!
Then come back on here and talk it through!
quote:Originally posted by figtree:quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:
I am so stressed - my mum has had to go back to hospital so I am worrying about her and all I can hear are the annoying next door neighbours baging ad f'ing and blinding at their little kids - driving me insane - really could do woth going somewhere but my hair is stuck to my head it is so greasey and i can't be bothered getting dressed!!
O kay. Right! get to the bathroom run the water in the bath. Put some smellie things in then emerge yourself.....Drop every thing and just chill out to get your thoughts straight.You will feel better for it and it will enable you to deal with the situation!
Then come back on here and talk it through!
I did have a bath earlier - must admit it heped me feel a little calmer but still stressing loads!!
Hevva
did they sort out your mums problems though? You haven't been around to ask. Why is she going back in?
As for the neighbours - I agree, it is distressing to hear them shouting at their kids and then hearing the kids screaming.
I live on a really large estate where the walls are made out of tissue and spit so I sympathise.
As figtree says, have a bath and chill. You'll feel better and then if it doesn't work at least you'll be all ready to go out for a walk
did they sort out your mums problems though? You haven't been around to ask. Why is she going back in?
As for the neighbours - I agree, it is distressing to hear them shouting at their kids and then hearing the kids screaming.
I live on a really large estate where the walls are made out of tissue and spit so I sympathise.
As figtree says, have a bath and chill. You'll feel better and then if it doesn't work at least you'll be all ready to go out for a walk
quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Hevva
did they sort out your mums problems though? You haven't been around to ask. Why is she going back in?
As for the neighbours - I agree, it is distressing to hear them shouting at their kids and then hearing the kids screaming.
I live on a really large estate where the walls are made out of tissue and spit so I sympathise.
As figtree says, have a bath and chill. You'll feel better and then if it doesn't work at least you'll be all ready to go out for a walk
she has a kidney stone - they are waiting for it come out naturally but this morning she had the really severe pain again - really upsets me to see her in that much pain!!
quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Hevva
did they sort out your mums problems though? You haven't been around to ask. Why is she going back in?
As for the neighbours - I agree, it is distressing to hear them shouting at their kids and then hearing the kids screaming.
I live on a really large estate where the walls are made out of tissue and spit so I sympathise.
As figtree says, have a bath and chill. You'll feel better and then if it doesn't work at least you'll be all ready to go out for a walk
she has a kidney stone - they are waiting for it come out naturally but this morning she had the really severe pain again - really upsets me to see her in that much pain!!
Aww its sad to see ya mam in pain
Hope she feels better soon
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating 
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
Me mam had gall stones and they used ultrasound top break em up....
quote:Originally posted by moonie:quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
Me mam had gall stones and they used ultrasound top break em up....
Moonie
maybe that's what I meant - I'm not very medical techy being an old hippy an all
Now where did I put them leeches .....
quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
Oh yes. I can vouch for that.
quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
Oh yes. I can vouch for that.
Poor you. Thankfully I haven't.
Did you need further treatment or did they just pass normally?
If it's a simple non invasive procedure to break them up then I don't understand why they would leave people in such pain while waiting for them to pass naturally
quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:quote:Originally posted by moonie:quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
Me mam had gall stones and they used ultrasound top break em up....
Moonie
maybe that's what I meant - I'm not very medical techy being an old hippy an all
Now where did I put them leeches .....
Veggie
*Passes Veggie her leeches*
ewwwwwwquote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Aww, I've heard that kidney stones can be excrutiating
I'm sure that if they don't pass naturally then they will be able to laser them or whatever they do now.
Poor you and your mum
they said if it hasn't passed within 4 weeks they will operate but they didn't specify what that would actually entail!!
Don't think they can do the laser procedure though because he stone is hidden behind a bone!!
I would think your mum is in the process of passing the stones or a stone,it's that that is causing the pain,but your mum may have more than one stone,I am sure they are giving your mum something to dissolve them,which will facilitate her to pass them.I've had them myself in the past,very unpleasant to say the least.When she's passed them she will be fine believe me.
Now get your hair washed and go and see her looking your best.Don't give her added stress,as I'm sure your mum is more worried about you than herself.
Thanks to everyone who posted in here today - sorry I didn't reply sooner!!
They let her come home and have given her stronger pain relief - touch wood that will keep pain away!!
They let her come home and have given her stronger pain relief - touch wood that will keep pain away!!
Hopefully she will feel a bit better in herself just by being at home.
I always feel worse when I am in hospital, at least she will be able to relax at home.
Fingers crossed that the pain relief will help and that she won't need any surgery
I always feel worse when I am in hospital, at least she will be able to relax at home.
Fingers crossed that the pain relief will help and that she won't need any surgery
quote:Originally posted by Veggieburger:
Hopefully she will feel a bit better in herself just by being at home.
I always feel worse when I am in hospital, at least she will be able to relax at home.
Fingers crossed that the pain relief will help and that she won't need any surgery
I know hospitals always seem to make you feel worse - don't know how anyone manages to get better whilst in there!!
Jus praying now that it does come out by itself and surgery isn't needed!!
Awwww hope you and your mom feel better soon Pretty_P .
.quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Awwww hope you and your mom feel better soon Pretty_P
You talking to someone with greasy hair Darlo?
Hope your mum's getting better and the screaching next door has stopped PrettyP
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Awwww hope you and your mom feel better soon Pretty_P
You talking to someone with greasy hair Darlo?
Hope your mum's getting better and the screaching next door has stopped PrettyP
finally the parents came home and so that shut them up!!
quote:You talking to someone with greasy hair Darlo?
Lol only had that problem with silly Sophie
.quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:
finally the parents came home and so that shut them up!!
Oh I misunderstood PrettyP, thought it was the parents who were f'in and blindin'
How's your mum doing?
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:
finally the parents came home and so that shut them up!!
Oh I misunderstood PrettyP, thought it was the parents who were f'in and blindin'
How's your mum doing?
The people who own the house - well it was their daughter who was f'ing and blinding at her 2 year old she also had friends over who were also shouting at their children!!
Sorry didnt make it very clear!!
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Pretty_P:
finally the parents came home and so that shut them up!!
Oh I misunderstood PrettyP, thought it was the parents who were f'in and blindin'
How's your mum doing?
Mum is ok the pain has gone but she is just really tired now - they gave her morphine in the hospital so that has knocked her out!!
Well lets hope your mum passes it tomorrow.Fingers crossed,try and get a good nights sleep now Pretty.
