Tiddly, you jest.  Please tell me she didn't say that- what kind of men has she been associating with OR what kind of game is she playing.

Oh gawd ,cricket bats aren't involved are they?

"Well I'd rather my man would hit me
Than for him to jump up and quit me."

Billie Holiday, Ain't Nobody's Business If I Do

Thanks Deman

How interesting.

Wow.

Says alot about the silly girl.

She's in the pool, fully clothed but with her mike off, at his feet and talking up to him, because he's sitting at the side with his sulky crab eyed poncy wee horrible face.   She's pathetic.

She'll be apologising to him soon.

just wait, it'll happen as sure as eggs is eggs

l've had to turn it off as my blood pressure is rising

Why can't just one of that lot who are listening to all of this, looking totally fed up and bored out of their skulls, just tell the pair of them to STFU, because they're sick of the same old shyte, over and over and over again and again.   

I know, its maddening. I wouldn't last a full day in that house.

Nor me.

Notice none of her fan club are in here defending what she said!     YET!!!    

Did she really say that?

Yes she bluddy well did!

God she really is a prize doughnut

Funny, I watched Sleeping with the Enemy this afternoon. I thought it was the story of my life but looks like I have a successor

I'd prefer neither physical or emotional abuse thanks!

Only saying what came out of Josie's own mouth Super!     

Josie has had it easy from BB ,She has had warning(s) from BB but it's never been shown.
Josie has her ticket to the final so sod the lot of them ,including Crab eyes.
She lay under a Duvet for weeks and she could win the show.

if its never been shown how do you know?..or are you assuming because she's been called to the d/r during various rows she has been?.......john james was called to the d/r when rowing and screaming at sam......he wasn't warned......

She said it on live feed herself.

oh and on the subject of the opening post.....a mate of mine who was married to an abusive bloke said that when he hit her she knew it'd be over in seconds.....when he emotionally tormented her it could go on for days......whether it was the silent treatment or just verbal abuse........

but you said its never been shown?..........if its been on l/f then its no secret is it?...and doesn't mean bb are trying to protect her by not showing it

Again six of one half dozen of the other...He was ignoring her today,the other week she was ignoring him,jebus this JJJ thing has completely overshadowed this whole series imo.

Shown on the HL show!

now i'm really confused!!.....she's had warnings but its not been shown......then it was on l/f....now it's been on the h/l???..........if she's had warnings from bb....then she's not had an easy ride from them has she?....nor are they singling her out for preferential treatment

I didn't know she had been warned

Yeah, I know Tidds, disturbing thing to say, I agree, even if said in half jest. However, it also disturbs me that if he is being emotionally abusive to her as some here seem to be suggesting, that it is concluded by these very amateur psychologists that she's as bad as him/she's somehow asking for it, which is why I am staying away from that thread and now I'll be staying away from this one Just one word 'though: there are plenty of victims/survivors of abuse who will say that the drip, drip, drip and withdrawl of emotional abuse is often far more painful than a 'hiding.' Like I said, I'd prefer neither.

Today she said on the live feed about BB warning her re Sam(confirmed for the first time).I am saying why was this not shown on the HL show when it took place.

 I doubt her reference to it ,  will be shown tomorrow ,hence BB protecting her.

I didn't like my 'hidings' and Josie's remark is beyond the pale. She is doing a great disservice to women who are insecure and/or submissive.

Cologne, that's hardly what I was implying and I am astounded that you took that from my post

I think I know the thread you mean..I posted in it. It wasn't a stab at psychology from my part, I drew my theory from quite a lot of personal experience and from the extensive work I've done on abuse and control this year (and some in previous years). I'm not saying I'm right at all, I'm just saying what I see based on what I've read up on and relationships I know of (including my previous ones) *shrugs*

As for the part I've bolded, I completely agree with you.

if it was broadcast on l/f.....which has a delay...hence the sound dips....then it has been aired and so therefore they aren't protecting her

You don't often know it is happening and you think it is normal behaviour and that is how it is supposed to be,

Yes, sorry. Wrong expression, I should have said 'preferred'.