I nearly fell over!
He's the last out of six siblings to get married and no break ups, so far.
Anyway, I've been married nearly 21 years and he hasn't tried to escape once.
Funnily enough, I got a phone call from my brother tonight. He's getting married next summer, his first time, and he's fifty!
I nearly fell over!
He's the last out of six siblings to get married and no break ups, so far.
Anyway, I've been married nearly 21 years and he hasn't tried to escape once.
I nearly fell over!
He's the last out of six siblings to get married and no break ups, so far.
Anyway, I've been married nearly 21 years and he hasn't tried to escape once.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
Funnily enough, I got a phone call from my brother tonight. He's getting married next summer, his first time, and he's fifty!
I nearly fell over!
He's the last out of six siblings to get married and no break ups, so far.
Anyway, I've been married nearly 21 years and he hasn't tried to escape once.
he's probably shit scared
LOL!
quote:Originally posted by charmer:
he's probably shit scared
LOL!
Probably!He has been pretty rubbish at relationships all his life, then he met someone at 46, had a daughter at 47 and now they are getting married.
Miracles can happen.
Or did you mean my husband?
well
blizzie
one day i'll take my OH up the aisle
i will do
watch this space
and when ibully convince her-you can be a bridsemaid
she loves me
blizzie
one day i'll take my OH up the aisle
i will do
watch this space
and when i
she loves me
quote:Originally posted by charmer:
well
blizzie
one day i'll take my OH up the aisle
i will do
watch this space
and when ibullyconvince her-you can be a bridsemaid
she loves me
Aww, I will most definitely have a shave for that!
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
He's the last out of six siblings to get married and no break ups, so far.
I'm one of 6 too, plus two half sisters
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by charmer:
well
blizzie
one day i'll take my OH up the aisle
i will do
watch this space
and when ibullyconvince her-you can be a bridsemaid
she loves me
Aww, I will most definitely have a shave for that!
LOL!
you make me laugh
shave!
shave like youve never shaved before
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
He has been pretty rubbish at relationships all his life, then he met someone at 46, had a daughter at 47 and now they are getting married.
Miracles can happen.
That's nice, awwww
I love being married - I'm on my second marriage now (not wanting any more tyvm) as is DH and when it's good it's wonderful.
When I was single, I sometimes used to envy married people. I can't understand why. 
quote:Originally posted by charmer:quote:Originally posted by captain marbles:
Yes. But you both have to believe the bit about "until death do you part". Otherwise dont bother.
believe me -i love her to bits- but its a case of once bitten twice shy..
someone spoiled it for her
I've been married for nearly 13 years, most of which has been very happy, though not without it's rough patches. Personally, I like being married, HOWEVER...My mum was married to my dad for 16 years and he treated her like crap, humiliated her, beat her, slept with her mates etc etc. She was lucky enough to meet the bloke I call my step dad 23 years ago. He took her away from all the crap and has treated her like a queen for all those years. He's a bit younger than her and he'd never been married. He's asked her countless times to marry him but she won't do it. I want her to as well but she just doesn't see the point. Both he and I know though that she loves and adores him and that her reasons for not wanting to marry again are nothing to do with him. Your OH is like my mum, someone has spoiled the concept of marriage for her, but I bet that she views your relationship like my mum views hers. She is happy, trusting and comfortable enough with you to know that you will love, protect and honour her (and her son). She knows from experience that marriage is more than a legal formalisation, what you have is an emotional marriage and you are in it together for all the right reasons. She might change her mind one day but don't worry about it if she doesn't. If you both end up as happy as my mum and step dad, that piece of paper won't matter a jot.
If it ain't broke don't fix it. Just let her know that you love her and would be proud to share your last name.. and if that she ever changes her mind you'll be honoured to marry her.. but you are committed to her as if she was your wife and you're not going anywhere. 
quote:Originally posted by fabienne:
When I was single, I sometimes used to envy married people. I can't understand why.
You always have someone to go to the cinema or a restaurant with, I suppose. Also, some holidays can be cheaper with two. Other than that, beats me.
I couldn't stand the loss of freedom or personal space, myself.
quote:Originally posted by charmer:
i want to marry my OH, shes been married before, she reckons its crap..too much trouble to get out of etc..
ive not been married before..so..is she right?
she married a complete twat who left her as soon as he found out their son was 'not right in the head' (His words)
is marriage (sp) good or what?
warning do not discuss anything thatisn't BB related as you will receive a private message from a certain fm telling you not to!!
dont see the point in marriage - just live in sin like me I am engaged though and have been for 4 years - i just wanted a nice diamond ring
I am engaged though and have been for 4 years - i just wanted a nice diamond ring 