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Jen, as Velvet says it's good to let rip from time to time. I'm glad that you've been given the all clear

Jen, keep your chin up 🤗

One positive result (your scan) is the start towards that light at the end of the tunnel 😊

The door to the forum is always open, except when “they are updating”  

Be strong, think positive 😊🤗

It's good that we have this place

Hope things improve Jen 

Jen, if you can't spill here, where can you??

Glad to hear your scan came back OK--that's the BEST news!

How much longer will your hubby be gone? 

And how does a kid break TWO hoovers??

You have to vent and sometimes when so much happens it is overwhelming ...glad your scan came back ok and someone said to me that no one goes to their grave wishing they had done more hoovering...best of luck and good wishes to you and yours 

Amythist posted:

You have to vent and sometimes when so much happens it is overwhelming ...glad your scan came back ok and someone said to me that no one goes to their grave wishing they had done more hoovering...best of luck and good wishes to you and yours 

Actually, I have a friend who MIGHT say that.

Jen it's good to get things out, hope things ease up soon, sending a HUGE hug. xxx

Awww Jen , you’ve had a rough time Glad your scan came back ok though ....and hope your FIL is home soon

Really pleased to hear your scan came back OK Jen. This is defo the place to spill your heart out, lots of people here with good advice and a listening ear. Sounds like you have been put through it from many directions, hopefully everything will return to near normal soon and you feel happier in yourself. Here's a virtual hug from me 

Big hug Jen 

It would have been stressful enough waiting for the results of the breast lump tests without the added worry of your FiL - and trying to protect your eldest from extra stress at the same time. Remember you’re never on your own here.

Sorry to hear of your recent crap times Jen, hopefully your FIL will soon be back with your hubby in tow...Pleased the lump was nothing to worry about 

I hope all is back to normal for you very soon 

Jen - I was going to reply last night, but didn't in the end as I was too tired. I'm glad I didn't in the end, as I realise now that I initially misread your OP. 

So pleased to hear you've had the all-clear, and your FiL's recovering.

Kudos also to your husband for his keen and timely powers of observation. 

You must have both had a dreadful fright, but the sooner these things are seen to the better.

Lori posted:

Jen, if you can't spill here, where can you??

Glad to hear your scan came back OK--that's the BEST news!

How much longer will your hubby be gone? 

And how does a kid break TWO hoovers??

Hubby gets back on the 8th os June, his Dad has been discharged (against the doc wishes) through the insurance being persistent on it.

The boy of mine will do ANYTHING to avoid actually doing anything, he's 14 so i guess we've all been there 

Amythist posted:

You have to vent and sometimes when so much happens it is overwhelming ...glad your scan came back ok and someone said to me that no one goes to their grave wishing they had done more hoovering...best of luck and good wishes to you and yours 

This just made rl laugh out loud  Thanx xx

Aww you guys! You're all what every girl needs in her life! Your messages have really meant a lot tonight.

FiL was discharged back to the villa today less than a week after his major Op. He's doing well though 

Thank you all for your support and sorry i took til late tonight to reply... Today i had Docs for eldest blood tests, then onto dentist for her to have a baby tooth removed that had literally cracked down the middle with the adult one growing through (poor thing was like a pin cushion today) 

Good news, My Dad came up from Brum to help with the kids being off school and me being at work etc.

Love you all,  my Gaga family 

Sounds like things are looking up a little! 

Lori posted:

Sounds like things are looking up a little! 

Big time, i was saying to my friend i should buy a lotto ticket