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Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:
Originally Posted by Duchess of Alba:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

I have to admit when I read the post about the accidental love bite I immediately flashed back to being at school and kids mucking about making fake love bites on their mates neck by pinching and twisting the skin. . only took a second to do and they did one on me as well which I was not pleased with having to explain away to parents what with only being a kid..

 

The letter to the school was a very bad idea, stupid parenting, not something I'd want to be admitting. too, if indeed it actually happened. Looks like a wind up to me, in bad taste.

Fair enough, but this was with other children, yes? Not someone in loco parentis?

I agree, the ironic letter is just every shade of wrong. At least the poster put a blush at the end of his post, it is shameful. 

not sure what you mean there. .but if you mean a step parent then should every step parent avoid rough and tumble play with kids? Isn't that a natural part of play, and to be encouraged, or should step parents avoid contact at all cost?

 

Lets face it whether the post was true or not or just done in bad taste to wind people up, which it succeeded in doing, you can give a kid any sort of mark in play and get just as many back. . even blowing a raspberry on a child's belly could result in some sort of mark. .  it's a twisted and sad world where, at the first port of call, the very worst is thought

 The voice of sanity!

Yogi19
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:
Originally Posted by Duchess of Alba:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

I have to admit when I read the post about the accidental love bite I immediately flashed back to being at school and kids mucking about making fake love bites on their mates neck by pinching and twisting the skin. . only took a second to do and they did one on me as well which I was not pleased with having to explain away to parents what with only being a kid..

 

The letter to the school was a very bad idea, stupid parenting, not something I'd want to be admitting. too, if indeed it actually happened. Looks like a wind up to me, in bad taste.

Fair enough, but this was with other children, yes? Not someone in loco parentis?

I agree, the ironic letter is just every shade of wrong. At least the poster put a blush at the end of his post, it is shameful. 

not sure what you mean there. .but if you mean a step parent then should every step parent avoid rough and tumble play with kids? Isn't that a natural part of play, and to be encouraged, or should step parents avoid contact at all cost?

 

Lets face it whether the post was true or not or just done in bad taste to wind people up, which it succeeded in doing, you can give a kid any sort of mark in play and get just as many back. . even blowing a raspberry on a child's belly could result in some sort of mark. .  it's a twisted and sad world where, at the first port of call, the very worst is thought

The term means anyone in a place of responsibility with children. Aunts, uncles, step-parents, child-minder, teacher. Anyone. 

Duchess of Alba

Yes I know what the term stands for but, thanks for clarifying, 

 

my point was more about the fact my first thought on the post reminded me that I had seen that sort of messing about as a kid, done by other kids to kids altho I had also seen it done adults to adults, or sometimes kid to adult or vice versa, the point really was people muck about and marks appear intentionally or not. . Chinese burns was another one done in 'play'.. rough and tumble is just that, it can  involve people of all ages and can cause bruising but, not any intended harm ..

 

the wind up that got everyone going was the fact the mark was called a 'love bite' and then the bit about the so called letter to the school adding fuel to the fire. . I just know Renton is laughing his socks off at the outrage that followed his ridiculous post, idiot that he is.., however, I didn't think ooh he's a crazy peodo keep him away from kids.. I just thought ooh I remember people messing about giving mock 'love bites' and then I read on and thought idiotic wind up merchant. .  

Mount Olympus *Olly*
Last edited by Mount Olympus *Olly*
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:
Originally Posted by Duchess of Alba:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

I have to admit when I read the post about the accidental love bite I immediately flashed back to being at school and kids mucking about making fake love bites on their mates neck by pinching and twisting the skin. . only took a second to do and they did one on me as well which I was not pleased with having to explain away to parents what with only being a kid..

 

The letter to the school was a very bad idea, stupid parenting, not something I'd want to be admitting. too, if indeed it actually happened. Looks like a wind up to me, in bad taste.

Fair enough, but this was with other children, yes? Not someone in loco parentis?

I agree, the ironic letter is just every shade of wrong. At least the poster put a blush at the end of his post, it is shameful. 

not sure what you mean there. .but if you mean a step parent then should every step parent avoid rough and tumble play with kids? Isn't that a natural part of play, and to be encouraged, or should step parents avoid contact at all cost?

 

Lets face it whether the post was true or not or just done in bad taste to wind people up, which it succeeded in doing, you can give a kid any sort of mark in play and get just as many back. . even blowing a raspberry on a child's belly could result in some sort of mark. .  it's a twisted and sad world where, at the first port of call, the very worst is thought

My feelings exactly Olly  

Baz
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

I have to admit when I read the post about the accidental love bite I immediately flashed back to being at school and kids mucking about making fake love bites on their mates neck by pinching and twisting the skin. . only took a second to do and they did one on me as well which I was not pleased with having to explain away to parents what with only being a kid..

 

The letter to the school was a very bad idea, stupid parenting, not something I'd want to be admitting. too, if indeed it actually happened. Looks like a wind up to me, in bad taste.

I understand what you are saying Olly, but that was kids messing on with kids.  To me what he said is different.  That's an adult giving a child a love bite & thinking it's funny.

Cinds
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

I have to admit when I read the post about the accidental love bite I immediately flashed back to being at school and kids mucking about making fake love bites on their mates neck by pinching and twisting the skin. . only took a second to do and they did one on me as well which I was not pleased with having to explain away to parents what with only being a kid..

Good of you to manufacture an explanation for him Olly....just one small flaw in that 'though, he didn't say that is what happened, nor that it was 'fake' rather that he had no idea how it happened

Tbh, whether it's truthful or he's lying, I find it equally sick either way

FM
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Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 

the wind up that got everyone going was the fact the mark was called a 'love bite' and then the bit about the so called letter to the school adding fuel to the fire. . I just know Renton is laughing his socks off at the outrage that followed his ridiculous post, idiot that he is.., however, I didn't think ooh he's a crazy peodo keep him away from kids.. I just thought ooh I remember people messing about giving mock 'love bites' and then I read on and thought idiotic wind up merchant. .  

The thing is Ollie, its not the first time that he has made 'distasteful posts' about children, being a teacher & also special needs people (remember he claims to work with special needs). 

 

So hang everyone that is a bit disgusted by it. Or if it is all just a joke, tell Renton, it's not that funny.

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:

 

the wind up that got everyone going was the fact the mark was called a 'love bite' and then the bit about the so called letter to the school adding fuel to the fire. . I just know Renton is laughing his socks off at the outrage that followed his ridiculous post, idiot that he is.., however, I didn't think ooh he's a crazy peodo keep him away from kids.. I just thought ooh I remember people messing about giving mock 'love bites' and then I read on and thought idiotic wind up merchant. .  

The thing is Ollie, its not the first time that he has made 'distasteful posts' about children, being a teacher & also special needs people (remember he claims to work with special needs). 

 

So hang everyone that is a bit disgusted by it. Or if it is all just a joke, tell Renton, it's not that funny.

I see the focus has shifted completely on to those of us that had a problem with what we read. I suppose we are all devoid of humour, compassion or bonhomie for inappropriate behaviour and calling 5 year old children trollops after being love-bitten, raspberry blowed, Chinese burned or tickled to death or whatever. 

Perhaps we should all just take a chill pill and send all our children and grandchildren to be looked after by people joking about their honour being intact in spite of allegedly being trollops. Oh how we all laughed! Wind ups are very complex these days as well!

Duchess of Alba

Sorry Lori but I need to say this bit as I think something is unfair here, then I will leave it alone.

 

I wasn't the only one that thought it was a very stoopid post and mentioning I didn't immediately think peodo and just thought plonker, yet I am the one getting flack for saying it.. 

 

This despite knowing Rentons ridiculous posting history over the yrs, I'd have just called him a twat/plonker/idiot for being extremely unfunny and tasteless. In fact that is what I effectively did.. and it wasn't an out of the blue post it followed another one saying similar but in a more diplomatic way than I did but,it did prompt me to add my post as I then knew I wasn't alone in my thinking..

 

Just saying..

Mount Olympus *Olly*

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