I'm very glad to hear that Oldham have seen "sense" and I don't believe for a second that they changed their minds due to the ridiculous threats to their families etc....... more likely the threats from their sponsors.
Playing professional football is not like being a plumber or a taxi driver or all the other professions used to justify why he deserves a second chance. Yes, he deserves to be able to work, just not in a high profile profession that allows young people to idolise him.
I work with young boys, I see on a daily basis how impressionable they can be, and for every young boy with decent, upstanding parents who can provide the balance they need against all the destructive images, casual sexism and poor role models they encounter through the media, there are other young boys who don't, and who need to see people making a stand against this sort of thing. I want to live in a country where people at least try and collectively give young people the right messages. So Ched Scummy Evans can sod off and be an unknown plumber for all I care.
The woman was drunk and stupidly made a choice to go back to a hotel with someone she doesn't know (who was subsequently found not guilty, presumably because the courts recognised that despite her poor decision, she presumably choose to do so at that point) ..... that does not mean she deserved to have some other random bloke walk in on them uninvited (by her) and join in....and two other scum bags (one who was related to the delightful Ched) watching the whole thing through the window.
I worked with a young teenage girl a couple of years ago, who had gone into town with her friends and had been drinking quite a bit. She was led outside into a quiet side street by one man. He was kissing her etc and she was going along with it, and it eventually led to her reluctantly giving him oral sex right there in the street. Not something she would ever have done sober, but arguably her decision. They were then joined by a friend of the man and she was then pressurised into doing the same to him. She was young, drunk and didn't have the skills to get herself out of the situation. She was in a deserted street and she was worried about what would happen if she said no. She was 17 and the two men were in their late 20s. Maybe they didn't have the self awareness to realise how they were making her feel and how she was actually doing things against her wishes but was too scared to object (that's if I'm being generous), but they should have. They really should have! But they didn't care to think about it because they just wanted a cheap thrill.
I just think we need to teach young men how women can feel in these situations and how careful they need to be about making sure something is truly consensual.
Allowing this man to go back to playing football and potentially being a role model to young men AND women is just wrong in my opinion. Whatever people believe about it being or not being rape (and I'm firmly a believer in the former) it was certainly the case that he took advantage of a vunerable woman and hasn't show a scrap of remorse. He should have realised that at the very very best he was on extremely dodgy legal ground.... but he didn't give a crap, he just wanted his bit of fun and to hell with everything else.
If he had been released from prison, apologised for his behaviour, and used his position to show young people you can recover from making terrible mistakes as long as you learn from them and try and make things right, then I wouldn't have had a second thought about his right to return to his original club.
Oh, and his girlfriend is a bloody idiot. I despair of the female gender sometimes, I really do.