Originally Posted by Garage Joe:
It's all a different ball game nowadays, and I couldn't pretend to understand the rules, however in my experience if men are keen they won't leave girls alone. I don't like the idea of him comparing other women, and would advise you to get on with your life. There's someone for everyone out there. I know women are wired differently in these matters but try not to be obsessed by him and look elsewhere. You can't afford to waste time on someone without commitment.
I'm sure the Forum ladies will arrive with more and differing advice to my 60/70's theories.
Originally Posted by Roger the Alien:
Hi Sheryl
Its hard to tell, but it sounds like he's either letting you down gently, or stringing you along. Maybe he doesn't want you to meet someone else and likes to think of you pining for him?
Must be awful to be left in limbo like that.
I agree with Joe and Rog.
It sounds a bit like he won't commit to you, but is keeping your hopes alive in order to keep you in reserve, in case something better doesn't come along.
Time to stop waiting and hoping, and move on with your life.