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Originally Posted by Ells:
Originally Posted by erinp:

According to Steven, Kimberly farts in her sleep at least four times a night - and that's just while he's awake. It doesn't stop him cuddling in close, though. Even when she's stinky

That's just another of his 'you are far from perfect but I love you anyway' ploys that he uses to belittle her and make her embarrassed and love HIM even more for loving her regardless of it.  Gah, I don't think I explained it right I know what I mean.  

I know exactly you mean and  you hit the nail on the head, he keeps telling her how much he loves her and does she know just how much he loves, to reinforce the fact that this is a very big thing and gratitude is expected, in return.

 

He's such a prat.

jacksonb
Originally Posted by Aimee:
I think they are just marks from sleeping against something as you can't be held down by two fingers

i often wake up with marks like that tbh - I sleep all curled up and if I've slept in the same position all night I can wake up with my own fingerprints on me.

 

Doesn't mean Steven's not still a P.C.T. though.

 

 

Kaffs
Originally Posted by jacksonb:
Originally Posted by Ells:
Originally Posted by erinp:

According to Steven, Kimberly farts in her sleep at least four times a night - and that's just while he's awake. It doesn't stop him cuddling in close, though. Even when she's stinky

That's just another of his 'you are far from perfect but I love you anyway' ploys that he uses to belittle her and make her embarrassed and love HIM even more for loving her regardless of it.  Gah, I don't think I explained it right I know what I mean.  

I know exactly you mean and  you hit the nail on the head, he keeps telling her how much he loves her and does she know just how much he loves, to reinforce the fact that this is a very big thing and gratitude is expected, in return.

 

He's such a prat.

yep - Ells nailed it.  I'm no psychologist, but it has to be classic abusive behaviour - erode her self esteem enough and she'll do whatever he wants because she'll believe nobody else could ever want her.    Only saving grace is she's hopefully playing him and might not buy into his crap.

Kaffs

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