No, I wouldn't encourage me either  

I am an INTJ on the Myers Briggs

I used to be ENTJ

And I'm sensing this is not a good thing?

I don't know!! I just posted it, then scuttled off to Google to see what I'd admitted to!!

I quite like the sound of both of them actually!

  *Saves fred* 

This proves you're a bold and fearless kind of person    despite not knowing what you're being bold and fearless about 

I'd go wiv this............for her 

  I knew it, Sprouty.  Call me fizzick.

I know,   I'm not called by my proper name sometimes either 

I'm a genuinely gregarious person and can chat with almost anyone.

But when it comes to people trying to impress each other with clever talk, basically 'social showing off' - i just switch off and get all tongue tied.

Just think a bit and retort 

Although I'm not the right person to be saying this either 

That's a bit of a different social situation to general shyness though, isn't it..?

I amuse myself by sitting back and watching the (often) idiotic floor show at such times.  

I guess its an social awkwardness or uncomfortableness?

Well, I'd cringe for them despite it being nothing to do with me , so yeah, one of those 'moments' when you wish you were somewhere else perhaps?