I noticed my dad looked tired a couple of weeks ago and asked my mum if everything was ok, she said the heat was getting to him and he just felt tired and wasn't eating much.
He's seemed fine since but when I saw him on Saturday I thought he seemed quiet but I never said anything as he's a private person and my mum always says he never let's on if he's feeling unwell and going to the doctors is as alien to him as going clubbing
Just been talking to my neighbour and her granddaughter came outside and said I've just seen your dad in the doctors, I said he was probably picking up my mum's prescription, she said no his name was called out
Now do I ask what's wrong or wait to be told? Going to the doctors is a private thing and his own business but he knows he was saw and that it would get back to me but sometimes people say hello to him and he hasn't a clue who they are till I tell him