Originally Posted by Baz:
I hope people do watch the link Mrs H . I was just so frustrated last night that BB did not show the whole incident . If they had people would I think see that , at least in part , Hazel's actions were IMO an attempt to defuse the situation . Daley was fuming ( seen clearly on LF) that she had dared to disobey him when he had ordered ( and I do mean ordered) her to stop chatting to Charlie and come to bed . And his anger was apparent when she reentered the room . At least that's how I remember it .
I've just finished watching it Mrs B. .don't think you are going to be that pleased with my take on it oops!
I heard a 'drunken' bloke moaning on about women chatting. .nothing I've never heard before and par for the course from men when they've had a few and same for girls they all maon about the opposite sex... . I heard a loud voice of frustration cos he'd wanted to get to sleep but hadn't realised he could turn the SH light off himself.. I heard a shout out about bleedin women chattin again.. and a bit more moaning about women but nowt like what I'd heard people say happened..
Then when she finally came in he went into drunk little boy voice mode. .same as girls do that stoopid drunk little girl voice they do when they've had a few. . anyway for the next half hour there was nothing but banter with smiles in their voices batting to and fro. . if anything Hazel was the aggressor early on and starting off with her mini strop cos he wouldn't go in her bed to cuddle her ... .even then they carried on mucking about and part wrestling and bantering to and fro.. he slapped her arse early on. . an arse slap always hurts but they carried on messing around and both were giggling.. he was also looking for his cover all the time it was going on..
I saw no aggression other than playful sexual aggression . .she even kept kicking him back on his bed every time he tried to stand up. .again both laughing at this..
right up to the hand on throat bit, which was taken out of the feed, everything was all done with laughter and rough housing. . now that I have seen the before up to the throat thing I can see it was a progression of their 'play' ... it was the wrong type of progression IMO but some couples do things like that in sexual foreplay and it may have been a I'm pinning you down fair maiden roleplay moment.. as in then I'm gonna ravish ya or such like... well you know the rest..
obviously the bit about him telling her off and the I'll nut you follows but I am now wondering if in fact that was actually in the same vein as the jokey stuff before.. as in roleplay of the you've been a norty girl let me slap you' type of sexual foreplay.. who knows what people get a kick out of..
Maybe the throat thing is not Hazels cup of tea and maybe he didn't mean it in a move like it came out but obviously she pulled back after it so that mustn't be part of her sexual foreplay manual.. and that was that, their play time was finished in her books so it was cuddle and go to sleep time as she didn't want to play anymore and wanted him to stop too. . then BB called them in and she made out he had been aggressive all the time and she felt threatened. . her voice throughout the whole thing belies that.. ..
I saw BOTS last night and Rylan said he'd watched it 3 times and still couldn't make his mind up completely whether it was as bad as it had been made out.. so I am not alone... I thought I was going mad at first as I wasn't seeing it like all I had read on here and DS..
as I said Mrs B .. I think that was a silly move to do on camera but I actually don't think it was meant in the light it looked.. having seen all the earlier footage now, I am also tending to believe he was messing around when he said all that other stuff as well and hadn't realised their 'game' had stopped and Hazel was taking it seriously and no longer playing.. I may be completely off track, I don't know..
I seem to have a not very girl friendly take on what I've seen but that's how I saw it so sorry fellow ladies I can't say it is what it doesn't appear to be to me.. . . it was horseplay/roleplay gorn a tad wrong and a few misreading of signals both ways..
I'll end by saying I am not viewing form a place of fan of either of them.. I disliked the pair of them for what they were doing in the house and hope she goes too, as I have no doubt she will cos her agent will get her out asap while there is money to be made..
I've not hit submit yet but I bet this is a long waffle