Purple Aki should audition for Big Brother. They seem to let any nutcase in.
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Purple Aki should audition for Big Brother. They seem to let any nutcase in.
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You know I don't bloody care whether she actually looked scared or not, his behaviour got seriously scary and intimidating, full stop. Her behaviour, although not okay, was never scary to him. It was a fun fight with a fair bit of sexual tension chucked in, which got waaaaay out of hand and he ended it by letting her know big style who was in charge in any 'fun fight' stakes. Couple that with what we saw on lf the other night with him in her face telling her when she should and shouldn't wear make up, when he wanted her to .... Holy f'in christ
I don't think anyone is disagreeing with that supes - we're just saying there are more factors and she's not as innocent in it all as might be made out.
I know Kaffs, but as we all well know, victims of abuse aren't always shrinking violets...tbh I'm a bit shocked at some of the stuff I'm reading on here tonight, when it was Nigella, for example, no-one seemed to have any doubts
You're comparing Nigella with Hazel?
Yes, in terms of the 'stills' we saw... didn't her fella try to minimise and justify it too, suggest it wasn't as it looked? I don't care what either of them did to 'wind them up' in their eyes.....not acceptable, full stop, imo
But I don't see anyone saying that Daley's behaviour was acceptable.
Exactly!
You know I don't bloody care whether she actually looked scared or not, his behaviour got seriously scary and intimidating, full stop. Her behaviour, although not okay, was never scary to him. It was a fun fight with a fair bit of sexual tension chucked in, which got waaaaay out of hand and he ended it by letting her know big style who was in charge in any 'fun fight' stakes. Couple that with what we saw on lf the other night with him in her face telling her when she should and shouldn't wear make up, when he wanted her to .... Holy f'in christ
I don't think anyone is disagreeing with that supes - we're just saying there are more factors and she's not as innocent in it all as might be made out.
I know Kaffs, but as we all well know, victims of abuse aren't always shrinking violets...tbh I'm a bit shocked at some of the stuff I'm reading on here tonight, when it was Nigella, for example, no-one seemed to have any doubts
Obviously nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors etc - but Hazel wasn't reduced to tears, she didn't (imo) look afraid or uncomfortable until after the event. There's also the fact that she's known the neaderthal for two minutes - she's not been married to him for years so I don't buy that he's worn her down emotionally.
I'm going to shut up about this shortly, but I think that she was shocked and stunned by how he suddenly turned and it got serious, I mean, really, the apparently 'mild-mannered Daley' (same reaction that we then saw from the hm's ..surely not?) She probably did think it was her fault because of how she behaved, (on the night and beforehand,) and tried to end it by suggesting a hug...How many bloody abused women have done that, whether they've been in a relationship for 5 mins or 5 years, (no answer required!)
You know I don't bloody care whether she actually looked scared or not, his behaviour got seriously scary and intimidating, full stop. Her behaviour, although not okay, was never scary to him. It was a fun fight with a fair bit of sexual tension chucked in, which got waaaaay out of hand and he ended it by letting her know big style who was in charge in any 'fun fight' stakes. Couple that with what we saw on lf the other night with him in her face telling her when she should and shouldn't wear make up, when he wanted her to .... Holy f'in christ
I don't think anyone is disagreeing with that supes - we're just saying there are more factors and she's not as innocent in it all as might be made out.
I know Kaffs, but as we all well know, victims of abuse aren't always shrinking violets...tbh I'm a bit shocked at some of the stuff I'm reading on here tonight, when it was Nigella, for example, no-one seemed to have any doubts
Obviously nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors etc - but Hazel wasn't reduced to tears, she didn't (imo) look afraid or uncomfortable until after the event. There's also the fact that she's known the neaderthal for two minutes - she's not been married to him for years so I don't buy that he's worn her down emotionally.
I'm going to shut up about this shortly, but I think that she was shocked and stunned by how he suddenly turned and it got serious, I mean, really, the apparently 'mild-mannered Daley' (same reaction that we then saw from the hm's ..surely not?) She probably did think it was her fault because of how she behaved, (on the night and beforehand,) and tried to end it by suggesting a hug...How many bloody abused women have done that, whether they've been in a relationship for 5 mins or 5 years, (no answer required!)
OK
OMG Belo made me laugh... I now feel so cheap!
A hair shirt and self-flagilation for you for the next week!
Ouch... but I do deserve it!
As far as was hinted she got her post-fight hug! They stayed in the same room and bed together all night. Or did I mishear BB earlier?
Do you know...............I do like Dan.
Ha Ha, we could start a fan club Soozy, I think that's 4 or 5 of us now!
Supes, can I just clarify that I have never said that Daley's behaviour was excusable or that he didn't deserve to be thrown out.
However, I also think that Hazel's behaviour was out of order, both last night and during the past two weeks. In fact, I believe if a male HM had behaved towards a female HM the way Hazel did with Daley, he would have been warned about sexual harassment.
My disapproval of Hazel's behaviour, in no way, negates my disapproval of Daley's.
Do you know...............I do like Dan.
I don't mind him either.
I think I've had too much sun
Oooo we're getting a proper fan club going now
We are a very opinionated bunch of people aren't we? I think we'd make a great group of HM's for one years BB.
We are a very opinionated bunch of people aren't we? I think we'd make a great group of HM's for one years BB.
too late Pukey - someone's already had that idea
Hazel needs to tell the housies the truth about what happened, ie.... we were play-fighting, I took his duvet, I grabbed him round the neck, he grabbed me round the neck, he slapped my a*se, I pulled his boxers down, it was all role-play, then he got called to the DR and got a rollocking and then I got called to the DR and got a rollocking and I thought they were going to boot me out, so I told them I was scared........ then we spent the night together cuddling and laughing about it
...and that's the size of it. Nice to see you brummie.
We are a very opinionated bunch of people aren't we? I think we'd make a great group of HM's for one years BB.
too late Pukey - someone's already had that idea
LOL..but you and I didn't get a place in the house GRRRRRR
As far as was hinted she got her post-fight hug! They stayed in the same room and bed together all night. Or did I mishear BB earlier?
No idea, they don't seem to tell or show us anything these days Whenever such drama happens on LF, they cut to another camera... kind of goes against the whole point of the show.
Just like last night Daley said Charlie/Hazel had to get out the garden... said BB said so, swore on his kids life. BB twitter then said he lied. Some reason they cut that out aswell, stupid as that's where it all started.
If Hazel was GENUINELY scared, all she had to do was call out to BIG BROTHER durhhhhhhh - there are cams and mics EVERYWHERE, they are being watched day n night - I'm stunned nobody on here as mentioned that fact
ps - hello mi luv Cologne mwahh mwahh
I take it Hazel won't be doing a save and replace on Wednesday night?
Callum's got loads of time for everyone tonight, he hopes they all win.
I take it Hazel won't be doing a save and replace on Wednesday night?
No ................but I expect she might be demanding hugs from one or two people.
So they left them together for the night? Am i right in thinking that? or did they separate them?
They should have thrown a bucket of water over them
Agree with you Bazzers.
I'll jump in after the event with my thoughts.
Neither of them should have been thrown out, they were doing almost precisely what Ch5 wanted them to do,steamy gratification of each others sexual needs for the benefit of the viewing figures.If Ch5 wanted them to keep it sanitised and Doris Day, with one foot on the floor at all times , then they should have told them at the start when they put them in the SH together.
The debacle seems to be around whether his behaviour was acceptable - well if viewed from the standpoint of what is considered 'normal' as being acecptable in a sexual situation - then no , it wasn't.
If it's being viewed by two consenting adults - which seems to be the case here - as acceptable and even desirable - then yes it was fine.
The whole thing is seedy and sordid especially CH5's role in it, the only reason Daley was thrown out was because CH5 feared the offcom.
*disclaimer - I personally find his behaviour and views to be reprehensible.No always means no, regardless of the situation.I didn't see her say 'no' though.
*disclaimer - I personally find his behaviour and views to be reprehensible.No always means no, regardless of the situation.I didn't see her say 'no' though.
Precisely.. he did though, several times and her response was to wrap her legs around his waist and grind on his crotch. I wonder what would have happened if it had been her saying no and him doing that. He's a sleaze and (imo) a bit of dangerous nutjob, but I thought she was nasty prick tease before and just because he behaved abominably doesn't make me revise my opinion of her.
I want to apologise if I went off on one last night . I was just so frustrated that BB did not show the whole incident . If they had you would have seen that, at least in part , Hazel's actions were IMO an attempt to defuse the situation . Daley was fuming ( seen clearly on LF) that she had dared to disobey him when he had ordered ( and I do mean ordered) her to stop chatting to Charlie and come to bed . And his anger was apparent when she reentered the room . But I can see ( in the cold light of day) that without that context the whole incident took on a far less menacing appearance .
By the way I don't like Hazel , and certainly do not condone , or like the way she has ( and no doubt will) carry on. My feelings are simply grounded in this one incident .
LF from Sunday night if anyone wants to see the full Daley/Hazel drama
it is a safe link to click
I think this is worthy of sharing in a few threads
on July 16, 2013 in Big Brother News
*disclaimer - I personally find his behaviour and views to be reprehensible.No always means no, regardless of the situation.I didn't see her say 'no' though.
Precisely.. he did though, several times and her response was to wrap her legs around his waist and grind on his crotch. I wonder what would have happened if it had been her saying no and him doing that. He's a sleaze and (imo) a bit of dangerous nutjob, but I thought she was nasty prick tease before and just because he behaved abominably doesn't make me revise my opinion of her.
Well I just watched it on catch up, and I have even surprised myself, because I'd always almot liked Hazel and always thought Daley was a prat.
He is a prat, that much hasn't changed, but I saw Hazel as the instigator of the play fight and the sexual provoking, she took his duvet she pulled his pants down and she slapped him on the bum.
He may have gone a bit ott with the mafia hardman talk and the 'respect your elders tripe' but it was more laughable than threatening.
All she had to do at anytime if she felt in anyway intimidated is to say, out loud''BB get me out of here'' but she was enjoying herself, at no point did I think she looked or sounded even remotely scared or nervous.
I think she hung him out to dry when BB went over it with her, she played on the 'helpless female role' she should be ashamed of herself and the sisterhood should be ashamed of her too.
Imo.
That's very true Baz.My last paragraph about hanging him out to dry is only my opinion of how she kept herself in the house, it has nothing to do with what happened.She , from what I saw was the instigator,she didn't appear scared or intimidated by him.In fact she upped the 'game'
The only time she ever appeared to not like the game was when he swiped her on the bum, but even after that she pulled his pants down.I'd say she was the agressor rather than him.
And I would have been more than happy to blame him for getting himself kicked off the show, but from what I saw, that wasn't how it was.
I watched a clip earlier, not sure which one it was.
Just watched it.
Whaat I saw was a bloke who wanted to sleep and was deliberately and noisilly awakened by Hazel running the room and pulling the duvet off him.
He woke up.
He probably wanted her to come in so she wouldn't do it again.Although he does sound narky.
Then I saw Hazel come in and get into his bed.
Some banter,she gets into her bed and invites him in, he refuses to get into her bed, more banter, then she gets out of her bed and goes and straddles him on his bed.
Yes, but blokes mouth off, especially thick arrogant ones, when they've had a drink.lol.
He was annoyed and wanted her to come in because he had already tried to get to sleep.
None of that pre- amble had anything to do with the fight/play/tussle/banter they had later, much as I'd like to believe it was his behaviour that caused it all, he really wasn't the aggressor.
Christ I cannot believe I am defending Daley.
I kind of wish I was out of step too Baz.It would sit a lot better...
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