Self pity - feeling down - need comfort

 

There's nothing wrong in that

 That's what we are here for 

Aw, Clumsy  - so sorry to hear that    

thanks you lot 

Sorry for your loss Clumsycat.

Sorry to hear your news Clumsycat

Awwww - Clumsy - so sorry to hear that you're down. There's always someone on here ready to listen when you're having a downer. Don't be sad all on your own

 

It's a bit like extended family on here in times of need.

Really sorry you're having a bad time Clumsycat    

Don't be afraid to come in here + get it off your chest!

 

 

what Renton Saint said 

 

Here's another hug Clumsy 

 

Sorry to hear about your personal circumstances. I can imagine it's very difficult losing close family so soon after each other.

 

That old saying "time is a good healer" I find is very true. Although things seem bleak at the moment, they will get better.

 

And as others have said, you can express any feelings you like on here, that's what it's for.

Clumsy

Oh dear 

Aw Clumsy, sorry to hear that.

 

But the sudden lack of postings by a fairly regular poster is more likely to cause concern, rather than umbrage.

Oh, Clumsy.

I'm so sorry about your Grandmother. Doesn't matter if you know it's coming--it STILL hurts.

 

Hope you start to feel better soon.

Listen to mummy Soozy 

I'm very sorry to hear your sad news.

Sorry to hear of your recent losses Sadly such things become all to frequent as we get older

Its not self pity Clumsy..., just grief 

Sounds like you were close to your grandmother. 

Oh clumsy very sad news indeed, go ahead and feel blue, you're very much allowed to Know what never dies? Love nothing will ever change how you loved your dad & grandma, nor will hoe they loved you. That will last forever. I lost both of mine too, and although the years pass and time heals, you never forget them. I think of them daily, and most of the time it's a laugh, a smile or a fond memory.. It's only my opinion but I don't think they are ever really far away I hope you feel better soon

Sorry to hear your sad news, Clumsy. I hope you have lots of lovely memories of your grandma.

Now I agree that they are never far away because they're always in your heart ................I'd really like to think that they're near sort of 'spiritually' but I don't. And that's a whole other topic in which I'm sure there are a myriad of opinions.

 

I'm happy to have people in my heart and mind - that'll do for me - anything else would be a bonus.

Clumsy have a big hug.

 

 

Condolences Clumsy  

So sorry Clumsy..

Hope you have some lovely photos to look at too

So sorry for your loss Clumsy. As others have said, always someone here if you want to chat about how you are feeling 

Hi Clumsy

 

Hope you're feeling a little brighter today and hope you'll be ready to 'come out and play' soon 

 

It always hurts when you lose someone - I know you'll know this already as it really is an old cliche but 'Time really is a great healer'

How are you feeling today Clumsy? 

Have you somebody around, you can talk to about it?  

If not please feel free to come on here  

 

Losing your grandmother only a year after your dad, is tough 

Hi All,

 

Still feeling rather delicate today, keep breaking down at odd times.

She was my ray of sunshine, always laughing & happy to see me.

I miss her 

 

Your kind words are lovely 

Thank you sooooo much 

Awww c'mere Clumsy  

Your Grandmother sounds really special. You must miss her terribly.

I do 

Poor Clumsy  Wish I could mend your heartbreak. Only time can do that unfortunately 

If its any consolation... if your grandmother was very ill, it may have been a release for her? Doesn't make it any easier to bear though  The way you speak of her is a testament to what a wonderful person she was. I'm sure you made her just as happy in return 

I really hope I did, and thank you 

Clumsy.

  She was always laughing and happy to see you - you bet you did!!!