hiya all. It will be 3 weeks tomorrow since she came home. The surgery went well and they said they got all the tumor. The procedure was called a Whipple ( for those of you who want to know the details). Times have been very rough since she came home, sickness after eating- she has to take a tablet after every meal to help to digest it. Monday i had to call 999 as she said she could not get her breath- turned out to be a panic attack but i was worried sick. 
Like i said times are rough at the moment both for her and me. Am doing all the washing cleaning hanging washing out folding it when dry and making meals for her -- something new for me but i will do anything for her to ensure she makes a full recovery. I love her so much and to see her like this really gets me down. I will cope though and we will come through this stronger.
Sorry for the long post but needed to get it off my chest.
