Awww Ditty. I do get where you're coming from. I do actually get quite pissed off when people have a go at people for using a car: basically, they are probably attacking over 90% of the population! It's all very well saying that we should all get there under our own steam, and we should give up our cars, (or should all share cars if we MUST use them!) but its not always convenient or practical. My other half works various shifts where he works and his nearest colleague is 5 miles from us. Also the kids I know, and in my family, have different schools and colleges with different start times and finish times and as someone said above ^^^ some people have kids in the same family at different schools.
Once upon a time, people worked close to their home (some companies even used to provide housing for a small weekly rent taken from your wages,) and families - close and extended - used to live within a decent walking distance of each other, and people lived in the same home for their whole life! And the pub or social club was close by... But now people do not live close by the their family, and hardly ANYone lives near their work... and it is not their fault!!! (remember Norman Tebbit: 'get on your bike and find a job, even if it means moving towns!) People have been FORCED into having to use cars. And the fact that public transport is unreliable and costly and sometimes takes two to three times longer than it does in the car doesn't help!
And mums have been encourage/forced/coerced, (whatever you want to call it,) out to work over the years...so have kids to get ready for school in the morning, then they have to get them to school, THEN they have to get to work...Not having a car is impractical for many... When women were told it was a good idea to go out to work, someone didnt think of a very important issue.... who would look after the children??? People have jobs in different towns, and their kids are not always 'walking distance' away from the school (and it's not safe to let them walk these days - for various reasons.) These days, people (women especially!) have to constantly juggle. And having no car is hardly on ANYONE's agenda. Especially if you're a working mother!
And you are right that it's often cheaper to use the car - especially if there are more than one or two in your family. PLUS, it's much much faster.
People who do not have a car and don't need to have one are very lucky, but I wish they wouldn't look at people who do have a car (or more than one,) as pondscum who are wrecking the planet, and treat them as if they are lazy by 'not walking or cycling...' Not everyone is in the same position as them.
In my experience of people I know/have known, the 'bash the car driver' brigade often fits a typical template... the smug and slightly pious leftie who refuses to shop at mainstream clothes shops, (and sometimes makes their OWN clothes,) who cooks absolutely EVERYthing from scratch, (and looks down on people who don't,) who have not bought a newspaper in 20 years or more (if ever) and have probably not got a telly and would rather poke their eyes out than read OK or Heat magazines. It's not the fact that they have their little 'ways' and lifestyle choices that pisses me off; it's the way they look down their noses at people who don't live like them, and how they often think they're better people because they don't have a car, they cook from scratch and they don't shop at Tesco, Asda or Morrisons!
Phew what a rant! Upshot is Ditty (and anyone else who uses a car regularly,) don't feel bad about it. It's not your fault!