Either now or in previous relationships if you aren't with someone at the minute.
I'm just reading a thread on digital spy (I keep recycling threads from there ) where someone thinks her OH is having an affair and should she read his texts. That sounded strange to me because in my house the OH and I use each other phones to call or text so there wouldn't be a raised eyebrow if we were to grab each others phones. I know his passwords to his emails etc and his facebook is always logged on on his laptop and same on mine.
BUT it seems lot of people seem to like their own privacy and would hate for their OHs to read texts and are advising the OP not to look at the phone While I understand that some people don't like people reading their texts I think in the case of suspecting an affair then reading the texts would be ok? I know my OH wouldn't even blink if I read his texts and it wouldn't bother me if he red mine (although I'd call him nosey )
Anyway, how much privacy do you think there should be in a relationship and would you look at the texts if you were in OPs position?