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Either now or in previous relationships if you aren't with someone at the minute.

 

I'm just reading a thread on digital spy (I keep recycling threads from there ) where someone thinks her OH is having an affair and should she read his texts.  That sounded strange to me because in my house the OH and I use each other phones to call or text so there wouldn't be a raised eyebrow if we were to grab each others phones.  I know his passwords to his emails etc and his facebook is always logged on on his laptop and same on mine. 

 

BUT it seems  lot of people seem to like their own privacy and would hate for their OHs to read texts and are advising the OP not to look at the phone   While I understand that some people don't like people reading their texts I think in the case of suspecting an affair then reading the texts would be ok?   I know my OH wouldn't even blink if I read his texts and it wouldn't bother me if he red mine (although I'd call him nosey )

 

Anyway, how much privacy do you think there should be in a relationship and would you look at the texts if you were in OPs position?

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Originally Posted by Soozy Woo:

I'm with you Ells - we know each others passwords etc. etc we rarely use each others stuff but do share the same e mail address. - TBH though if you were having an affair wouldn't you have secret passwords and put some sort of lock on the phone (is that possible?) 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sorry I quoted instead of edited ^^^^^^^

Soozy Woo

Hubby always has to ask me what his pin numbers and passwords are

 

Hmmmm, I wouldn't like him to go rifling through my handbag, or going through my phone without asking me. Same as I wouldn't go through his pockets/briefcase/phone without asking him.

 

And I'd never ask him - what's the betting the first thing I'd find is a snotty hanky

Rexi

Of course it begs the question . . .

 

Do you trump/parp/break wind in front of your OH?

Do you pick your nose in front of your OH?

Do you use the toilet while they're in the bath/with the door open?

 

Quite an interesting way of looking at relationships

 

 . . . aaaaah, reemember the "Relationships" thread from yesteryear

Saint
Originally Posted by Renton:

Of course it begs the question . . .

 

Do you trump/parp/break wind in front of your OH?

Do you pick your nose in front of your OH?

Do you use the toilet while they're in the bath/with the door open?

 

Quite an interesting way of looking at relationships

 

 . . . aaaaah, reemember the "Relationships" thread from yesteryear

Well ye, if 'needs be'....but can't see any reason to do it all  as a matter of course

FM
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:
Originally Posted by Supercalifragilistic:
 

Do you use the toilet while they're in the bath/with the door open?

Why on earth would I want to see/smell anyone evacuating their bowels when i was having a nice aroma bath

I dunno - was just extending the conversation started by the OP

Saint

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