A woman at work who I have spoke about on here before is really doing my head in and I just think as she is a parent of two boys she should think about her actions and behaviour first instead of doing what she believes is OK. The father of the her kids split up from her a while ago, and she is seeing 2 different blokes at the same time, and both relationships are sexual, she even told us that she slept with both men in one night! Now she say's it's her time to enjoy herself, but what example is she setting to her kids, and where were the kids when the men were with her that night? I don't have kids myself, but I still think how you behave as a parent teaches your kids what's wrong and what's right, am I wrong as someone childless to give my opinion on this. By the way I have not spoke to her about my feelings on this subject, because she also just does my head in for loads of other reasons, that a lot of people at work agree with as well.
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You don't half meet em Poolie!.....
and poolie, i reckon you might regret this thread 
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
and poolie, i reckon you might regret this thread
Why, I've not done anything wrong.
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
and poolie, i reckon you might regret this thread
Why, I've not done anything wrong.
lol i know that!
but i reckon the opinions are gonna be strong about this one
While you may not agree with her being a bit of a slag you cant have a go at her parenting unless you know for sure her kids are being affected by these relationships, how do you know the kids even know? maybe she only sees these men when they are at their dads? I think you are just jumping to conclusion because you just dont like her.
not having a go just seperating the parent from the slapper lol
helloooo jenstar
You should give her one yourself.
Originally Posted by stain:
You should give her one yourself.
well said
Originally Posted by Jenstar:
While you may not agree with her being a bit of a slag you cant have a go at her parenting unless you know for sure her kids are being affected by these relationships, how do you know the kids even know? maybe she only sees these men when they are at their dads? I think you are just jumping to conclusion because you just dont like her.
not having a go just seperating the parent from the slapper lol
She has told us that she takes the kids in her car to pick the blokes up to bring them back to her house so we know the kids are there, the father has little to do with her, she moans about the kids as well saying that the don't respect her. She even said that she thinks the blokes use her, well how can tou argue with that. Every day all she does is go on and on about these men, and other blkes that she knows, and see's or want her. She eve say's she is skint but then goes on to tell us that she gives the blokes money when they want it.
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by Jenstar:
While you may not agree with her being a bit of a slag you cant have a go at her parenting unless you know for sure her kids are being affected by these relationships, how do you know the kids even know? maybe she only sees these men when they are at their dads? I think you are just jumping to conclusion because you just dont like her.
not having a go just seperating the parent from the slapper lol
She has told us that she takes the kids in her car to pick the blokes up to bring them back to her house so we know the kids are there, the father has little to do with her, she moans about the kids as well saying that the don't respect her. She even said that she thinks the blokes use her, well how can tou argue with that. Every day all she does is go on and on about these men, and other blkes that she knows, and see's or want her. She eve say's she is skint but then goes on to tell us that she gives the blokes money when they want it.
Ah well thats different, she sounds umm.... lovely poolie 
Hi Pirate 
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
the father has little to do with her, she moans about the kids as well saying that the don't respect her. She even said that she thinks the blokes use her, well how can tou argue with that. Every day all she does is go on and on about these men, and other blkes that she knows, and see's or want her. She eve say's she is skint but then goes on to tell us that she gives the blokes money when they want it.
She is being used. I think she is more to be pitied than hated.
Originally Posted by Triggers:
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
the father has little to do with her, she moans about the kids as well saying that the don't respect her. She even said that she thinks the blokes use her, well how can tou argue with that. Every day all she does is go on and on about these men, and other blkes that she knows, and see's or want her. She eve say's she is skint but then goes on to tell us that she gives the blokes money when they want it.
She is being used. I think she is more to be pitied than hated.
I think the kids need to be pitied, and Poolshark needs to talk to Male workmates more.......
Originally Posted by Syd:
I think the kids need to be pitied, and Poolshark needs to talk to Male workmates more.......
Edited response: Not sure about the first part, but yep about the latter.
TBH - I'm not sure why you want advice - I'm not being funny but - she isn't a friend and she's not asking for your advice. It really is none of your business.
ride her like she's got pedals.
Originally Posted by stain:
ride her like she's got pedals.
I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole, and in my room there is only one other bloke,and that's our manager, and he can't stand her either. You know what they say, what goes around comes around, dirty slapper.
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by stain:
ride her like she's got pedals.
I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole, and in my room there is only one other bloke,and that's our manager, and he can't stand her either. You know what they say, what goes around comes around, dirty slapper.
So why do you want advice?
tell her to shut the f**k up or you'll call esther rantzen
dirty slapper.
if a bloke was doing it, he'd be the hero
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
dirty slapper.
if a bloke was doing it, he'd be the hero
Funny enough me and the girls in the office discussed that possibilty, and we all agreed the same thing, that is that as a single parent she really she put her kids first before any bloke, and if it were a bloke doing it we would still think "What an idiot".
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
dirty slapper.
if a bloke was doing it, he'd be the hero
Funny enough me and the girls in the office discussed that possibilty, and we all agreed the same thing, that is that as a single parent she really she put her kids first before any bloke, and if it were a bloke doing it we would still think "What an idiot".
From what you've posted i think the same. Single parents are free to sleep with wh ever they want etc as long as it doesnt affect thier kids hence my firsy post
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
dirty slapper.
if a bloke was doing it, he'd be the hero
Funny enough me and the girls in the office discussed that possibilty, and we all agreed the same thing, that is that as a single parent she really she put her kids first before any bloke, and if it were a bloke doing it we would still think "What an idiot".
Poolie .....................what pleasure do you get in not only running this person down on here but with everyone in your workplace too? It's not nice is it? I expect there are things about you that she doesn't like .........be thankful she doesn't choose to gossip with workmates and on a forum.
You really don't want advice - you just relish in the gossip. NOT NICE 
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by stain:
ride her like she's got pedals.
I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole, and in my room there is only one other bloke,and that's our manager, and he can't stand her either. You know what they say, what goes around comes around, dirty slapper.
I find your comments offensive Poolshark.
I try not to comment on your threads because I hate the way you constantly put down women.
I am not sure why you started this thread TBH
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
in my room there is only one other bloke,and that's our manager, and he can't stand her either.
Live and let live.
In one ear and out the other.
ÂĢ5.
Just cos kids r in the car it doesn't mean they r in the bed! They may get on well with the fellas or not. So long as adult behaviour is adults only there is no problem. She is allowed male and female friends, and she is allowed to have sex. Just cos she's a single parent does not mean she has to join a convent!
quote:am I wrong as someone childless to give my opinion on this
Not at all ... I quite agree. It's basic common sense. God help them if she is thier only role model.It's one thing to go sleeping around but another to go boasting about it and telling all and sundry.Just my opinion of course.
I may be a single bloke now, but I know when I was with my ex and her daughter for a 2 year old daughter for 4 years, I never cheaed on her mother, and her kid was the most important thing in my life, I tried to be the best example of a parent there was. Unfortunately my girlfreiend died, which I am still tryin to come to terms with, but being a parent in that sort time taught me a lot.
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
A woman at work who I have spoke about on here before is really doing my head in and I just think as she is a parent of two boys she should think about her actions and behaviour first instead of doing what she believes is OK. The father of the her kids split up from her a while ago, and she is seeing 2 different blokes at the same time, and both relationships are sexual, she even told us that she slept with both men in one night! Now she say's it's her time to enjoy herself, but what example is she setting to her kids, and where were the kids when the men were with her that night? I don't have kids myself, but I still think how you behave as a parent teaches your kids what's wrong and what's right, am I wrong as someone childless to give my opinion on this. By the way I have not spoke to her about my feelings on this subject, because she also just does my head in for loads of other reasons, that a lot of people at work agree with as well.
I am not condoning her sleeping with 2 men in one night. But do you know her kids where in the house? They might have been staying out for the night at a relatives.
Sorry if this has already been asked.
But Poolie, guess what single Mothers can have sexual relations if they so choose.
Im disgusted and amazed all at once. Firstly I cannot fathom how a woman who has had children can possibly bring herself to engage in sexual 'relations'. She has had children ffs, surely she knows now her life is now over!!!. AND how the hell did she get the chastity belt off in the first place?????? 
Originally Posted by Poolshark:
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
dirty slapper.
if a bloke was doing it, he'd be the hero
Funny enough me and the girls in the office discussed that possibilty, and we all agreed the same thing, that is that as a single parent she really she put her kids first before any bloke, and if it were a bloke doing it we would still think "What an idiot".
That's considerably milder and less judgemental than what you're calling her ^^^^ (choses not to retype highly offensive terminology)
she's a single girl and can do as she pleases,unless the kids are being neglected,beaten,forced to watch her having sex with these men i can't see the problem...or why it's any of your business to need advice on it,you're judging her as a 'dirty slapper' for having sex?
women do like sex yer know!!
Originally Posted by Gypsie~:
Im disgusted and amazed all at once. Firstly I cannot fathom how a woman who has had children can possibly bring herself to engage in sexual 'relations'. She has had children ffs, surely she knows now her life is now over!!!. AND how the hell did she get the chastity belt off in the first place??????
