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Hmmmmm, where do I start! 

 

My eldest never did the 'tactile' stuff, in front of me, but I spent many a night trying to wake up inebriated oiks, either to drag them down to the sofa, or kick them out in the street, before Mr Blizz, or the younger siblings woke up.

 

Then, when she had an accident and was burnt, Mr Blizz decided to set up a camp bed next to hers, for her boyfriend. At that stage, she could do no wrong (plus she couldn't do much else), so all the rules went out of the window!

 

Now, she is 21 and has a lovely boyfriend, who she's moved in with him. I'm guessing that they've got to the stage where they might be thinking about having the secs. 

Blizz'ard
Originally Posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

Oh & the too much information bit..    she has sent me texts in the past (when she was away at school) telling me what base her & some oik had gone to!   I flung me phone across the room & went into a yeuw yeuw yeuw meltdown..    (before picking phone back up & replying in a calm & laid back manner! 

 

SazBomb

Aimee they probably prefer  to sit in the bedroom to have their own space and to give you yours watching telly or listening to music or just talking,I doubt very much they will be doing something they should not knowing you could pop into the bedroom at any given time, having two sons and two daughters I do believe..a son is a son until he gets a wife ..a daughter is for life try not to worry it is all part of her growing up having a boyfriend and you are feeling a little bit vulnerable ..you will always be close ..your her mum

Marguerita
Originally Posted by longcat:

I have sons not daughters. They bring girls home but they don't kiss and cuddle in front of me. They usually pop their heads around the door say hello and head off upstairs. I know what they are doing, they know I know what they are doing but I just get on with what I am doing and let them get on with what they are doing. 

 i think i will follow what you do 

Aimee
Originally Posted by Blizz'ard:

Hmmmmm, where do I start! 

 

My eldest never did the 'tactile' stuff, in front of me, but I spent many a night trying to wake up inebriated oiks, either to drag them down to the sofa, or kick them out in the street, before Mr Blizz, or the younger siblings woke up.

 

Then, when she had an accident and was burnt, Mr Blizz decided to set up a camp bed next to hers, for her boyfriend. At that stage, she could do no wrong (plus she couldn't do much else), so all the rules went out of the window!

 

Now, she is 21 and has a lovely boyfriend, who she's moved in with him. I'm guessing that they've got to the stage where they might be thinking about having the secs. 

NOT THE SECS 

Aimee
Originally Posted by Aimee:
Originally Posted by longcat:

I have sons not daughters. They bring girls home but they don't kiss and cuddle in front of me. They usually pop their heads around the door say hello and head off upstairs. I know what they are doing, they know I know what they are doing but I just get on with what I am doing and let them get on with what they are doing. 

 i think i will follow what you do 

I think that's probably the best way to handle it 

 

 

(although you are fully entitled to have the "safe sex" & "no babies" talk at every available opportunity!   In fact..    as young mum's ourselves..  we are double entitled to give that talk to our daughters )

Dirtyprettygirlthing
Originally Posted by Aimee:
Originally Posted by Blizz'ard:

 

 

Now, she is 21 and has a lovely boyfriend, who she's moved in with him. I'm guessing that they've got to the stage where they might be thinking about having the secs. 

NOT THE SECS 

Well, I'm sure make sure it's OK with us first. 

 

 

edit - I mean they'll ask for our permission, otherwise that sounds a bit wrong! 

Blizz'ard
Originally Posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Originally Posted by Aimee:
Originally Posted by longcat:

I have sons not daughters. They bring girls home but they don't kiss and cuddle in front of me. They usually pop their heads around the door say hello and head off upstairs. I know what they are doing, they know I know what they are doing but I just get on with what I am doing and let them get on with what they are doing. 

 i think i will follow what you do 

I think that's probably the best way to handle it 

 

 

(although you are fully entitled to have the "safe sex" & "no babies" talk at every available opportunity!   In fact..    as young mum's ourselves..  we are double entitled to give that talk to our daughters )

I've told her i'm too young too be a granny and that i'm still young enough too have another baby myself, she looked abit green around the gills when i said that 

Aimee

hahahaha!  

 

Yeah..   MrD keeps saying that we are going to have a baby, a baby girl..   as Ickles room is gonna be available soon!    She goes nuts!   NO BABY GIRLS ALLOWED! she screams.

 

(although apparently we are allowed to have a boy!)

 

(just for the record..   I ain't having anymore babies!!   MrD had a 5 year window of opportunity when I married him 7 years ago.    I was dead releived when his deadline was up & he still didn't want a baby.   So that's it now!   Shops shut! )

Dirtyprettygirlthing

Aimee you do have the higher hand here  in that ,no child what's to see or read that their parent has been doing the biz.She hasn't saw you paw all over a man ,or had to read about it,.but by the same token let her live.don't smother her,don't try and choose her partner,you raised her.you have to trust her.

~Lee~
Last edited by ~Lee~
Originally Posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Originally Posted by Aimee:
Originally Posted by longcat:

I have sons not daughters. They bring girls home but they don't kiss and cuddle in front of me. They usually pop their heads around the door say hello and head off upstairs. I know what they are doing, they know I know what they are doing but I just get on with what I am doing and let them get on with what they are doing. 

 i think i will follow what you do 

I think that's probably the best way to handle it 

 

 

(although you are fully entitled to have the "safe sex" & "no babies" talk at every available opportunity!   In fact..    as young mum's ourselves..  we are double entitled to give that talk to our daughters )

And what about the sons ,Oh I stand corrected.you'd feel less guilty  have your dogs bits off than your poor lads,Dogs safe,poor son is doomed

~Lee~

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