Originally Posted by velvet donkey:
Ahh..... true bastard 
Yep, and he will get his in the end. They always do. Smug can only last for so long.
No, don't do it. If you're unhappy in your relationship then get out, if you ARE happy like you say you are, and you 'love' your g/f, when why the hell cheat? No good ever comes from cheating.
Nope never even been tempted, I'm happy with what I've got 
And as I always tell my boyfriend he's enough of a pain in the arse so why the feck would I want another one on the side? 
And as I always tell my boyfriend he's enough of a pain in the arse so why the feck would I want another one on the side? 
just wanted to say-i didnt do anything about it-suppose i just felt guilty cos of the thoughts-you lot are my collective priests and i was confessing
but only thoughts mind ya
still shes younger than me and beautiful
so maybe flattery got the better of me..lol
oh yeah - i was a bit pissed when i posted
but thanks for your answers
but only thoughts mind ya
still shes younger than me and beautiful
so maybe flattery got the better of me..lol
oh yeah - i was a bit pissed when i posted
but thanks for your answers
Originally Posted by EllaBella:
And as I always tell my boyfriend he's enough of a pain in the arse so why the feck would I want another one on the side?
Although hubby doesn't know and never will lol, I've had opportunities where I could have if I'd taken them up but was never interested in general, even when I felt an attraction to another man I never followed through as I knew deep down that's all it was, physical attraction, understandable maybe but certainly not worth ruining a long term marriage for where hubby is worth far more than a physical fling for. To sum it up personally there's no way I'd swap hubby for a fling
Highland fling?
With castle?
With castle?
Originally Posted by velvet donkey:
Highland fling?
With castle?
With castle?
I do sometimes develop crushes on other guys, but I'd NEVER stray and I've never loved anyone as much as I do my boyfriend. Monogamy all the way for me. 
yeah
maybe its just a mutual crush we've got
playing on my mind this is..
maybe its just a mutual crush we've got
playing on my mind this is..
Originally Posted by PeterCat:
I do sometimes develop crushes on other guys, but I'd NEVER stray and I've never loved anyone as much as I do my boyfriend. Monogamy all the way for me.
Exactly.....As they say why go for mince when you've steak in the house.Originally Posted by pirate1111:
yeah
maybe its just a mutual crush we've got
playing on my mind this is..
Pirate if you acted on this just imagine what you'd have playing on your mind when your partner found out and sent you packing..maybe its just a mutual crush we've got
playing on my mind this is..
Originally Posted by pirate1111:
so maybe flattery got the better of me..lol
Maybe! You've been with your missus a long time, and by the sounds of it she tolerates a lot
Your choice but think carefully.
ive strayed in the past and im not proud of it.
Never. Having been on the shitty end of such behaviour for many years (not for a long time now) I would never, ever do that to anyone else. It's unforgiveable.
I once strayed off the yellow brick road. Never again. 
my fingers often stray!
