Reference:Lee
Losing her husband the way she did could play a huge part in how some folk see her as being cold and being fake for putting on a happy face all the time....She may not be cold at all,she may have been so hurt she became desensitised to things which previously she'd have handled differently, thing's which she'd have reacted to differently,less emotional ,a whole list of things could apply.
yes i agree, i think Steve understood that, plus i thought it unfair that Davina said "we didnt get to know you", maybe she didnt want to talk about it. On todays repeat, the girlfriend thing was omitted (on t4 ) Although i heard her say to Josie she was married in Jamaica, but the camera,s went elsewhere so we didnt get the whole convo, as far as i am aware