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How can there be?
How can one know one is feeling love in those most unnatural of circumstances?
Surely until you have spent time together in the ordinary real world doing the daily grind, revealing likes and dislikes, showing  strange sides of your nature, how can you even begin to consider it might be love. 
Importantly are you prepared to make compromises? Do those little habits you have discovered really annoy you now that you are not on television?
You need to see people when they are being nothing but themselves.
The most you can expect to be in the house, in my opinion, is besotted.
Love is reserved for the real world.

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It's a bit like online dating/romances, neither world is real although it feels like it. People who've never physically met and spent time together chat and and a relationship develops. For some it works out for others it doesn't when they finally get together. Then again in the every day world relationships either work or don't in the end. What's meant to be is, I guess.
Yellow Rose
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squiggle - thanks for bringing the thread back on track. Strangely, Paul & Helen is all a bit of a blur to me now. It turned out not to be a lasting relationship though did it?
There have been a few relationships, marriages even children come out of BB. I don't think any of them have lasted. But that doesn't mean they weren't real. It just means it wasn't the right person at that time. It could have happened outside the house and had the same outcome.
longcat
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Strangely, Paul & Helen is all a bit of a blur to me now. It turned out not to be a lasting relationship though did it? It did, 5 years or so if I remember rightly!
It was a very valid relationship.  5 years nowadays seems to be fairly good going.  Although having been married almost 45 years myself before losing my soul mate and hearing of people celebrating Golden and Diamond wedding anniversaries you do wonder whether all this is going to die out.  Is anyone from recent years going to have a relationship that long?  And I have heard talk of being too young to be married in the early twenties but I fell in love with my husband to be when I was 17 and loved him more on the day he died than on the day we married.

But getting back to Paul and Helen what was so wonderful was that they really did fall in love 'before our very eyes' it was lovely, and for me unforgettable.  Paul if you remember was very very vain and believed himself to be a legend and Helen was very ditsy "I love blinking I do". Magical BB the way it should be and not the fake stuff we have had to endure.
squiggle

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