...here it is...
Years ago I worked with a girl, probably about 10 years ago. We were never very good friends but we got on ok, anyways, this girl is the kind of person who's not happy unless she has an axe to grind. The kind of person who thinks the world owes them a living....
A couple of years ago she was looking to move house and was looking for somewhere to rent, so I put a word in with my next door neighbour who was going to rent hers out, she got the newly decorated house....I instantly regretted it as I knew from the past she'd left lots of properties without paying bills etc....EVERYWHERE she has lived, the neighbours are always a problem...never her fault for being stuck up her own arse, you get the kind of person I mean.....
There's been abit of trouble in the last couple of months, parking wars etc, not just with me but with others in the Street, and I haven't spoken to her after she started slagging my Sister off on Facebook and we had a huge row, I told her a few home truths and to get a life instead of being such a miserable cow ALL the time, lol....
...she's now done a flit and left lots of unpaid bills and the place in shit....I feel kind of responsible as I was the one who put a word in for her to get her the house in the first place, I'm furious she could do that to the Lady who owns the house (a friend of mine), and also to me....yes, we had a fall out but still, i'd never have done that as I feel it reflects on me....
...my dilema is, should I pass her new address on to the numerous debt collectors that keep ringing MY house...yes, they've even gone to the trouble of ringing the neighbours!!!!!
What would you do? Help.....I won't do anything behind her back, I'll tell her exactly who's passed her details on.....I just can't believe what she has done....
Years ago I worked with a girl, probably about 10 years ago. We were never very good friends but we got on ok, anyways, this girl is the kind of person who's not happy unless she has an axe to grind. The kind of person who thinks the world owes them a living....
A couple of years ago she was looking to move house and was looking for somewhere to rent, so I put a word in with my next door neighbour who was going to rent hers out, she got the newly decorated house....I instantly regretted it as I knew from the past she'd left lots of properties without paying bills etc....EVERYWHERE she has lived, the neighbours are always a problem...never her fault for being stuck up her own arse, you get the kind of person I mean.....
There's been abit of trouble in the last couple of months, parking wars etc, not just with me but with others in the Street, and I haven't spoken to her after she started slagging my Sister off on Facebook and we had a huge row, I told her a few home truths and to get a life instead of being such a miserable cow ALL the time, lol....
...she's now done a flit and left lots of unpaid bills and the place in shit....I feel kind of responsible as I was the one who put a word in for her to get her the house in the first place, I'm furious she could do that to the Lady who owns the house (a friend of mine), and also to me....yes, we had a fall out but still, i'd never have done that as I feel it reflects on me....
...my dilema is, should I pass her new address on to the numerous debt collectors that keep ringing MY house...yes, they've even gone to the trouble of ringing the neighbours!!!!!
What would you do? Help.....I won't do anything behind her back, I'll tell her exactly who's passed her details on.....I just can't believe what she has done....
As you say, I owe her nothing and she's left me feeling abit responsible.....what a bitch.....I'm glad that you and suzy agree I shoold pass her details on as it's not the kind of thing I would usually consider, but after the way she has been and the state she's left the property in, i feel I have no choice....
not that using letting agencies makes you immune either. As for passing her details on, I wouldn't have any hesitation in doing so as she's hardly been a friend knowing you recommended her. However, make it clear you have nothing to do with this woman and you don't want to be disturbed about it again.
internal warnings like this sound for a reason. All that's happened is this woman had you as a friend longer than she deserved 
) and she tried to make me the go-between when they broke up to retrieve her stuff from him. He was constantly complaining to me about her being a psycho!! I told them both to take a running jump and stop making me the cause of all their worries. I stopped speaking to her for ages, and my husband told him to grow a pair 
