Reference Mount Olympus:
Also why do people think it is a good personality trait to have. .they boast. .'I speak my mind all the time and say it how it is'... to me that translates to I am a ignorant git and don't give a shit about hurting others feelings but woe betide you say something nasty (and probably true) to me..
Reference Suzi Q:
If someone wants my honest opinion, I will give it (No, I don't really think that suits you), but I try not to be nasty or harsh with it. I'm careful what I ask - I would never ask my husband if my bum looks big in this, because he would tell me!
I agree Mount Olympus. People DO think it's a GOOD thing that they are being 'frank' and 'honest' and doing you a favour by telling you the 'truth' that you're fat, you are a bit sad for being single and you SHOULD try and find a man, you WILL end up lonely if you remain child free, and other wee gems!
And yes, these kind of people do NOT like it when you say something to them.
Earlier in this thread, I mentioned this cheeky cow having a go at my other half's weight, as she has done at least twice before!! And so I attacked her back, as I was FUMING, and I said 'I don't think someone with a nose like yours should be commenting on peoples' looks!', She went PURPLE and stormed off, and the next time I saw some of her work acquaintaces, they give me a filthy look and ignored me.
Suzi Q; it's one thing to 'give an honest opinion' if someone asks you what you think, I do this sometimes, but would not be cruel with it. If my pal for instance, was wearing something that was not figure flattering and she asked me what it looked like, I would just say 'hmmm, doesn't really suit you. have you got something a little looser or something similar...) But only if they ASKED. But how DARE anyone approach you in public, who barely knows you (like an old ex colleague' or someone your partner knows, and prod at your belly and say 'getting to be a porker aren't you,?' like they did with my other half?
And as someone has said, God FORBID you say anything about them! Nasty, mean spirited insecure little toads they are. They are clearly really unhappy and so insecure about themselves and their own miserable lives, that they just want you to feel as wretched as them; like that grotbags lookalike 'Kim' from I'm a Celebrity.