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MSN have published a dating advice topice for men and women!

Here's the advice for the guys ... ladies do you agree that this wud help snare your affections and make you swoon?

1. Show respect
This is the universal rule of the polite. All other tips are just permutations of this one.

2. Listen
Pay attention to what she says, and take it to heart. When she says she's allergic to dust mites, vacuum before she comes to your place for drinks. If she says she likes Italian food, rent Big Night on DVD and invite her over for pasta.

3. Be on time
Making her wait implies that her time is less valuable than yours is.

4. Be generous
I'm not talking money here. Give freely of your praise.

5. Be reliable
A gentleman's word is his bond. If you say you're going to call, call.

The "F" word
Finally, a word on feminism. Some guys believe that a woman would be insulted if he held a chair for her. I have yet to discover a female who wouldn't be charmed by such attentiveness.

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SaintMember 10 years

LINK:
http://dating.uk.msn.com/matchscene/article.aspx?articleid=3532&TrackingID=523976&BannerID=568008&GT1=60750

Former Member

I really really hate it when a guy doesnt pay for dinner or something on the first night. I say, noooo let me pay, or at least pay half. If he goes awww okay then, or ok ill get the next one i think GAME OVER !

and im not money grabber, its just about old fashioned values i think.

EllsMember

I'd agree with those Renton but there are much more to add. They are a good start though.

SaintMember 10 years

So wot have they missed . . . .

Karma_Member

Reference:

So wot have they missed . . . .

Do as you're told
Dont hog the tele for football
Dont slag off soaps or x factor especially when they're on the tele
Dont be late back from the pub
Dont forget birthdays or anniversaries
Do make an effort with the housework
Do pick up socks and kecks from the floor and place in washing machine
Do compliment constantly - even if you dont mean it
If wifey asks 'does my bum look big in this?' ALWAYS say no

And most of all

KEEP GOB SHUT AND DONT ARGUE BACK

Think that's about it.

Blizz'ardMember 10 years

Mr Blizz was warned by his brother, who is married to my sister, that I was a rabid feminist and not to pay for the meal on our first date.

He has certainly paid for that ever since!

EllsMember

What Karma said.

Former Member

It's much easier to date blokes. You both have similar expectations then.

MoonbeamsMember

I have a mate who's just started dating a guy They have been on 3 dates and he hasn't spent a penny yet. My advice to her. get rid. She doesn't even fancy him.

liverbirdMember 10 years

Yes that's a good start - Love Karma's though! And Moonbeams - your friend should def get rid!!

MoonbeamsMember

Thats what I said, if he's this stingy now what'll he be like in a months time?

liverbirdMember 10 years

Exactly Moonbeams!

Former Member

There's a lot to be said for a knee trembler behind the pub and then back to your own bed and your own tidy space.

11/8/0910:23 AM

SazBombMember

Reference:

If wifey asks 'does my bum look big in this?' ALWAYS say no

see, I'd want to know the truth.... better than walking down the street with my arse looking like it should have its own post code and people wondering if I dont have a mirror in the house

11/8/0911:41 AM

fabienneMember

I'm not keen on having my chair held out for me. I prefer to be in control of my own chair. Ditto with holding coats. Much easier done by oneself.

11/8/0911:56 AM

Former Member

My tip would be:
Attend to your personal hygiene. Nothing more offputting than a stinky person

11/8/0912:36 PM

jamieboyMember

women are to weird to understand

11/8/0912:37 PM

SarumMember

How to Please a Woman

Follow this advice if you wish to impress your girlfriend.

Compliment her;
respect her;
honour her;
cuddle her;
caress her;
love her;
kiss her;
stroke her;
buy things for her;
tease her;
comfort her;
protect her;
hug her;
hold her;
spend money on her;
wine and dine her;
listen to her;
care for her;
stand by her;
support her;
hold her.

How to Please a Man

Follow this advice if you wish to impress your boyfriends.

Show up naked;
Bring beer.

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