re the different meanings and fancy I am not alone! I think I get it, and then something happens that makes me not so sure. So, does anyone have the last word on the current definitions of the terminology?Replies sorted oldest to newest
quote:Originally posted by Mazzystar:
A friend is someone you trust but have no romantic/sexual interest in.
An f buddy is something I dont understand.I dont think you could have no strings sex with someone you thought of as a good friend...or maybe its a more casual thing?
quote:Originally posted by jonono:
it really means someone who doesn't want to go out with you. No matter what you call it.
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Fbuddies = aka booty calls/friends with benefits = not really friends.... just someone who you can go round for sex AFTER a night out. FBuds don't go out together. FBuds don't usually want to be together. There is often a hidden reason why they are this status.... an unusually large penis for example
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Fbuddies = aka booty calls/friends with benefits = not really friends.... just someone who you can go round for sex AFTER a night out. FBuds don't go out together. FBuds don't usually want to be together. There is often a hidden reason why they are this status.... an unusually large penis for example
*stares at posters location...wonders if she has mutual friends...slowly backs out of thread*
Twas HUGE!!!quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Tis very simple Soops...
Just friends = one of the couple in question does NOT fancy the other... therefore fiddling of any kind is a big no no (with the exception of drunken happenings... which will be denied come daylight!)
GF/BF = requires a cringey convo at some point in the dating process to ascertain that you are of this status (once established it is usual for monogamy to be introduced.... and you get upgraded to the front passenger seat staus of the others car!)
Fbuddies = aka booty calls/friends with benefits = not really friends.... just someone who you can go round for sex AFTER a night out. FBuds don't go out together. FBuds don't usually want to be together. There is often a hidden reason why they are this status.... an unusually large penis for example
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Tis very simple Soops...
Just friends = one of the couple in question does NOT fancy the other... therefore fiddling of any kind is a big no no (with the exception of drunken happenings... which will be denied come daylight!)
GF/BF = requires a cringey convo at some point in the dating process to ascertain that you are of this status (once established it is usual for monogamy to be introduced.... and you get upgraded to the front passenger seat staus of the others car!)
LOL! Hi Ditty
Fbuddies = aka booty calls/friends with benefits = not really friends.... just someone who you can go round for sex AFTER a night out. FBuds don't go out together. FBuds don't usually want to be together. There is often a hidden reason why they are this status.... an unusually large penis for example
I think that my problem is that, at various stages, one can become the other, backwards and forwards if you know what I mean? (Not speaking from any personal experience of course )quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Oops... forgot ..
One Night Stand.... usually alcohol induced. It is something that is usually cringed about and regretted. Usually followed with the 'walk of shame!'
what about, 'just seeing'?quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Oops... forgot ..
One Night Stand.... usually alcohol induced. It is something that is usually cringed about and regretted. Usually followed with the 'walk of shame!'
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Just seeing is tricky, it can be a number of things
1. The bit before gf/bf status
2. They don't want anything too serious, would prefer to have the perks of the relationship without the pressure of status
3. Are keeping their options open for other people
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Gf/Bf does work, it took 3months for me to accept my ex as my friend but now we are as close as we were before without the benefits, still sometimes look and think 'i wonder if..' but I know its not going to happen
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Just seeing is tricky, it can be a number of things
1. The bit before gf/bf status
2. They don't want anything too serious, would prefer to have the perks of the relationship without the pressure of status
3. Are keeping their options open for other people
So sex is/isn't allowed at this stage?
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Just seeing is tricky, it can be a number of things
1. The bit before gf/bf status
2. They don't want anything too serious, would prefer to have the perks of the relationship without the pressure of status
3. Are keeping their options open for other people
So sex is/isn't allowed at this stage?
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
but you DO look!
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Gf/Bf does work, it took 3months for me to accept my ex as my friend but now we are as close as we were before without the benefits, still sometimes look and think 'i wonder if..' but I know its not going to happen
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
but you DO look!
Usually before having a drunken stumble to the kebab shop
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
Gf/Bf does work, it took 3months for me to accept my ex as my friend but now we are as close as we were before without the benefits, still sometimes look and think 'i wonder if..' but I know its not going to happen
That's part of my problem, unless they're of the 'wrong' sexual orientation there's more often than not always one of the two who wants something different...hence the confusion!
that will be the real test. To be fair I think I will be fine, I'm looking elsewhere 
quote:Originally posted by Pip*:
glance isn't going to materialise, but we'll see how my feelings change once he gets a new gf
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Once again I am appreciating being married... and how simple that has made my life!
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Ain't that the truth!
Try to remember the golden rule... onwards & upwards... never look back!
I know. That's why even after the kebab breath walk home he hasnt become the f buddy quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
Once again I am appreciating being married... and how simple that has made my life!
Mmmmm when I was married it wasn't simple at all...hence no longer being married
